Must you let your parents know?

• icyprincess

  30 Sep 04, 15:44

  Who thinks when you already have a steady bf..must let your parents know?
  
  i.c.y
• MiCh-

  30 Sep 04, 15:44

  not realli.. maybe after stead for 2 or 3 months after den let them know oso can.. wait till abit more stable..
• kopiosatu

  30 Sep 04, 15:44

  if you're sure, what's there to hide?
• Kenashi

  30 Sep 04, 15:45

  no need lah, u so old liao still need to tell mummy meh
  
• martin_lim85

  30 Sep 04, 15:45

  i will tell them when its time with my gf
• Estee

  30 Sep 04, 15:45

  i din tell my dad.... my brother did.... and very fast news spread..... like that also not bad.... good news or bad news i just tell my brother and everyone will know....
• FireIce

  30 Sep 04, 15:46

  no need to specifically find one time to tell them
  
  somehow they will know.......
• sbst275

  30 Sep 04, 15:46

  Well, it's best that you tell them... But dun let them interfere with bth of your's romance
• MiCh-

  30 Sep 04, 15:46

  Originally posted by Estee:

  i din tell my dad.... my brother did.... and very fast news spread..... like that also not bad.... good news or bad news i just tell my brother and everyone will know....

  lol..
• icyprincess

  30 Sep 04, 15:47

  thing is...my mom forbids me to date.
  
  yea, even when i m nearly 21 (few more months to go), when I am already 2 years ++ in college...evtime she mailed me still tell me not to get a bf..
  
  so those of u who knows abt the guy who has been chasing me...shud I tell? she will prolly kill me, but yet i wan to know her views abt it oso since she got more experience.
  
  another strategy is to just not tell, keep quiet till graduation and then into to her whoever my bf is at dat time during my graduation ceremony (since they are coming over here..)
  
  i.c.y
• kopiosatu

  30 Sep 04, 15:49

  well is the guy still chasing u, or are u 2 already in a relationship.
  
  anyway when its time for them to know, they'll know.
  
  no need to make an announcement like "he's my bf!"
• icyprincess

  30 Sep 04, 15:51

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  well is the guy still chasing u, or are u 2 already in a relationship.
  
  anyway when its time for them to know, they'll know.
  
  no need to make an announcement like "he's my bf!"

  hmm...if he asks me if i wan to go into a r/s..i tink I am 90% sure I will say yes mite ask me soon...i tink he is now gahering info thru my frens (esp my roomie) to see how i feel abt him...so tonite my roomie had one long talk wif me abt him...
  
  i.c.y
• kopiosatu

  30 Sep 04, 15:52

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  hmm...if he asks me if i wan to go into a r/s..i tink I am 90% sure I will say yes mite ask me soon...i tink he is now gahering info thru my frens (esp my roomie) to see how i feel abt him...so tonite my roomie had one long talk wif me abt him...
  
  i.c.y

  oh... well, confirm first before thinking too far eh?
• icyprincess

  30 Sep 04, 15:54

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  oh... well, confirm first before thinking too far eh?

  yes will confirm first...i dun tink i will tell her this soon la...this is just a what if thread...
  
  just asking for opinion...
  
  i.c.y
• foga

  4 Oct 04, 08:23

  
  wow! congrats icy!!!!
  
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  hmm...if he asks me if i wan to go into a r/s..i tink I am 90% sure I will say yes mite ask me soon...i tink he is now gahering info thru my frens (esp my roomie) to see how i feel abt him...so tonite my roomie had one long talk wif me abt him...
  
  i.c.y

• browniebaobao

  4 Oct 04, 08:27

  I think I will let her noe only when we are steady...meaning settle down liao..can maintain the r/s..
  
  will bring him home when we feel that we are made for each other
• sgboy2004

  4 Oct 04, 08:29

  icyprincess dear, it is time to let your parents know about mi... mi the croco
• icyprincess

  4 Oct 04, 08:45

  Originally posted by foga:

  
  wow! congrats icy!!!!
  
  
  

  xie xie ni foga
  
  feel very lucky to have him in my life
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  4 Oct 04, 08:46

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  I think I will let her noe only when we are steady...meaning settle down liao..can maintain the r/s..
  
  will bring him home when we feel that we are made for each other

  yea...for me it is still too early haha...so dun need to tell first kekeke
  
  i.c.y
• foga

  4 Oct 04, 08:47

  
  i'm glad u've made up ur mind boss
  pls accept my sincerest best wishes
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  xie xie ni foga
  
  feel very lucky to have him in my life
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  4 Oct 04, 08:48

  Originally posted by foga:

  
  i'm glad u've made up ur mind boss
  pls accept my sincerest best wishes
  
  

  yea i finally made up my mind.
  
  took me so long. i must have been blind all this while. hurt him too much, so now trying to make up for it
  
  i.c.y
• browniebaobao

  4 Oct 04, 09:05

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yea i finally made up my mind.
  
  took me so long. i must have been blind all this while. hurt him too much, so now trying to make up for it
  
  i.c.y

  
  
  steady liao ar? congrats ar!!
• icyprincess

  4 Oct 04, 09:12

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  
  steady liao ar? congrats ar!!

  not yet la...he hasnt asked...
  
  i.c.y
• foga

  4 Oct 04, 13:18

  glad tat it finally "yu guo tian qing" for both of you
  
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yea i finally made up my mind.
  
  took me so long. i must have been blind all this while. hurt him too much, so now trying to make up for it
  
  i.c.y