Commitment!
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No, I would not want to change anything. Because I believe everything in life happens for a reason, even though we might not be able to see it at that moment. So everything has helped me to reach where I am today, and without some of the sad experiences I have gone through in the past, I might not know how to cherish the happiness I have today.Originally posted by progene:Hav u ever had a thought wad if u can start all over again?
Let say becum amnesia, live a life all over again, in a foreign land....ur memory is a pieces of blank paper.....
No kindship, fanship, relationship.....no family, no frans, no love 1.....jus u urself......
Wouldn't it b better? Sumtime I wish i hav amnesia.....live a life all over again, no worries or memories of wad had happen....
Remember the butterfly effect, something small that happens now might lead to more events in the future, which might end up changing your life forever.
Maybe what you are doing now in life doesn't seem to make sense, it might seem meaningless. But maybe one day, you will understand the reason behind them
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E art of life is happiness....y b sad when u can b happy?
Den wad is happiness? wad is xin fu?
Doin e things u lik? doin sumtink dat u enjo???
hw 2 live a day by a day wifout any worries of tmr? -
wadever bad thing happen, there's always sumtink gd behind....jus dat we can't see it den, at dat particular point of view...Originally posted by icyprincess:No, I would not want to change anything. Because I believe everything in life happens for a reason, even though we might not be able to see it at that moment. So everything has helped me to reach where I am today, and without some of the sad experiences I have gone through in the past, I might not know how to cherish the happiness I have today.
Remember the butterfly effect, something small that happens now might lead to more events in the future, which might end up changing your life forever.
Maybe what you are doing now in life doesn't seem to make sense, it might seem meaningless. But maybe one day, you will understand the reason behind them
i.c.y
everything tink dat happen, there's always e postive n negative....
A hot sunny day....(Damn it so hot hw to go out??)...(hmm, wad a bright sunny day, let's go for a tan or swim!)
it's a matter of hw u percieve things dat happen....
But......wad if we can start all over again, as i say, no memories of e past, a man wif out e past....wouldn't it b bertter, perhaps there's too many things he wanna 4get....too many bad memories u wan del away from his brain.....
A new day, a new beginin! A new me? -
AGREES~!! u do haf a understanding for life and attitute towards life... dats nice... i always accept things or people for wat they were or who they are.... criticising or point ur finger at it only makes things more complicated.... things changes everyday.... people changes everyday without u knowing it... juz like how we changed, ppl do not know... but it does affects our own life....Originally posted by icyprincess:No, I would not want to change anything. Because I believe everything in life happens for a reason, even though we might not be able to see it at that moment. So everything has helped me to reach where I am today, and without some of the sad experiences I have gone through in the past, I might not know how to cherish the happiness I have today.
Remember the butterfly effect, something small that happens now might lead to more events in the future, which might end up changing your life forever.
Maybe what you are doing now in life doesn't seem to make sense, it might seem meaningless. But maybe one day, you will understand the reason behind them
i.c.y -
life is never good to anyone dear... i tot doing something i like and love, life would be good... but i'm wrong... it makes ur life better coz emotionally u enjoy doing it but same problems will stil arise... or even worse ones... which might eventually cause u to start to regret or dislike doing wat u like to do... u haf two choices: accept or give up... but one day, someone told mi, if u gif up something now, it makes it easier to "give up" many things in future.... u start to change jobs often, start to change goals and aims often... see the reason??Originally posted by progene:E art of life is happiness....y b sad when u can b happy?
Den wad is happiness? wad is xin fu?
Doin e things u lik? doin sumtink dat u enjo???
hw 2 live a day by a day wifout any worries of tmr? -
like I said, I wouldn't want to erase anything from my memories. because all the bad memories make the memories of today seem all the sweeter.Originally posted by progene:wadever bad thing happen, there's always sumtink gd behind....jus dat we can't see it den, at dat particular point of view...
everything tink dat happen, there's always e postive n negative....
A hot sunny day....(Damn it so hot hw to go out??)...(hmm, wad a bright sunny day, let's go for a tan or swim!)
it's a matter of hw u percieve things dat happen....
But......wad if we can start all over again, as i say, no memories of e past, a man wif out e past....wouldn't it b bertter, perhaps there's too many things he wanna 4get....too many bad memories u wan del away from his brain.....
