Can feelings be developed over time?
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yea dats y i asked him out this weekend lor...Originally posted by Kenashi:Ask him out for coffee n talk to him on wkend.
Buy him something or better yet make him something.
He will appreciate it.
dunno wat to buy for him..his bday over oledi...
mebbe christmas lor...
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are those closed buddies u mentioned, all gals?Originally posted by Estee:as said over msn...... i believe it's easier for gals to develop the Ri Jiu Shen Qing feelings for the guys and harder for the guys to develop those kinder feelings for the gals..... this is deduced from some of my closed buddies' experiences..... -
yeah man..... guys mostly gib me the..... like means like.... dun have next time maybe will like kinda thingie leh.....Originally posted by SnowFlag:are those closed buddies u mentioned, all gals?
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maybe lor...mebbe dats y guys do the pursuing most of the time...Originally posted by Estee:as said over msn...... i believe it's easier for gals to develop the Ri Jiu Shen Qing feelings for the guys and harder for the guys to develop those kinder feelings for the gals..... this is deduced from some of my closed buddies' experiences.....
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Or cook something for him.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea dats y i asked him out this weekend lor...
dunno wat to buy for him..his bday over oledi...
mebbe christmas lor...
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Mix with love, surely he will be very happy. -
For me, I think feelings can be developed over time. Not sure about others.Originally posted by Estee:yeah man..... guys mostly gib me the..... like means like.... dun have next time maybe will like kinda thingie leh..... -
well.... shd use back the same thingie i like to use all the time.... doesn't apply to all...... cannot generalise again..... hahahahaOriginally posted by SnowFlag:For me, I think feelings can be developed over time. Not sure about others. -
haha...i m the most terrible cook in the whole world...Originally posted by Kenashi:Or cook something for him.
Mix with love, surely he will be very happy.
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how about handicraft?? ;POriginally posted by icyprincess:haha...i m the most terrible cook in the whole world...
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or writing?? errrr -
hmm the fact that you wonder means he has a place in ur heart oredi... over time, the feeling will grow...provided there is no distractions...Originally posted by icyprincess:I think I will...
There was once I think he wanna gave up on me already...like 2 weeks din contact me or anything then I keep wondering if he still likes me..
Then after dat he asked me out again...so now I think okie oledi lor..
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Originally posted by F.O.S:
Ur GF is a he?
Thats why I always bring my GF out for a walk in weekends, incase 1 day he leave me I won't feel so guilty
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communication is the key...Originally posted by icyprincess:thank you, thank you
just wish dat i can like him more
I just dun tink i deserve him...dunno why...
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I guess...hopefully there will be no distraction la...Originally posted by Axelheat755:hmm the fact that you wonder means he has a place in ur heart oredi... over time, the feeling will grow...provided there is no distractions...
I think he has a place in my heart as a fren who really cares abt me..cos sumtimes when i put in my msn sign in name saying dat i m tired or sick, he will msg me to ask how am i...dats why i m touched by what he does for me..
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Then how about drawing a picture of him!!!Originally posted by icyprincess:haha...i m the most terrible cook in the whole world...
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You are right!Originally posted by Estee:as said over msn...... i believe it's easier for gals to develop the Ri Jiu Shen Qing feelings for the guys and harder for the guys to develop those kinder feelings for the gals..... this is deduced from some of my closed buddies' experiences.....
Worse is those guys take advantage of the gers... -
ai i dunno la..really no idea wat to get for him la..have to wait until i go on my trip then i can buy stuff...Originally posted by Estee:how about handicraft?? ;P
or writing?? errrr
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Can be developed. But easier if there is some liking, or admiration, or acceptance from the beginning.
Is difficult to go from Zero to hero. -
u sound lonely...Originally posted by Estee:well.... shd use back the same thingie i like to use all the time.... doesn't apply to all...... cannot generalise again..... hahahaha -
handmade stuff will always touch ppl the most...Originally posted by icyprincess:ai i dunno la..really no idea wat to get for him la..have to wait until i go on my trip then i can buy stuff...
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i like him as a fren lor...really admired him la cos he is way more hardworking, way smarter than me haha...i just know how to bring him out ot have fun only...dunno why he likes me oso...dats why sumtimes i feel like i dun deserve him...Originally posted by choco B:Can be developed. But easier if there is some liking, or admiration, or acceptance from the beginning.
Is difficult to go from Zero to hero.
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errrr.......... hahahaha...... lonely but i'm ok..... used to it lah..... got frens also not bad....Originally posted by Axelheat755:u sound lonely...
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dunno wat to make..and since we are not official yet, feel very pai seh to just suddenly give him stuff...Originally posted by Axelheat755:handmade stuff will always touch ppl the most...
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Why paiseh??Originally posted by icyprincess:dunno wat to make..and since we are not official yet, feel very pai seh to just suddenly give him stuff...
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Just a gift what!!! -
errrr thank him for his time and concern maybe??Originally posted by icyprincess:dunno wat to make..and since we are not official yet, feel very pai seh to just suddenly give him stuff...
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you feel like that cos u feel he doing things for you but you neber do stuff for him.. you feel you owe him?Originally posted by icyprincess:i like him as a fren lor...really admired him la cos he is way more hardworking, way smarter than me haha...i just know how to bring him out ot have fun only...dunno why he likes me oso...dats why sumtimes i feel like i dun deserve him...
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