The Date!!

• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 01:23

  I had my first date yesterday! Hehe. So here's the update of what happened:
  
  Told me to meet him at 6 at this Korean restaurant. So I went there and actually met him halfway. He took one look at me (I was wearing the very fitting midnight blue dress) and said I looked really awesome. And he has this weird way of looking at me yesterday...like you know the phrase of someone looking you all over like trying to drink you in? Sumhow he gave me that feeling last night. I enjoyed it of cos
  
  So had dinner, he paid for everything, wun even let me carry the plates to the table cos he was scared I would dirty my beautiful dress (yea, that's what he says) tho I told him I am not as clumsy as that. The dinner was alright, I think I was a bit nervous to really enjoy it. He looked a bit nervous too, so as usual I started talking crap to make both of us relaxed. I think it does work, the food took a bit longer to arrive but in the end it did. Hehe. So ate, then headed to the musical place.
  
  There is no direct bus to that place so we were contemplating whether we should take a bus (change 2 times) or just walk there. He said we should take the bus because I was wearing my high heels and it is not suitable for walking long distance. But I was thinking that taking a bus will make us reach there faster...and I want to spend time alone with him longer. Plus I hate waiting for bus to come. So I told him I wanted to walk. He still argued that we should take a bus. But like I said, I am super stubborn. We ended up walking there hehe. It was almost an 1/2 hour walk but I think it was nice
  
  So met up with two of our friends who had already arrived in the hall, the show started not longer after we arrived. It was quite a nice musical, I like the actress who performed in it because of her voice..it was those really strong voice which soared high into the sky...He said she sounded really loud, I told him it was supposed to be that way hehe...I was expecting it to be quite a sad musical but surprisingly I didn't cry. Apparently some girls who were sitting nearby were bawling their eyes out. I was touched by some of the poignant scenes but they were not tear-jerking for me.
  
  So after the show, he brought me to supper (I just had a drink cos still full from dinner) and said he would pay for everything again. So then I had the bright idea to ask...why are you spending so much?? The whole date must have cost him around $100 at least...then he said he has always worked hard and kept all his money and he doesn't know whom he wants to spend the money on until he met me...I think that was sweet of him to say that
  
  So after supper, it was getting abit late (nearly midnight) so took the bus home, he took the bus with me all the way until the place I stay (tho earlier on his other frens have been teasing him, asking him to just go back w/o sending me home cos his home is so much nearer from the musical place..I could have killed those frens of his) He walked me back until the door of the place I stay and told me to take care and wish that I have had fun. I told him I wanted to meet him for lunch today but he said he is working so he doesn't really know when he would be available but he would call me when he is free...
  
  So that's all for update...hmm quite a long one hehe...
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  11 Oct 04, 01:27

  i so hope that he'll call you again
  
  and many times
• OrneryBoy

  11 Oct 04, 01:30

  that's a nice date
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 01:36

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i so hope that he'll call you again
  
  and many times

  i hope so too..
  
  but dunno why I think mebbe he wun anymore...
  
  i m not a good date...
  
  i.c.y
• OrneryBoy

  11 Oct 04, 01:37

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i hope so too..
  
  but dunno why I think mebbe he wun anymore...
  
  i m not a good date...
  
  i.c.y

  this is just the beginning, how are you sure he won't call u??
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 01:48

  cos just now i msged him for lunch and i know he was there but he refused to reply to me anymore..
  
  i.c.y
• winning 11

  11 Oct 04, 01:48

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I had my first date yesterday! Hehe. So here's the update of what happened:
  
  Told me to meet him at 6 at this Korean restaurant. So I went there and actually met him halfway. He took one look at me (I was wearing the very fitting midnight blue dress) and said I looked really awesome. And he has this weird way of looking at me yesterday...like you know the phrase of someone looking you all over like trying to drink you in? Sumhow he gave me that feeling last night. I enjoyed it of cos
  
  So had dinner, he paid for everything, wun even let me carry the plates to the table cos he was scared I would dirty my beautiful dress (yea, that's what he says) tho I told him I am not as clumsy as that. The dinner was alright, I think I was a bit nervous to really enjoy it. He looked a bit nervous too, so as usual I started talking crap to make both of us relaxed. I think it does work, the food took a bit longer to arrive but in the end it did. Hehe. So ate, then headed to the musical place.
  
  There is no direct bus to that place so we were contemplating whether we should take a bus (change 2 times) or just walk there. He said we should take the bus because I was wearing my high heels and it is not suitable for walking long distance. But I was thinking that taking a bus will make us reach there faster...and I want to spend time alone with him longer. Plus I hate waiting for bus to come. So I told him I wanted to walk. He still argued that we should take a bus. But like I said, I am super stubborn. We ended up walking there hehe. It was almost an 1/2 hour walk but I think it was nice
  
  So met up with two of our friends who had already arrived in the hall, the show started not longer after we arrived. It was quite a nice musical, I like the actress who performed in it because of her voice..it was those really strong voice which soared high into the sky...He said she sounded really loud, I told him it was supposed to be that way hehe...I was expecting it to be quite a sad musical but surprisingly I didn't cry. Apparently some girls who were sitting nearby were bawling their eyes out. I was touched by some of the poignant scenes but they were not tear-jerking for me.
  
