Need opinion...
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What do you think of ppl you online suddenly found out your phone number (out of the blue, you din give it to him or anything) and then proceed to call your house? He din tell you that he is going to call or anything and you are wondering how he got the number since you never tol dhim. Something like this happened to me just now and I would say I was pretty freaked out. Would you too, if this had happened to you? Esp if you are a girl and the person calling is a guy you dunno too well? (only started chatting with him for like a few weeks)
i.c.y -
i think it's pretty rude
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Maybe he is interested in you?
Call my hp is ok..since i got free incoming..can entertain him as long as im free. I seldom receive calls aslo. Those Starhub cable Scv always call me de..and i entertain them then say dun want till they dun dare call again...
Call my home is no no..I seldom give pple my home number de..
Find out who gave him ur number lor and ask that person to ask for your consent before giving away your numbers ba. It's privacy to me. -
yea lor..I was quite shocked when he called and he din even intro himself at first...I have to keep on guessing until I finally asked him for his name...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Maybe he is interested in you?
Call my hp is ok..since i got free incoming..can entertain him as long as im free. I seldom receive calls aslo. Those Starhub cable Scv always call me de..and i entertain them then say dun want till they dun dare call again...
Call my home is no no..I seldom give pple my home number de..
Find out who gave him ur number lor and ask that person to ask for your consent before giving away your numbers ba. It's privacy to me.
Plus I thought he was one of my frens here because he sounds very much like him. And I am really bad at sound recognition also lor so i can't differentiate ppl's voice. So at first since I thought it was my friend, i talked to him in a very erm..how do you say...harsh way? Maybe not harsh la, but usually I won't talk like that with ppl that I just know...only with ppl I really accustomed to.
Then when he revealed who he is, I was so shocked I dunno what to say. One thing is I was wondering how he could get my number. And then he said he had been calling for a long time but could never get me in the room. And there was once he actually made it to the place where I stayed! See, freaky or not?
So I was getting very scared already then luckily at time I was blasting my music in the background so I lied to him saying that there is a party going on in my place so I need to get back to the guests. He finally let me go and then said he would call again soon! Arrrgh!
Dunno how lor...
i.c.y -
u can ignore the calls wat
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stalker.
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never call without permission......very rude, very despo and even go to the place u are staying??? like kena stalk like that....tell him to come clean with everything about himself(not nick) , and how he got ur no. then u will decide if u still want to be fren with him....if he is unwilling or u think his story is not the truth... then just ignore him...
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Is he a forumite? If he is, then dun hopefully he will know what to do after seeing this.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea lor..I was quite shocked when he called and he din even intro himself at first...I have to keep on guessing until I finally asked him for his name...
Plus I thought he was one of my frens here because he sounds very much like him. And I am really bad at sound recognition also lor so i can't differentiate ppl's voice. So at first since I thought it was my friend, i talked to him in a very erm..how do you say...harsh way? Maybe not harsh la, but usually I won't talk like that with ppl that I just know...only with ppl I really accustomed to.
Then when he revealed who he is, I was so shocked I dunno what to say. One thing is I was wondering how he could get my number. And then he said he had been calling for a long time but could never get me in the room. And there was once he actually made it to the place where I stayed! See, freaky or not?
So I was getting very scared already then luckily at time I was blasting my music in the background so I lied to him saying that there is a party going on in my place so I need to get back to the guests. He finally let me go and then said he would call again soon! Arrrgh!
Dunno how lor...
i.c.y
If he is making you really uncomfortable, tell him straight. He called you at your place? That's aggressive leh..
Tell him to stop, if not you cannot be even friends lor. And then is he mentally sound? -
downright rude, and if he's interested in you, this is probably the worst way to make an impression
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get his number and call him back lah.
whenever, u feel uncomfortable about this .... just call him -
I think that's the problem with chatroom etc. We slowly revealed ourselves unknowingly, so, that is where ppl can try to track down anotherOriginally posted by icyprincess:What do you think of ppl you online suddenly found out your phone number (out of the blue, you din give it to him or anything) and then proceed to call your house? He din tell you that he is going to call or anything and you are wondering how he got the number since you never tol dhim. Something like this happened to me just now and I would say I was pretty freaked out. Would you too, if this had happened to you? Esp if you are a girl and the person calling is a guy you dunno too well? (only started chatting with him for like a few weeks)
i.c.y
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No, he is not a forumnite here. I have a blog and he found me there I think.Originally posted by browniebaobao:Is he a forumite? If he is, then dun hopefully he will know what to do after seeing this.
