Originally posted by picaman:
When we first got married we had sex every night sometime twice a night !
When we have our 1st kid. It was then reduce to few days per sex and then 1 weeks once and then 2 weeks once and it get longer and longer loh.
At time so desperate but she tired so also no mood to do liao.
At start of r/s... having sex often is normal, but tend to wear down over time.. imagine doing the same thing time and time over again with the same person.
Like what u said, she is tired or hasnt got the mood, so u know where the problem is... just try tackle this 1st. women are creature of feeling. Try something new each time to keep the excitement and spark alive like u all once share. Try sharing part of her work load like taking care of the kid for her, doing the house chores, etc and let her rest, or send them away for a while. Try adding toy to the fore play. Try to understand her need and dun be shy to ask what her fantasy are and maybe both of u can act it out. Try having sex at different location or different time. Maybe she need a break from her normal life, bring her on a second honeymoon?
Basically, it is simple, find out what her need are and where the problem are.... If both of you are married, I am sure if u satisfied her need, yours will be satisfied as well. If not, there could be other underlining problem which u duno.