Anyone ever feel like life is so damn unfair?
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hehe..somehow I saw that croco animation of yours walking like that...make me smile already hahaOriginally posted by sgboy2004:
i think it is cute, got ppl tink it is irritating rite? I saw posts abt dat hehe
i.c.y
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Thats life....imagine if it's unfairness in the other way.Originally posted by icyprincess:Have you ever felt like life is unfair to you? Like you work so damn hard for a certain something and in the end you didn't get what you wish for. maybe because I am someone who believe that hard work will give you everything you wish for. So when it doesn't I feel like I don't know what to believe in anymore.
I used to be motivated by the thought that if I put in a lot of efforts, I will have success. But I have realized now that this is often not the case. Take for instance my exams. I will study my ass off and still manage to get below average. And I will watch my other friends who never study and always copy their homework answers from me get A in all their exams. And I will feel that life is so unfair...
Anyone has been through this before? Sigh..I guess I am not feeling too good today. Maybe because I got my exam result back today and they are not up to my expectation...
And I have finals coming up in a few days time. And I realized I still think of him constantly and almost cried on my way back home today because I remember how we had been last time. ..Give me strength...
i.c.y
U didn't to much but achieve everything U wnt while another person work his/her socks off and is poor, miserable and suffering......Will U feel like complaining too?
No, choice....continue work hard...haven has a way for us all. -
u work hard, but dun achieve your goals, ppl label u a loser.Originally posted by xking:Thats life....imagine if it's unfairness in the other way.
U didn't to much but achieve everything U wnt while another person work his/her socks off and is poor, miserable and suffering......Will U feel like complaining too?
No, choice....continue work hard...haven has a way for us all.
u work hard, achieve your goals, people get jealous and slag u for it.
there is no fairness la. if there was fairness those green eyed people already would have been struck dead by lightning -
ppl can say wat they wan. in the end wat and how we feel is up to us.Originally posted by HENG@:u work hard, but dun achieve your goals, ppl label u a loser.
u work hard, achieve your goals, people get jealous and slag u for it.
there is no fairness la. if there was fairness those green eyed people already would have been struck dead by lightning
and more imptly, we shouldnt become wat we hate. -
we always say we won't get affected by what others said but somehow I think what others said will affect us to some extent. It is the going with the crowd effect. Well, maybe it is just me...I am weak when it comes to influence from other people...Originally posted by wuming78:ppl can say wat they wan. in the end wat and how we feel is up to us.
and more imptly, we shouldnt become wat we hate.
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well. in the past i used to care alot abt wat others think of me - even ppl i dunno. i realise this is so stressful on myself. so i thought - wat the heck? i dun live my life for everyone, so y should i be bothered by wat they think, as long as i do not infringe on them or do anything wrong?Originally posted by icyprincess:we always say we won't get affected by what others said but somehow I think what others said will affect us to some extent. It is the going with the crowd effect. Well, maybe it is just me...I am weak when it comes to influence from other people...
i.c.y
o cos for ppl i care abt wat they think still matters. but it only matters - in the end the decision on how it influences me and how it affects my later decisions, is mine. -
well said. I have tried to make my decision now but somehow I will still ask others' opinions before I make a decision to confirm I am doing the right thing...Originally posted by wuming78:well. in the past i used to care alot abt wat others think of me - even ppl i dunno. i realise this is so stressful on myself. so i thought - wat the heck? i dun live my life for everyone, so y should i be bothered by wat they think, as long as i do not infringe on them or do anything wrong?
o cos for ppl i care abt wat they think still matters. but it only matters - in the end the decision on how it influences me and how it affects my later decisions, is mine.
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be bugged by them not, rather... PITY them!Originally posted by HENG@:and i've been meeting a lot of mouldy minded people these past 3 days
just let them be... they don't represent "everybody". ') -
yeah i guess.Originally posted by MooKu:be bugged by them not, rather... PITY them!
just let them be... they don't represent "everybody". ')
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u can ask others for opinions - nothing wrong with consulting. but u decide urself based on wats good for u and wat u wan rather than wat u think others wan u to do. some times the latter does kick in, when one needs to consider for the larger situation, but not all the time.Originally posted by icyprincess:well said. I have tried to make my decision now but somehow I will still ask others' opinions before I make a decision to confirm I am doing the right thing...
i.c.y
its ur life u noe
