How to get a guy to ask...

• icyprincess

  4 Oct 04, 09:15

  If you feel like a guy likes you...has been bringing you out, has been spending time with you, you both get along fine...how to get him to ask THE QUESTION?
  
  as in ask you to go steady with him la...
  
  I dun like this hanging in between status sia...make me feel unsure.
  
  i.c.y
• hOmEz

  4 Oct 04, 09:24

  sometimes gals need to give more presure on guys.....
  
  hold his hands.. tell him u like him......
  
  simple & complicated !
• Ito_^

  4 Oct 04, 09:30

  or u can continue to wait forever, becuz u're a gal and u muz do a gal normally do.
• browniebaobao

  4 Oct 04, 09:34

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  If you feel like a guy likes you...has been bringing you out, has been spending time with you, you both get along fine...how to get him to ask THE QUESTION?
  
  as in ask you to go steady with him la...
  
  I dun like this hanging in between status sia...make me feel unsure.
  
  i.c.y

  
  ren jia bu ji ni xian ji a?
  
  how to get him to ask? duno leh..never tried that.
  
  you ask him lor haha
  
  if the feeling is mutual, should be alright...
• InnoHippo

  4 Oct 04, 09:36

  maybe the guy not ready to go into steady stage yet
• icyprincess

  5 Oct 04, 07:54

  i have made up my mind not to ask myself..dun care oledi la..since he always acts so nonchalant i shud act bo chai oso...
  
  everything is just a mistake...i shudnt get intoa new r/s so fast..i still can't bring myself to trust ppl esp guys...
  
  i.c.y
• foga

  5 Oct 04, 08:03

  simi especially guys
  cool down icy cool down....
  
  there could be some miscommunications.
  take things as it comes. let's wait and see how things goes this coming sat
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i have made up my mind not to ask myself..dun care oledi la..since he always acts so nonchalant i shud act bo chai oso...
  
  everything is just a mistake...i shudnt get into a new r/s so fast..i still can't bring myself to trust ppl esp guys...
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  5 Oct 04, 08:07

  Originally posted by foga:

  simi especially guys
  cool down icy cool down....
  
  there could be some miscommunications.
  take things as it comes. let's wait and see how things goes this coming sat
  
  

  i know i shud cool down..but feel quite angry now lor...cos i was trying to contact him one whole day but cudnt...then i found him eating dinner alone when he cud have called me...sum more dare to smile at me when i oledi look like this so i just put on my icy mask and walked past him...told myself to bo chap la..
  
  now wan to msg him oso i scared...like ppl oledi bo chai why shud i care so much?
  
  i.c.y
• foga

  5 Oct 04, 08:11

  hmmm... icy, i guess only one person can answer your question.
  him.
  you think he bo chup, so u bo chup .
  wat if he has reasons for behaving tat way?
  not tryin to find excuses for him but do speak to him yeah
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i know i shud cool down..but feel quite angry now lor...cos i was trying to contact him one whole day but cudnt...then i found him eating dinner alone when he cud have called me...sum more dare to smile at me when i oledi look like this so i just put on my icy mask and walked past him...told myself to bo chap la..
  
  now wan to msg him oso i scared...like ppl oledi bo chai why shud i care so much?
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  5 Oct 04, 08:13

  Originally posted by foga:

  hmmm... icy, i guess only one person can answer your question.
  him.
  you think he bo chup, so u bo chup .
  wat if he has reasons for behaving tat way?
  not tryin to find excuses for him but do speak to him yeah
  
  

  msg liao...
  tink he is at work right now...i shall wait for him to reply and see wat he says...
  
  i.c.y