Can someone explain why?
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ever since he went away..i never let myself touch any wine anymore...or any cocktail for that matter..Originally posted by SnowFlag:jie jiu xiao chou, chou geng chou
/me puts the wine aside
he told me on my 21st bday he would mix me a special drink...dunno if he still remembers?
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U go gal! gO go GO!!! there's noOothing sad at all in mOoving On..Originally posted by icyprincess:it is alrite u din know... i got 2 exams next week..so I am going to work and work and work until I can think of nothing at all... this is so sad... i.c.y
chillzzz
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ooOooo.. veri pOetiC.. cOol..Originally posted by SnowFlag:jie jiu xiao chou, chou geng chou
/me puts the wine aside
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yea it is not dat sad..but this is taking an extra long time..last time i also got crushes on other guys but never lasted as long as this...Originally posted by sleepycat:U go gal! gO go GO!!! there's noOothing sad at all in mOoving On..
chillzzz
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sad things will come to a passOriginally posted by icyprincess:it is alrite u din know...
i got 2 exams next week..so I am going to work and work and work until I can think of nothing at all...
this is so sad...
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it will take longer if u still have to meet the guy in the future.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea it is not dat sad..but this is taking an extra long time..last time i also got crushes on other guys but never lasted as long as this...
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yea dats y i m avoiding him now...his bday party oso i dun wan to go already...Originally posted by SnowFlag:it will take longer if u still have to meet the guy in the future.
he would be celebrating his bday happily while I would be off to sumwhere to cry...
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cheer up my pretty lass..Originally posted by icyprincess:yea it is not dat sad..but this is taking an extra long time..last time i also got crushes on other guys but never lasted as long as this... i.c.y
d next one always gets better or U get better.. -
princess, give it time...
time is one of the things that will wear away the jagged edges you feel now...
i hope you'll be well sooner rather than later..
in the meantime, be strong yah?
we're only as strong as we decide to be -
I am trying to be strong. Sumtimes I am just sick of pretendind to be that. I want sumone to see me as I really am...but everyone just assume that I am alright since I always look cheerful even when I am hurting inside...Originally posted by the Bear:princess, give it time...
time is one of the things that will wear away the jagged edges you feel now...
i hope you'll be well sooner rather than later..
in the meantime, be strong yah?
we're only as strong as we decide to be
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go to gym n build some musclesOriginally posted by icyprincess:I am trying to be strong. -
darling icy... read again yah? *gives u a sisterly HUG*Originally posted by the Bear:princess, give it time...
time is one of the things that will wear away the jagged edges you feel now...
i hope you'll be well sooner rather than later..
in the meantime, be strong yah?
we're only as strong as we decide to be
agreed fully with ya, d ever wise bear -
the strong do hurt..
being strong does not mean you do not.. or show that you do not...
being strong is overcoming adversity.. and doing the right thing..
friends knew i wasn't all right when my ex and i parted ways.. but they were there.. just in case i needed them...
i just went home, cried my eyes out... walked around like a zombie.. but ultimately, time will heal.. you just gotta let it.. and try to let go.. after a while, you will eventually let go.. and have the strength to let go..
and the hurt slowly diminishes and life goes on.. and mayhap, one day, you'll grow to love someone else with a ferocious passion you never thought possible... and he'll love you right back with interest... and put you on a pedestal like loved women should always be...
that's being strong
i pray you will be
Originally posted by icyprincess:I am trying to be strong. Sumtimes I am just sick of pretendind to be that. I want sumone to see me as I really am...but everyone just assume that I am alright since I always look cheerful even when I am hurting inside...
i.c.y -
thanks but i have enuff of dat oledi..Originally posted by SnowFlag:go to gym n build some muscles
just feel really disappointed bcos everytime I feel troibled there is no one around to lend me a listening ear over here....when they are troubled, like when he was troubled last time, i stayed up until 4am chatting with him even when I had a really terrible headache...so imagine having a headache and then having to listen to the guy you like going on and on about the girl he really likes..that's the most painful feeling I have ever experienced...and at the same time have to pretend to be strong and to cheer him up, encourage him to go after the girl even when my own heart was breaking...
I am wondering..if he never remembers all of that anymore?
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can't help but drooOol at d beauty of d words expressed neh...Originally posted by the Bear:and the hurt slowly diminishes and life goes on.. and mayhap, one day, you'll grow to love someone else with a ferocious passion you never thought possible... and he'll love you right back with interest... (undying devotion?)and put you on a pedestal like loved women should always be...
allow me to add d blue words yah..
tat's a dream comes true -
it's just the hopeless and hopeful romantic in me who believes everyone will have that someone who will love you so much it almost hurts...
thing is... finding each other and recognising each otherOriginally posted by sleepycat:can't help but drooOol at d beauty of d words expressed neh...
allow me to add d blue words yah..
tat's a dream comes true -
aaaawwwww... another gem... !Originally posted by the Bear:it's just the hopeless and hopeful romantic in me who believes everyone will have that someone who will love you so much it almost hurts... thing is... finding each other and recognising each other
sigh......... am i becoming more romantic?
