Can feelings be developed over time?
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i try to...but it is so hard bcos he will suddenly appear in my mind for no reason at all...Originally posted by foga:icy, sometimes it's not about forgetting that special someone, at times it's about not thinking abt him/her. jus immerse urself in ur studies and ur friends... never lose sight of the reason u're there for . . . it's not for him. it's for urself. best wishes....
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this song kept playing in my mind...
"wo wen guo ni de lian
ni suan shuo chen zai wo de shuang jian
gan jue you na meh tian, wo na meh yi lian...
wo wen guo ni de lian
ni yi jing bu zai wo de sheng bian
wo hai shi zhu fu ni guo de hao yi dian..."
duan dian by zhang jing xuanOriginally posted by icyprincess:i try to...but it is so hard bcos he will suddenly appear in my mind for no reason at all...
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Originally posted by foga:this song kept playing in my mind...
"wo wen guo ni de lian
ni suan shuo chen zai wo de shuang jian
gan jue you na meh tian, wo na meh yi lian...
wo wen guo ni de lian
ni yi jing bu zai wo de sheng bian
wo hai shi zhu fu ni guo de hao yi dian..."
duan dian by zhang jing xuan
can send to me a?
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I thought u already forgotten about him???Originally posted by icyprincess:i just woke up after dreaming of him (the guy who hurt me)
there were tears on my cheeks..obviously I have been crying even when I was sleeping..I was crying subconsciously...
And I found out he has blocked me in his MSN list.
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aiyah it's like that one lah....... say nia mah.... very easy one..... it's all still in her heart..... she just needs more time... that's all..... anyway as i always say......Originally posted by Kenashi:I thought u already forgotten about him???
"it's not a matter of forgetting.... just a matter of getting used to...." -
yea..it is not that easy la..sumtimes i will forget him then suddenly i will dream of him even when i m asleep...
he doesnt know how big an impact he has on me...dats the saddest thing.
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I think it is more to keeping that person in yr heart and seal it as a memory rather than to keep thinking of her/him.Originally posted by Estee:aiyah it's like that one lah....... say nia mah.... very easy one..... it's all still in her heart..... she just needs more time... that's all..... anyway as i always say......
"it's not a matter of forgetting.... just a matter of getting used to...." -
If u want to forget him, try to stop yrself from getting too close.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea..it is not that easy la..sumtimes i will forget him then suddenly i will dream of him even when i m asleep...
he doesnt know how big an impact he has on me...dats the saddest thing.
i.c.y
Why should u care that he ban u when u r trying to forget him.
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he will always be in my memory la...dats y i cant forget abt him lor...Originally posted by Kenashi:I think it is more to keeping that person in yr heart and seal it as a memory rather than to keep thinking of her/him.
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just sad and disappointed..cos i really value the frenship i had wif him last time...Originally posted by Kenashi:If u want to forget him, try to stop yrself from getting too close.
Why should u care that he ban u when u r trying to forget him.
wud u feel sad if one of your closest frens suddenly ignore you and block you in MSN? you will keep wondering what wrong have you done rite?
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Put him into distant memory.Originally posted by icyprincess:he will always be in my memory la...dats y i cant forget abt him lor...
i.c.y
Really at the back of yr head.
Don't think of him anymore.
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Friends don't do that to one another.Originally posted by icyprincess:just sad and disappointed..cos i really value the frenship i had wif him last time...
wud u feel sad if one of your closest frens suddenly ignore you and block you in MSN? you will keep wondering what wrong have you done rite?
i.c.y
I won't feel sad, he should feel sad becos he didn't thrash out the issue with me but choose to ignore me.
I am the kind of person who don't give a damn even if the whole world turn against me. Superman!!!!
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Can take anyone on anytime.
One against a million!!!
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got...when we were still close frens at that time...Originally posted by Kenashi:Put him into distant memory.
Really at the back of yr head.
Don't think of him anymore.
