heh. Well wish me luck. My methods prob won't bear telling.Originally posted by Gedanken:You call that sidetracking a bit? This really is one for Agony Aunt.
On a side note, been there, done that, got the T-shirt too - it can be done, but it's slow and don't expect too much out of it.
sorry mate. carry on good man!Originally posted by Gedanken:You're going to need it. Now can we get back on track here? The meter's running.
Especially Psychodynamic Perspective.Originally posted by Gedanken:That said, I think we do actually have it better here than in some other countries. One of my former classmates is a military psychologist from the UAE, and he said he's got an uphill battle because some psychological principles are in conflict with the teachings of Islam.
Sign... you are right. Basically being Asian, we are not comfortable in telling our problems to strangers. This is especially so for men. We need to maintain a 'strong, in control' image at all times.Originally posted by Jazzytunez:It's this mindset in general population of Singaporean that seeing a psychology mean that u r a nutcase.. or scared being label as werid or having this misconcept that u need to take some sort of anti-depressive drug ( which depends on ur medical condition )
Actually, i feel there arent readily informations on those anti-depressive drugs; about their side-effects blahblah... and the costs of the treatment nia??
Other than that, i think not many people are comfortable to tell their problems, especially the skeleton in the closet kind of matters to a psychologist right?
The sad case is that if u r treated earlier, the more serious mental illness can be prevented. Some serious mental illness can only be treated and controlled but no cure...
Very interesting point, DP, and spot-on. Going back to my earlier point about how psychology is taken stateside, Americans are a lot more conscious of the applications of psychology in fields such as management, market research and education. In these parts, people still have difficulty making the distinction between psychiatrists and psychologists.Originally posted by DeadPoet:Maybe most Singaporean has the wrong impression that Psychology is only for those mentally ill? So since I am not mentally ill, why should I want to know more about this subject?
But really Psychology is more than just mental illness, depression, etc.
Yup, there's a fair bit of cross-cultural research on tendencies to report psychological problems.Originally posted by DeadPoet:Sign... you are right. Basically being Asian, we are not comfortable in telling our problems to strangers. This is especially so for men. We need to maintain a 'strong, in control' image at all times.
Expressing/Exposing your emotions is a sign of weakness. How sad...
~Luckily we can use emoticons in the Internet~
Yes, gender roles across the developed world are changing and we've finally caught up with the sensitive-new-age-guy trend.Originally posted by Jazzytunez:Actually don't u think guys, nowaday are becoming more affectionate than ever and not afraid to show their their emotional side... ?
Anyone with a traumatized experience could have difficulty conversing with a therapist. Also perhaps due to a lack of faith on the medical communtity as the communtity is seldom mentioned or recommended in the country.
That's not very likely. First, mental illness cannot be identified until the onset of symptoms, which by definition precludes prevention. Second, at the present time we don't know enough about most mental illnesses to develop preventative measures.Originally posted by Jazzytunez:The sad case is that if u r treated earlier, the more serious mental illness can be prevented.
That is very brave of them.Originally posted by Gedanken:Yup, there's a fair bit of cross-cultural research on tendencies to report psychological problems.
An interesting point of note: my sister is trying to write an article for the Straits Times on families with disabled children. So far, she has had no families that are willing to be interviewed - that's the power of stigma in these parts.
I did a project with disabled kids while I was finishing my postgrad, and the difference is stunning. Australian parents are much more willing to go public with their kids' disabilities because they understand that spreading knowledge acts to reduce stigma. Some of the parents I have met have gone on national television to spread the word.
well mental illness, i don't really think its within my family. personally though, I needed counselling in JC due to some problems emotionally. I was having suicide thoughts, and I remember posting the whole thing in the forums b4. I do believe its essential that those who've managed to sort their problems out, share with others. In fact, I would rather not talk about sexual life.Originally posted by DeadPoet:Just wondering, will you rather talk about your sexual life or mental illness in your family?
Most of you will rather talk about your sexual life right?
You race karts - of course you're suicidal!Originally posted by HENG@:well mental illness, i don't really think its within my family. personally though, I needed counselling in JC due to some problems emotionally. I was having suicide thoughts, and I remember posting the whole thing in the forums b4. I do believe its essential that those who've managed to sort their problems out, share with others. In fact, I would rather not talk about sexual life.
Hmm... sort of a Death Wish?Originally posted by Gedanken:You race karts - of course you're suicidal!
Me too. Almost jumped.Originally posted by HENG@:well mental illness, i don't really think its within my family. personally though, I needed counselling in JC due to some problems emotionally. I was having suicide thoughts, and I remember posting the whole thing in the forums b4. I do believe its essential that those who've managed to sort their problems out, share with others. In fact, I would rather not talk about sexual life.