Anyone ever feel like life is so damn unfair?
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Have you ever felt like life is unfair to you? Like you work so damn hard for a certain something and in the end you didn't get what you wish for. maybe because I am someone who believe that hard work will give you everything you wish for. So when it doesn't I feel like I don't know what to believe in anymore.
I used to be motivated by the thought that if I put in a lot of efforts, I will have success. But I have realized now that this is often not the case. Take for instance my exams. I will study my ass off and still manage to get below average. And I will watch my other friends who never study and always copy their homework answers from me get A in all their exams. And I will feel that life is so unfair...
Anyone has been through this before? Sigh..I guess I am not feeling too good today. Maybe because I got my exam result back today and they are not up to my expectation...
And I have finals coming up in a few days time. And I realized I still think of him constantly and almost cried on my way back home today because I remember how we had been last time. ..Give me strength...
i.c.y -
trust me, everyone feels the same and experiences the same. try to manage ur expectations and goals mabbe, and dun take things too hard! u got only one shot with this life, and so watever u do, jus do ur best and do wat u wan and be happy abt it!
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dn b sad..look at the bright side....~~~life is nv perfect.....dn worry be happy
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if u keep thinking life is unfair, u won't get the best out of life..
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Oh yeah. Life is unfair.
But life is balanced. -
Life sometimes maybe cruel to us, but at least we mustn't be cruel to ourselves. I always believe that "Winter may turn to Spring"... it's just a matter of time and perseverance..
Cheers
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Life is never fair
there's always someone with a better life than you BUT there's also someone with a worse life than you.
Often I would compare why others got to do what they want... got to go overseas for studies... need no worry about providing for the family... got excellent results in school... BUT then when I see those having to quit school when young to help earning the basic daily meals... without the love ones by their side.... not having a place to call their home....
I feel glad and contented that I still got a family and a home which I can go back to the ones I love and loves me.
If you compare... life will never be fair... if you are contented.... life can be just as wonderful as you wanted -
life is never fair... u have to be contented with what u have... or strive harder for waht u want....
and, listen to happier songs, since u r in foul mood... at least can lighten up the mood a bit... life may be unfair, but u can make it better... -
always look at the bright side of life!
yah.. easier said than done.
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yes of course.
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Hmm yea..I guess life can be fair and unfair at times..I guess I am now trying to find happiness and failing to find it in both my academic life and my love life, I am starting to curse my Fate. Maybe I should learn to look at the bright side, I should not wallow in self-misery anymore...
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life is always unfair....... no matter how hard i study got good in exam also kana screw up and down by my parents and teachers in the school cause my dad is a teacher in the school...... and i run to singapore to study to have a piss of mind,,,,, and now... start working... and see all unfair stuff happening in the office.... i was thinking working life so unfair somethimes... hopping 1 day run to new zealand and have a life there and don see anyone...... no office politic have a good rest.....
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Isn't there anyone who thinks that "Life is fair"?
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so wat is fair?Originally posted by MooKu:Isn't there anyone who thinks that "Life is fair"? -
I'm not sure. Didn't give it a thought.Originally posted by wuming78:so wat is fair?
It seems as though almost everyone thinks life is unfair, so it might be interesting to hear from someone who feels the opposite. -
haha good questionOriginally posted by wuming78:so wat is fair?
maybe because I keep comparing myself to other people, I feel life is not fair. For me, life will be fair when if you work hard for something, then you get what you wish for...well mebbe it is just me...
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icy... maybe you just lacked opportunities at the right time... keep working at it and you'll succeed one day if you persevere. have faith
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not meOriginally posted by MooKu:Isn't there anyone who thinks that "Life is fair"?
u work hard to earn something and people get all greeneyed about it, n start slagging u for it, accuse u of buying it instead of working for it, all manner of baseless and ridiculous accusations. how is ti fair in any way? -
it's not fair alright... not fair to those people, cos they've got mouldy minds.Originally posted by HENG@:not me
u work hard to earn something and people get all greeneyed about it, n start slagging u for it, accuse u of buying it instead of working for it, all manner of baseless and ridiculous accusations. how is ti fair in any way?
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Yea people can be such a bitch sumtimes. When you are not successful, you will be taunted. When you succeed, people get jealous and taunt you also. And some successful ppl let the success gets into their head and start acting like ...okie I should stop using cursewords here.Originally posted by HENG@:not me
u work hard to earn something and people get all greeneyed about it, n start slagging u for it, accuse u of buying it instead of working for it, all manner of baseless and ridiculous accusations. how is ti fair in any way? -
princess, dun undermine ur worth by comparing urself wif others.
i'm sure u have put in a lot of hard work for this exam. but life's like that. ups and downs. take it bah. kan kai yi dian. wen xin wu kui jiu hao
foga give you strength ah. jia you orhOriginally posted by icyprincess:Have you ever felt like life is unfair to you? Like you work so damn hard for a certain something and in the end you didn't get what you wish for. maybe because I am someone who believe that hard work will give you everything you wish for. So when it doesn't I feel like I don't know what to believe in anymore.
I used to be motivated by the thought that if I put in a lot of efforts, I will have success. But I have realized now that this is often not the case. Take for instance my exams. I will study my ass off and still manage to get below average. And I will watch my other friends who never study and always copy their homework answers from me get A in all their exams. And I will feel that life is so unfair...
Anyone has been through this before? Sigh..I guess I am not feeling too good today. Maybe because I got my exam result back today and they are not up to my expectation... And I have finals coming up in a few days time. And I realized I still think of him constantly and almost cried on my way back home today because I remember how we had been last time. ..Give me strength...
i.c.y -
Tell you again when I strike this weekend's powerball.
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excellent! yes. we all haf our definitions of wat is fair cos its all a matter of perception. so y lament tt life is unfair when wat u can do is to change ur definition of it - y make urself miserable?Originally posted by icyprincess:haha good question
maybe because I keep comparing myself to other people, I feel life is not fair. For me, life will be fair when if you work hard for something, then you get what you wish for...well mebbe it is just me...
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and i've been meeting a lot of mouldy minded people these past 3 daysOriginally posted by MooKu:it's not fair alright... not fair to those people, cos they've got mouldy minds.
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