If you like someone...

• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:00

  Hehe..got question need opinion again...
  
  if you are a guy..and you like a girl, would you fantasize about..erm...sexually? As in think what it would be like to do 'it' with her...
  
  And if you are a girl..if you like a guy..would you fantasize about it too?
  
  Topic came up in one of my daily conversations wif frens...tot of getting views from here hehe ...
  
  i.c.y
• amuletgurl

  22 Sep 04, 11:03

  i do that all the time,im not ashamed of it
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:03

  not immediately
  
  only when i get to know her and there is a certain chemistry... it takes time.. to know her, to develop affection and trust... then that's when imagination about how things may be take over
  
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:08

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  not immediately
  
  only when i get to know her and there is a certain chemistry... it takes time.. to know her, to develop affection and trust... then that's when imagination about how things may be take over
  

  agreed...i sumtimes fantasize until quite err...
  
  let's leave it at dat.
  
  but recently began to think of sumone in that light...dunno bcos i m starting to like him or bcos i m in lust
  
  *wat's wrong wif me tonight?? must be too much stress oledi...*
  
  i.c.y
• Kenashi

  22 Sep 04, 11:09

  ya but not all the time....
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:10

  know him well?
  
  maybe you are in lust
  
  stress does that too.. amplifies emotions...
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  agreed...i sumtimes fantasize until quite err...
  
  let's leave it at dat.
  
  but recently began to think of sumone in that light...dunno bcos i m starting to like him or bcos i m in lust
  
  *wat's wrong wif me tonight?? must be too much stress oledi...*
  
  i.c.y

• choco B

  22 Sep 04, 11:11

  It's lust.
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  but recently began to think of sumone in that light...dunno bcos i m starting to like him or bcos i m in lust
  

• amuletgurl

  22 Sep 04, 11:11

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It's lust.
  
  

  wah,u so experienced
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:13

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It's lust.
  
  

  and mebbe bcos i need sumone to take over dat 'emptiness' i felt ever since i steeled my heart against my former crush...
  
  i.c.y
• kaobeikaobu

  22 Sep 04, 11:13

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  agreed...i sumtimes fantasize until quite err...
  
  let's leave it at dat.
  
  but recently began to think of sumone in that light...dunno bcos i m starting to like him or bcos i m in lust
  
  *wat's wrong wif me tonight?? must be too much stress oledi...*
  
  i.c.y

  it's absolutely perfectly normal, of coz u like him else can't be fantasizing someone u dun like or feel neutrally....maybe in a different light -physical traits or character that attracts u. but reality is reality, fantasy is still fantasy.
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:19

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:
  
  
  it's [b]absolutely perfectly normal, of coz u like him else can't be fantasizing someone u dun like or feel neutrally....maybe in a different light -physical traits or character that attracts u. but reality is reality, fantasy is still fantasy. [/b]

  wondering if if a guy likes me he will fantasize dat way oso...
  
  there is definitely sumthing wrong wif me tonite...i tink too stressed out wif my MP oledi...
  
  i.c.y
• Parka

  22 Sep 04, 11:23

  Let the imagination run wild.
  
  Woohoo.
  
  
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:24

  why not?
  
  what's good for the goose is good for the gander you know?
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  wondering if if a guy likes me he will fantasize dat way oso...
  
  there is definitely sumthing wrong wif me tonite...i tink too stressed out wif my MP oledi...
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:26

  when i tink abt him fantasizing abt me in 'that' way, i get 'turned' on...
  
  wat am i saying!!
  
  i.c.y
• choco B

  22 Sep 04, 11:27

  It could also be due to your hormonal cycle
  
  Some days of the month you're more ready to breed, & instinct takes over. (Trying hard not to sound dirty here LOL)
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  and mebbe bcos i need sumone to take over dat 'emptiness' i felt ever since i steeled my heart against my former crush...
  
  i.c.y

• choco B

  22 Sep 04, 11:28

  
  
  

  Originally posted by amuletgurl:

  wah,u so experienced

• kaobeikaobu

  22 Sep 04, 11:29

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  wondering if if a guy likes me he will fantasize dat way oso...
  
  there is definitely sumthing wrong wif me tonite...i tink too stressed out wif my MP oledi...
  
  i.c.y

  nite? u in states?
  stress's juz the catalyst to urge urself to fill up tt void.
  be careful of rebound...
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:30

  Originally posted by choco B:

  It could also be due to your hormonal cycle
  
  Some days of the month you're more ready to breed, & instinct takes over. (Trying hard not to sound dirty here LOL)
  
  

  hehe. mebbe. does guys have this cycle too? or just think abt it all the time? my frens said guys have SEX printed in their mind like every seconds....true or not?
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:30

  if you wanna stop, maybe should work on the vid?
  
  or you wanna go on
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  when i tink abt him fantasizing abt me in 'that' way, i get 'turned' on...
  
  wat am i saying!!
  
  i.c.y

• kaobeikaobu

  22 Sep 04, 11:31

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  when i tink abt him fantasizing abt me in 'that' way, i get 'turned' on...
  
  wat am i saying!!
  
  i.c.y

  then go ahead man.... let it flow!!!
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:33

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

  nite? u in states?
  stress's juz the catalyst to urge urself to fill up tt void.
  be careful of rebound...

  yes i m in US.
  i know. i m cautioning myself against dat.
  but it is hard when u have sumone paying so much attention to this lonely self...
  i m weak.
  he said i always look so cheerful and strong.little does he know wat goes on behind dat.
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:34

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  if you wanna stop, maybe should work on the vid?
  
  or you wanna go on
  
  

  can't work on the video.
  my PC wan to die oledi cos i have been storing all the .avi clips ...take up too much space.
  and i have to work on my assignment now...plus got quiz tomorrow..just studied halfway for dat.
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:35

  not that true... not all.. some..
  
  as for cycles, yes... to a lesser extent i guess...
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  hehe. mebbe. does guys have this cycle too? or just think abt it all the time? my frens said guys have SEX printed in their mind like every seconds....true or not?
  
  i.c.y

• icyprincess

  22 Sep 04, 11:40

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  not that true... not all.. some..
  
  as for cycles, yes... to a lesser extent i guess...
  
  

  hmm curious now...guys oso got cycle?
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  22 Sep 04, 11:42

  not that pronounced i think...
  
  some of us go through depression, exhilaration, moodswings and all that for no reason too..
  
  as for the lust factor, i think it's high most of the time for most guys as they're hardwired by nature to be so...
  
  

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  hmm curious now...guys oso got cycle?
  
  i.c.y