How to motivate yourself
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When you are feeling down, someone plays you out, kena backstabbed, kena buttered by boss, kena arrowed..etc..
how do you still remain motivated? -
count your days to pay day
and tell yrself it's worth it
wahahahahahha -
scold ur boss and see his/her reaction
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surround myself with people who are supportive.
think about what i'd achieved in the past, encourage myself.
then when can think clearly again:
-think objectively about what the boss said, and try to extract learning value from it. if die die disagree with what he said or the fella was just being difficult, try to shrug it off. Cos nobody can please everyone all the time la...
-think objectively about why kena makan, kena arrowed for sai kang, or whatnot. and try to identify what can be done differently next time. may have something to do with human relationships. sometimes sai kang may not be a bad thing, and i volunteer my help to my colleagues all the time. u gain their gratitude and build trust over time.
but at the end of the day, you have to find meaning and purpose in your job. can be for money, for learning opportunities, and for some people, their job is a calling. so u have to see for yourself and think whether u want to stay on in this job -
when pay day come liao leh?Originally posted by BufPuf:count your days to pay day
and tell yrself it's worth it
wahahahahahha
this one only works when the money is 24 hours away -
take revenge. wahahahahahhahahahahaahhahhhhahahah!!
wahahhahahahahahahhhhhahahahahahahhahaaaahahhahahha!!
me last time kana once, in my old job.
Seriously, this is corporate culture. -
if me i will quit..no point. Get a better jobOriginally posted by Mospeada:When you are feeling down, someone plays you out, kena backstabbed, kena buttered by boss, kena arrowed..etc..
how do you still remain motivated? -
seek vengence... or tell urslef u will survive tis n surpass them sooner or later...Originally posted by Mospeada:When you are feeling down, someone plays you out, kena backstabbed, kena buttered by boss, kena arrowed..etc..
how do you still remain motivated? -
for cases like this, i always strongly believe in karma.
wad goes round comes round.
their retribution might not happen infront of me, but on other occasion. -
there is nothing much to look forward to....Originally posted by BufPuf:count your days to pay day
and tell yrself it's worth it
wahahahahahha
cos i everyweek got to listen to diff sides of the story from my boss...
drop everything and focus on one - this week
why u are not delivering on ur projects - next week
why are u not focus on the thing i told u, that is very impt - 3rd week
i am very worried when u are distracted from all ur projects - 4th week
and the circle repeats itself all over again...tell me how to be motivated -
rhk ur office table or ur boss
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i dun have enuff body fat like hippo to stay alive after i have been fired for scolding my boss lehOriginally posted by InnoHippo:scold ur boss and see his/her reaction -
i can tell u why....Originally posted by le cruz:surround myself with people who are supportive.
think about what i'd achieved in the past, encourage myself.
then when can think clearly again:
-think objectively about what the boss said, and try to extract learning value from it. if die die disagree with what he said or the fella was just being difficult, try to shrug it off. Cos nobody can please everyone all the time la...
-think objectively about why kena makan, kena arrowed for sai kang, or whatnot. and try to identify what can be done differently next time. may have something to do with human relationships. sometimes sai kang may not be a bad thing, and i volunteer my help to my colleagues all the time. u gain their gratitude and build trust over time.
but at the end of the day, you have to find meaning and purpose in your job. can be for money, for learning opportunities, and for some people, their job is a calling. so u have to see for yourself and think whether u want to stay on in this job
cos everyone will say...my dept is fully stretched....
or my boss will ang-kat the projects that no one wants to do by saying " I WILL TAKE IT ON"
then pass them to me -
To motivate myself :- I will find a high rise building to enjoy the world from the top view...
When I m at the top, I can see far... think further... It just makes me feel those unhappiness like backstabbing, problems are nothing compared to what I will see myself in the long term if I continue to fight... -
juz dun jump down..Originally posted by ispyyy:To motivate myself :- I will find a high rise building to enjoy the world from the top view...
When I m at the top, I can see far... think further... It just makes me feel those unhappiness like backstabbing, problems are nothing compared to what I will see myself in the long term if I continue to fight... -
technically, i don't.Originally posted by Mospeada:When you are feeling down, someone plays you out, kena backstabbed, kena buttered by boss, kena arrowed..etc..
how do you still remain motivated? -
are u for real?Originally posted by le cruz:surround myself with people who are supportive.
think about what i'd achieved in the past, encourage myself.
then when can think clearly again:
-think objectively about what the boss said, and try to extract learning value from it. if die die disagree with what he said or the fella was just being difficult, try to shrug it off. Cos nobody can please everyone all the time la...
-think objectively about why kena makan, kena arrowed for sai kang, or whatnot. and try to identify what can be done differently next time. may have something to do with human relationships. sometimes sai kang may not be a bad thing, and i volunteer my help to my colleagues all the time. u gain their gratitude and build trust over time.
but at the end of the day, you have to find meaning and purpose in your job. can be for money, for learning opportunities, and for some people, their job is a calling. so u have to see for yourself and think whether u want to stay on in this job
u volunteer ur help to ur colleagues all the time?
dun u have to do ur own work? -
yeah... probably, one will jump down if one dont see his or her future..Originally posted by Ito_^:juz dun jump down.. -
i think i am experiencing a change in my own mindset liao...
my boss ask me to do, then i do....
he wants this...i do this...
he wants that...i do that..
no point arguing...no point thinking...
end of the day, he pays me salary...
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How to motivate? Well i know if an orang utan who motivates himeself by calling another person 'dog'. umm, looking in the mirror its an orang utan no doubt
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count down to leave .. holiday etc .. that what i like to do
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if your office has a cute young female colleague who wear tightly to work everyday. there u have it. your motivation.
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for real i offer my help to them when they need it, and when i can spare the time.Originally posted by Mospeada:are u for real?
u volunteer ur help to ur colleagues all the time?
dun u have to do ur own work?
need not be alot of time spent to listen to problems, render a bit of advice, share knowledge, even to help prepare simple presentations.
in turn my colleagues help me out when im having a hard time or when they have experience in doing the kind of project im doing. -
if it is that bad, find a new job!
I got a boss who side with every one except his own team.
Anything, he will push all of us out to die first.
The good thing is among our team (excluding him), we are quite cohesive and supportive of each other. -
If we still need motivation to work then we must be at the lowest levels. After all if i don't work i got nothing better to do anyway