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waahhh, the bear, u hv a new fanOriginally posted by sleepycat:can't help but drooOol at d beauty of d words expressed neh...
allow me to add d blue words yah..
tat's a dream comes true -
maybe...more romantic? that's nice!
but it's no gem.. it's something i believe in and have said beforeOriginally posted by sleepycat:aaaawwwww... another gem... !
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since U noe he treated U like dirt. Try to get over him or only remember how badly he treats U loh.Originally posted by icyprincess:Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him.
He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering...
i.c.y
It takes awhile to get over someone lah.... have some patience...U'll be ok soon. -
gals R such suuckersSs for words rite?Originally posted by SnowFlag:waahhh, the bear, u hv a new fan
i'm resigned to my weakness... -
fan?
i'm not worthy...
wordsmiths, can be found in dead poets society (singapore) forum
but words are just words... without deeds to back them up.. they are just... whispers in the wind...
the best do.. after planning...
personally, i hope to be able to do instead of think about it and analyse it to death like i was in the past
Originally posted by SnowFlag:waahhh, the bear, u hv a new fan -
Originally posted by icyprincess:Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him.
He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering...
i.c.y
Love and hate are on the same coin, different sides.
You acted like you moved on, but in reality, you never did move.
You definitely need more time; there must not be haste in recovering.
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it cannot be taught. I have gone through the same thing as you. Your mind says 'leave him, he doesn't love you'. It went right into your deepest heart, but ur heart is unwilling to accept it. This happens not only to you but the entire human race in the world!!!Originally posted by icyprincess:teach me how to face it. last time I always forced myself to face it, in the end I ended up liking him back...
i.c.y
Most of the time when ppl went thru similar experiences as u but never realised that. I have gone thru exactly what u are going thru now and this is what i have realised.......it was really really really painful and slow....I hope by sharing my experience instead of teaching you(as it cannt be taught), i 'point' to u the 'direction'. You have to walk thru it yourself. But your 'journey' will definitely be less painful n faster than mine cuz nobody tells me that....i was all alone............
The reason why u failed when you forced yourself to face it is that, it's actually your mind telling you to face it, not your heart. The MAIN POINT is your HEART keeps REJECTING IT because you are by nature a very emotional person. You must start to concentrate on 'teaching' n 'exercising' your stubborn heart.
VERY IMPORTANT Heart is an extreemely fragile yet miracle creation and in fact it 'remembers' things better than brain (tts y ppl keep saying u can't forget bad or sad memories..but take away the pain)...of coz everlasting memories of too.The longer you drag, the more you will be disillusioned in future about what your heart has initially set out to look for..............TRUE LOVE FROM ANOTHER HEART.
icy, hope u really think n understand wat i ve written....learn to treasure n love yourself..is to love your heart..... -
Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:
wow thanks. I do get what you are trying to say. It is true that my heart is still refusing to move on. I am just weak emotionally.
it cannot be taught. I have gone through the same thing as you. Your mind says 'leave him, he doesn't love you'. It went right into your deepest heart, but [b]ur heart is unwilling to accept it. This happens not only to you but the entire human race in the world!!!
Most of the time when ppl went thru similar experiences as u but never realised that. I have gone thru exactly what u are going thru now and this is what i have realised.......it was really really really painful and slow....I hope by sharing my experience instead of teaching you(as it cannt be taught), i 'point' to u the 'direction'. You have to walk thru it yourself. But your 'journey' will definitely be less painful n faster than mine cuz nobody tells me that....i was all alone............
The reason why u failed when you forced yourself to face it is that, it's actually your mind telling you to face it, not your heart. The MAIN POINT is your HEART keeps REJECTING IT because you are by nature a very emotional person. You must start to concentrate on 'teaching' n 'exercising' your stubborn heart.
VERY IMPORTANT Heart is an extreemely fragile yet miracle creation and in fact it 'remembers' things better than brain (tts y ppl keep saying u can't forget bad or sad memories..but take away the pain)...of coz everlasting memories of too.The longer you drag, the more you will be disillusioned in future about what your heart has initially set out to look for..............TRUE LOVE FROM ANOTHER HEART.
icy, hope u really think n understand wat i ve written....learn to treasure n love yourself..is to love your heart.....
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I guess I do have to train my heart to move on...this has dragged on long enuff.
i.c.y