  So after the show, he brought me to supper (I just had a drink cos still full from dinner) and said he would pay for everything again. So then I had the bright idea to ask...why are you spending so much?? The whole date must have cost him around $100 at least...then he said he has always worked hard and kept all his money and he doesn't know whom he wants to spend the money on until he met me...I think that was sweet of him to say that
  
  So after supper, it was getting abit late (nearly midnight) so took the bus home, he took the bus with me all the way until the place I stay (tho earlier on his other frens have been teasing him, asking him to just go back w/o sending me home cos his home is so much nearer from the musical place..I could have killed those frens of his) He walked me back until the door of the place I stay and told me to take care and wish that I have had fun. I told him I wanted to meet him for lunch today but he said he is working so he doesn't really know when he would be available but he would call me when he is free...
  
  So that's all for update...hmm quite a long one hehe...
  
  i.c.y

  What a date..i guess its a smooth date..quite nice what..
  why think negatively...relax...
  1st date with him ah?
• OrneryBoy

  11 Oct 04, 01:50

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  cos just now i msged him for lunch and i know he was there but he refused to reply to me anymore..
  
  i.c.y

  haiz.. that's the thingy i hate abt technology..
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 01:57

  Originally posted by winning 11:

  What a date..i guess its a smooth date..quite nice what..
  why think negatively...relax...
  1st date with him ah?

  yea..but oh well..
  
  i need to think positive..
  
  i.c.y
• browniebaobao

  11 Oct 04, 02:16

  I hope he is true to u and not with a motive..coz somehow I have a strange feeling about it?
• Axelheat755

  11 Oct 04, 04:03

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  cos just now i msged him for lunch and i know he was there but he refused to reply to me anymore..
  
  i.c.y

  He may just be simply busy?
  
  dun think too much into it...
• Axelheat755

  11 Oct 04, 04:04

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  I hope he is true to u and not with a motive..coz somehow I have a strange feeling about it?

  Motive?
  
  you can tell?
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 05:30

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  I hope he is true to u and not with a motive..coz somehow I have a strange feeling about it?

  he replied to me after i posted that second post...said will eat dinner with me tonite...
  
  i do feel funny too. i tink i shud not fall for him yet.
  
  i.c.y
• Axelheat755

  11 Oct 04, 05:39

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  he replied to me after i posted that second post...said will eat dinner with me tonite...
  
  i do feel funny too. i tink i shud not fall for him yet.
  
  i.c.y

  Play it cool
  
  Just enjoy his company
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 05:46

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  Play it cool
  
  Just enjoy his company

  i m worried dat he mite not enjoy mine.
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  11 Oct 04, 05:50

  maybe you're too worried..
  
  sometimes you're so worried that you are not relaxed.. and he picks up on that.. and thinks you're not enjoying his company...
  
  and because of that, it sputters to a halt...
  
  try to relax...
  
  and just think of him as a good friend first?
  
  gotta go to work already...
  
  be well yah?
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i m worried dat he mite not enjoy mine.
  
  i.c.y

• Axelheat755

  11 Oct 04, 05:52

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i m worried dat he mite not enjoy mine.
  
  i.c.y

  You would start to restrict urself if u worry too much
  
  Just relax and enjoy the dinner..
  
  Just be urself
• Axelheat755

  11 Oct 04, 05:53

  And u dun have to see him everyday
  
  remember...
  
  Absence makes the heart fonder~!
  
  Good Luck & Goodnight ~!
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 06:00

  yea..i guess i dun have to see him everyday...
  
  i tink he is thinking i m trying to cling to him...and he has to come so far to have dinner with me evtime just bcos i insisted on it....mebbe i shudnt be so demanding after all...
  
  i tink wat my roomie said got into me..she said if he really likes me he wud want to be wif me evday...and sumtimes when he din show up in lunch and dinner, she wud pick on dat and wat she said wud make me feel really insecure...
  
  i.c.y
• Estee

  11 Oct 04, 08:06

  my girl my girl........ Bu Yao Hu Si Luan Xiang...... you can listen to ur roommate's words for Can Kao..... but dun dwell in them leh..... hers are all speculations too......... just be urself, enjoy urself...... k?
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 08:45

  Originally posted by Estee:

  my girl my girl........ Bu Yao Hu Si Luan Xiang...... you can listen to ur roommate's words for Can Kao..... but dun dwell in them leh..... hers are all speculations too......... just be urself, enjoy urself...... k?

  I have decided to not let him affect my emotions...my happiness shud come from within me, not due to what he does for me or not...
  
  it is easier that way..
  
  i.c.y
• Estee

  11 Oct 04, 08:51

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I have decided to not let him affect my emotions...my happiness shud come from within me, not due to what he does for me or not...
  
  it is easier that way..
  
  i.c.y

  u shd listen to the song..... Jolin's Ning Meng Cao De Wei Dao~~
  
  xing fu shi wo de... bu shi ni gei de......... kuai le yao zhi ji fu ze
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 08:53

  Originally posted by Estee:

  u shd listen to the song..... Jolin's Ning Meng Cao De Wei Dao~~
  
  xing fu shi wo de... bu shi ni gei de......... kuai le yao zhi ji fu ze

  send send
  
  i.c.y
• Estee

  11 Oct 04, 08:54

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  send send
  
  i.c.y

  is ur msn down?? i can't seem to log in..... or u give me ur gmail??
• icyprincess

  11 Oct 04, 08:56

  Originally posted by Estee:

  is ur msn down?? i can't seem to log in..... or u give me ur gmail??

  erm..my msn is on leh..but i dun see u in my list of online ppl lor...yea my gmail is [email protected]
  
  i.c.y