Can someone explain why?
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Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him.
He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering...
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thats what i called " you ai you hen" Love hate
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yea. sumtimes I really hate him. but yet I can't forget him *sigh*Originally posted by Evanglion:thats what i called " you ai you hen" Love hate
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dun trust your feelings all d time lah...ignore them d way you ignore him.Originally posted by icyprincess:Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him. He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering... i.c.y
in the first place, you may b too stressed with your assignments so psychologically, your mind will indulge in anything that vaguely reminds you of work.. and what better venue than to think abt/of a man.. men r NO. 1 distraction for women neh..
also.. u muz have avoided him for valid reasons in d first place, do not forget those reasons..
observe yourself a while more.. dun b too quick to get troubled loh..
.... chillzzz.. did i talk alot?
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icy,
dun worry. it will take some time to let go. just remember that there are many good trees around
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dun intentionally avoid him or suppress ur emotions...face it. it takes time....i mean maybe quite sometime...but it will definitely take even longer if u give up a chance to redeem urself n to avoid urself.Originally posted by icyprincess:Yesterday night, after I am done with all my assignments, i went to sleep. And while I was trying to get to sleep, suddenly I was overwhelmed by my emotion. I realized at that time I do still miss him.
He treated me like dirt. Why is he the one I felt connected to? Why do I feel empty now, after I have not seen him for more than two weeks...I am the one trying to avoid him anyway. He messaged me the other day but I just ignored it because I do not want this to drag on. And yet, late at night, I was the one suffering...
i.c.y
u will nt be alone as u have friends aro u...
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Yeah, there is a fine line between love and hate.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea. sumtimes I really hate him. but yet I can't forget him *sigh*
i.c.y
You wouldn't hate someone so much if you hadn't originally loved him/her in the first place.
That's why sometimes you see those love stories whereby bitter enemies grow to love each other through time ...
Or beautiful lovers become sworn enemies when things turn sour.
For you, keep the beautiful memories in your heart where you can easily recall whenever you are down ...
Bad memories, best to bury them as far as you can so that they won't be so easy to be dug out ...
Add layers of time, slowly they will cover all such unhappiness ... -
*gives icy a LARGE axe*Originally posted by SnowFlag:icy, dun worry. it will take some time to let go. just remember that there are many good trees around
go chop 'em .. chop 'em! -
sleepycat is one of those good treesOriginally posted by sleepycat:*gives icy a LARGE axe*
go chop 'em .. chop 'em! -
what treeeees lah?Originally posted by SnowFlag:sleepycat is one of those good trees
i'm a F L O W E R ... a redred R O S E neh
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i like roses. mind if i pluck it?Originally posted by sleepycat:what treeeees lah?
i'm a F L O W E R ... a redred R O S E neh -
forget that f.ucker lah...pm me for a good time...
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goOoo buy one fOr yaself lah... y muz u pluck?Originally posted by SnowFlag:i like roses. mind if i pluck it?
teacher neber teach u is it? -
snowflag went to buy a red red roseOriginally posted by sleepycat:goOoo buy one fOr yaself lah... y muz u pluck?
teacher neber teach u is it? -
hehe thanks for the responseOriginally posted by sleepycat:dun trust your feelings all d time lah...ignore them d way you ignore him.
in the first place, you may b too stressed with your assignments so psychologically, your mind will indulge in anything that vaguely reminds you of work.. and what better venue than to think abt/of a man.. men r NO. 1 distraction for women neh..
also.. u muz have avoided him for valid reasons in d first place, do not forget those reasons..
observe yourself a while more.. dun b too quick to get troubled loh..
.... chillzzz.. did i talk alot? 
yea mebbe I am too stressed oledi...have told myself times and again I must not get distracted..
actually when I am surrounded by work, I wun feel so lonely but it is late at nite I would start to feel lonely and all empty...
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Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:
teach me how to face it. last time I always forced myself to face it, in the end I ended up liking him back...
dun intentionally avoid him or suppress ur emotions...[b]face it. it takes time....i mean maybe quite sometime...but it will definitely take even longer if u give up a chance to redeem urself n to avoid urself.
u will nt be alone as u have friends aro u... [/b]
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oh I keep them where they are easily recalled...dats y everytime when I recalled them I would start crying....sumtimes I think it is better if I dun recall...if I can just forget everything that we have done together...Originally posted by Kismet:Yeah, there is a fine line between love and hate.
You wouldn't hate someone so much if you hadn't originally loved him/her in the first place.
That's why sometimes you see those love stories whereby bitter enemies grow to love each other through time ...
Or beautiful lovers become sworn enemies when things turn sour.
For you, keep the beautiful memories in your heart where you can easily recall whenever you are down ...
Bad memories, best to bury them as far as you can so that they won't be so easy to be dug out ...
Add layers of time, slowly they will cover all such unhappiness ...
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think of your present loveOriginally posted by icyprincess:teach me how to face it. last time I always forced myself to face it, in the end I ended up liking him back...
i.c.y
think of his unwillingness
think of your new resolution
actually things takes time to change. Moving on, and not looking back, is a lesson we have to learn in life. -
sleep earlier at night? go gym in d evening or drink a glass of wine before bed..Originally posted by icyprincess:hehe thanks for the response yea mebbe I am too stressed oledi...have told myself times and again I must not get distracted.. actually when I am surrounded by work, I wun feel so lonely but it is late at nite I would start to feel lonely and all empty... i.c.y
*enjoying my very sweet intoxicating muscat now*
chillzzz -
Yes there are a lot of them around. But I do not feel that connection...if you know what I mean...like I can't feel the chemistry, the bond between two souls that I had felt when I was with him last time...Originally posted by SnowFlag:icy,
dun worry. it will take some time to let go. just remember that there are many good trees around
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dun talk about wine..it reminds me of him...Originally posted by sleepycat:sleep earlier at night? go gym in d evening or drink a glass of wine before bed..
*enjoying my very sweet intoxicating muscat now*
chillzzz
he used to mix cocktail and bring em to me..told me that it would help me sleep...
and now oso no time to go gym..cos swamped with assignment...by the time I finished evthing wud be too tired...
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As u move on with your life, these good trees will appear. Give yourself the time. You r stil youngOriginally posted by icyprincess:Yes there are a lot of them around. But I do not feel that connection...if you know what I mean...like I can't feel the chemistry, the bond between two souls that I had felt when I was with him last time...
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eeeeerrrrrrrr... paiseh.. sorrie didn't knowOriginally posted by icyprincess:dun talk about wine..it reminds me of him...he used to mix cocktail and bring em to me..told me that it would help me sleep...and now oso no time to go gym..cos swamped with assignment...by the time I finished evthing wud be too tired... i.c.y
but wine is really heaven's intoxcating gift hehe..........
then again, if work can get u VERY tired, then work all out & sweat it all! -
jie jiu xiao chou, chou geng chouOriginally posted by sleepycat:but wine is really heaven's intoxcating gift hehe..........
/me puts the wine aside -
it is alrite u din know...Originally posted by sleepycat:eeeeerrrrrrrr... paiseh.. sorrie didn't know
but wine is really heaven's intoxcating gift hehe..........
then again, if work can get u VERY tired, then work all out & sweat it all!
i got 2 exams next week..so I am going to work and work and work until I can think of nothing at all...
this is so sad...
i.c.y