If he is making you really uncomfortable, tell him straight. He called you at your place? That's aggressive leh..
Tell him to stop, if not you cannot be even friends lor. And then is he mentally sound?
At first like quite okie...I thought he just wants to chat occasionally. Now he is like messaging me every day (almost, but sometimes I just declined to talk to him) and now he is calling me at my house. I am getting a bit scared and nervous too.
No la, I dun wan to call him back, later give him the wrong ideas..how??
i.c.y -
hmm....hint to him in ur blog? or frankly tell him tat u r not comfortable wif him calling u. say it in a nice way.
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dunno leh..I think he might know someone from my school la...and then my school here is quite funny one...like if u know my name and if you come to my dorm, you will be able to find my phone number...Originally posted by huiz:hmm....hint to him in ur blog? or frankly tell him tat u r not comfortable wif him calling u. say it in a nice way.
i.c.y -
Originally posted by icyprincess:dunno leh..I think he might know someone from my school la...and then my school here is quite funny one...like if u know my name and if you come to my dorm, you will be able to find my phone number...
i.c.y
But how can your school reveal your number to him?
Hmm..
Anyway, just be careful..
If he seems to be harrassing you..then dun need to be too kind to him. -
yea i oso dunno why the school policy is like dat...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
But how can your school reveal your number to him?
Hmm..
Anyway, just be careful..
If he seems to be harrassing you..then dun need to be too kind to him.
if he knows my name, he can even find my phone number online!
but he says he drove all the way here la (he stays like 5 hours away) to see me in person...really freaky!
dunno if he is despo or wat...dun feel like having anything to do wif him anymore...
i.c.y -
5 hours? Sg travel from East to west also take less than 2 hours..
where is he from? KL har?
How come he saw your blog nia and so interested to know you? Have he ever met you before? -
I am now in US...Originally posted by browniebaobao:5 hours? Sg travel from East to west also take less than 2 hours..
where is he from? KL har?
How come he saw your blog nia and so interested to know you? Have he ever met you before?
I am sumwhere in Chicago, he is in a state 5 hours away from where I stay...
I got talk to him before la, like a few times online then he saw my pics on my blog lor...I oso dunno why he is so interested....
i.c.y -
Originally posted by icyprincess:I am now in US...
I am sumwhere in Chicago, he is in a state 5 hours away from where I stay...
I got talk to him before la, like a few times online then he saw my pics on my blog lor...I oso dunno why he is so interested....
i.c.y
Wow...Slipped my mind that you are not in Sg..
wow 5 hours...juz like ..Meg Ryan travelled from the west of the state to the east..juz to see Tom Hanks..and they were both attracted to each other..love at first sight.
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this one not like this la...this one is very freaky oledi...i dun have any good feelings abt him..plus i dun like him dat way...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Wow...Slipped my mind that you are not in Sg..
wow 5 hours...juz like ..Meg Ryan travelled from the west of the state to the east..juz to see Tom Hanks..and they were both attracted to each other..love at first sight.
i guess my heart is still wif someone else....
i.c.y -
could be some surveys or forms that u filled up?
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i dun tink so cos i actually know who this person is..i have talked to him online before...Originally posted by BufPuf:could be some surveys or forms that u filled up?
i.c.y -
Die le...dat 'person' called again just a few minutes ago...how??I really dun feel like talking to him lor...so I lied to him saying I am going out for like the night and wun come back until very very late. But how to keep avoiding him leh? I will run out of excuses soon...
i.c.y -
Eh, maybe he got your number from another friend of yours. Do you both have mutual friends???Originally posted by icyprincess:i dun tink so cos i actually know who this person is..i have talked to him online before...
i.c.y
But seriously, sounds very much like a stalker to me ... if he can say that he drove all the way to see you just like that ... -
dats y now i dun wan to talk to him anymore lor...i tink mebbe he knows one of my frens here la...but i m not sure yet...Originally posted by Kismet:Eh, maybe he got your number from another friend of yours. Do you both have mutual friends???
But seriously, sounds very much like a stalker to me ... if he can say that he drove all the way to see you just like that ...
i.c.y