Originally posted by icyprincess:
What if your parents expect too much of you? Not to talk bad abt my parents but ever since I am young, they have been expecting me to be perfect. To get good grades everytime in every test until it has reached a point when I feel really tired...like my whole life is supposed to be dedicated to fulfilling their wish, not my own. And if I don't get good grade, I will get nagged for like a few days. And sumtimes they hit me too. But thankfully all of that stopped when I got the scholarship to come over here to study..only then I feel my first taste of freedom.
It is like they never try to understand me lor...I dun dare to talk to them abt my problems because usually they wun advise me or anything, they will just flare up and start to scold me even before I finish telling them.
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its because u dun wanna talk to them thats why they are treating you this way...
i was like that last time, then i decided to open up to them and talk more often...after a while they begin to understand that you are really undergoing alot of stress and they stop bugging you already...u need to earn their trust,its not willingly given