~Letting Go~
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To let go doesn't mean to stop caring; It means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off.... It is the realization that I can't control another.....
To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and change or blame another, it is to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcome, but to allow others to affect their own destiny.
To let go is not to be protective, It is to let another face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings then to correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for today.
To let go is to fear less and love more.
These are the instructions on how to let go. Perhaps it is letting go of a rebellious child or a burden of sorrow, losing a loved one or learning to live with heartache which we just cannot let go of.
Read this over. Study it. Pray over it and you will find the letting go of your load will allow your spirit to soar ... to be free, to completely give it to God, and let the work be done within you where the need is, anyway.
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if it's really that easy to let go.....
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x 2Originally posted by Estee:if it's really that easy to let go.....
takes time bah..
sometimes say easy..but heart dun wan to let go..also like tht -
i`m always sad when i hear the song IF I LET U GO by WESTLIFE
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yah lor........ say very easy one... but deep inside..... u know ur heart's holding on.... oh well.Originally posted by BufPuf:x 2
takes time bah..
sometimes say easy..but heart dun wan to let go..also like tht
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Originally posted by BaByBoY:i`m always sad when i hear the song IF I LET U GO by WESTLIFE
But if i let u go
how would i ever know
what my life would be
holding you close to me..
It takes time to let go la..can be very short, can be very long..but it really depends on whether you want to let go..and the reality..the fact that the one will never be back or does not deserve your love..will make me let go lor.. -
I still cannot let go...
I dunno why
I am still holding onto something that has no future -
Read a few more time... the 1st line sayOriginally posted by Patrik:I still cannot let go...
I dunno why
I am still holding onto something that has no futureTo let go doesn't mean to stop caring; It means I can't do it for someone else.
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i know what you mean...Originally posted by Patrik:I still cannot let go...
I dunno why
I am still holding onto something that has no future
sometimes we can't really control how our heart feels...
but give it time...you will get over it...
i.c.y