Did he give u any pleasant memory to think of???
now i wud never have the courage to confess my feelings to the one i like again...cos it will ruin the frenship as well...sigh..
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good la for uOriginally posted by Kenashi:Can take anyone on anytime.
One against a million!!! 
i can't...
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It jus goes 2 show the one that causes the most hurt, lingers the longest ...
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Ok same like me.Originally posted by icyprincess:got...when we were still close frens at that time...
now i wud never have the courage to confess my feelings to the one i like again...cos it will ruin the frenship as well...sigh..
i.c.y
I don't dare to confess to a gal I fancy in the office becos of my previous bad experience of losing a friend when I told her of my feeling.
Better to remain as friend than to risk losing even that. -
i tink of all crushes i have had before, he caused me the most hurt already lor..Originally posted by mercutioz:It jus goes 2 show the one that causes the most hurt, lingers the longest ...
mebbe cos we were frens before and now suddenly become like enemy oledi...
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i told him oso bcos he said last time he can handle it one lor...Originally posted by Kenashi:Ok same like me.
I don't dare to confess to a gal I fancy in the office becos of my previous bad experience of losing a friend when I told her of my feeling.
Better to remain as friend than to risk losing even that.
haih..next time wun believe ppl's words anymore..
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at least you like him not as much YET.. at least there's a start.Originally posted by icyprincess:Do you all believe that feelings can develop over time? As in right now, there is a guy who likes me but I don't really like him that much yet...not as much as I like the other guy tho, the one who hurt me a lot...
But I have been going out with him, sometimes very touched also la by the things he has done for me...but still the feeling is not quite there yet. Do you think I can develop it over time? Do you believe that love is something that takes time to grow?
I dont usually fall in love. there are times when friends kept telling me, why dont try to build your liking for the gals who like u... but to me, if I dont have special feelings (not a bit on the brg type but more of friends type) how I start with? I rather not waste their time but giving them false hopes.
Since you are going out often with him... maybe.. just maybe you will get the feeling.. -
So serious huh.Originally posted by icyprincess:i tink of all crushes i have had before, he caused me the most hurt already lor..
mebbe cos we were frens before and now suddenly become like enemy oledi...
i.c.y
At least mine treated me like a stranger only.
But come to think of it, if u cannot make a person love u, u can always make her/him hate u. At least she/he will always remember u!!! -
Totally agreed. Not my style to love someone for the sake of being in love.Originally posted by X-men:at least you like him not as much YET.. at least there's a start.
I dont usually fall in love. there are times when friends kept telling me, why dont try to build your liking for the gals who like u... but to me, if I dont have special feelings (not a bit on the brg type but more of friends type) how I start with? I rather not waste their time but giving them false hopes.
Since you are going out often with him... maybe.. just maybe you will get the feeling..
Not fair to the other party too. -
hopefully lor...Originally posted by X-men:at least you like him not as much YET.. at least there's a start.
I dont usually fall in love. there are times when friends kept telling me, why dont try to build your liking for the gals who like u... but to me, if I dont have special feelings (not a bit on the brg type but more of friends type) how I start with? I rather not waste their time but giving them false hopes.
Since you are going out often with him... maybe.. just maybe you will get the feeling..
but then dats like wat estee said to me last nite, mebbe gals can let their feelings for a guy grow easier but guys harder to grow feelings for gals...
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i dun wan to be remembered dat way lor...Originally posted by Kenashi:So serious huh.
At least mine treated me like a stranger only.
But come to think of it, if u cannot make a person love u, u can always make her/him hate u. At least she/he will always remember u!!!
this is what ppl said..do one wrong thing, all the right things u have done before are also forgotten..
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Maybe guys don't like things that come easy.Originally posted by icyprincess:hopefully lor...
but then dats like wat estee said to me last nite, mebbe gals can let their feelings for a guy grow easier but guys harder to grow feelings for gals...
i.c.y
Need the challenge to win it in order to cherish it