A new day, a new beginin! A new me?
You really do have to taste something bitter before you can appreciate how sweet life can be.
The past is what makes us into the person we are today. Without the past, we are nothing. We would not have the experience to deal with what is happening today.
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hmm...understanding of life? I used to be the queen of pessimismOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:AGREES~!! u do haf a understanding for life and attitute towards life... dats nice... i always accept things or people for wat they were or who they are.... criticising or point ur finger at it only makes things more complicated.... things changes everyday.... people changes everyday without u knowing it... juz like how we changed, ppl do not know... but it does affects our own life....
I guess I have changed. All thanks to the wonderful person in my life right now, he has made me see the beautiful side of life
i.c.y -
Hmm.......Originally posted by carpe diem jur:life is never good to anyone dear... i tot doing something i like and love, life would be good... but i'm wrong... it makes ur life better coz emotionally u enjoy doing it but same problems will stil arise... or even worse ones... which might eventually cause u to start to regret or dislike doing wat u like to do... u haf two choices: accept or give up... but one day, someone told mi, if u gif up something now, it makes it easier to "give up" many things in future.... u start to change jobs often, start to change goals and aims often... see the reason?? -
But if a person hav too many unforgetable memories, those sad memories, feeling, emotion, bad experience.....
too many of dat, can make a person jump....can't @@ e light at e end of e turnel....cos rite nw, he's surrounded by darkness, lonliness...too despaired....hope seem lik a far far away, miracle seem lik a forgotten phase, love seem to hav left him......
wouldn't b better if he cen del all those away...all those memories away,.....cos if most of his memories are sadness, hopless, emotionless......
it wld b better of den suffer from all tis, unwanted burdens.....too much of a burden can make a strong man down....too much of it, can kills...... -
as much as you want to erase them, I do not think you can do that. So you just have to make the best out of the situation...try to live with them and learn from them.Originally posted by progene:But if a person hav too many unforgetable memories, those sad memories, feeling, emotion, bad experience.....
too many of dat, can make a person jump....can't @@ e light at e end of e turnel....cos rite nw, he's surrounded by darkness, lonliness...too despaired....hope seem lik a far far away, miracle seem lik a forgotten phase, love seem to hav left him......
wouldn't b better if he cen del all those away...all those memories away,.....cos if most of his memories are sadness, hopless, emotionless......
it wld b better of den suffer from all tis, unwanted burdens.....too much of a burden can make a strong man down....too much of it, can kills......
maybe you want to watch the move,"Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind". It deals with this topic oso...
What I think is you need to believe. That even though your world seems dark right now, keep moving and you will see the sunlight again one day.
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A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
But real frans oso hav their own proble....so can't depend much on dem....familly...u can't expect ur family 2 b there all e time.
U mus learnt 2 b strong, deal it on ur own.....so wad if u cannt take it??? wad 2 do???
cum as it goes?? isit dat ez? ignore e problem n get on wif life knowin, ur problem will slowly piled up if u ignore it.....buried it into e deepest depth of ur inner heart n wish dat u sumhw 4 get it's presence?
Try to solve it knowin it will b hard but jus try ur beri best.....but wad if u had forseen it, knowin no matter hw hard u try, u will waste e effort ur time....
E greater e expectaion, e bigger e disappointment is!! ...e higher u climb, e higher n painful u fall....wad goes up mus cum down..... -
Runnin away is Easy, facin it is tough.....
But wad if it's too much 4 u to face it? Wat wld u do? still face it knowin u cannot cope? Or jus ignore n run away from it....
U can run but u can't hide, soon or later u will face it....e past wld b back to hunt bac e undead.... -
running away cant solve anything, n as u started running away from things...den u muz b prepared 4 it to haunt u down...its always chasing after u...as though its chained to ur leg...
and to 4get things/memories....let time do e job...trust me...e more u wanted to get rid of them...e more it wont go....n to make things worse...it might juz bring back other things u shld hab 4gotten...
sooner or later things n probs muz b faced...even if its too much of a load to take...it has to be settled...it will b a very tough road down...n oni a thing to say...is....pull urself up...grit ur teeth tite n get pass it....by no time..u'll sure b able to c lite towards e end...
the value of life is actually how individuals look at it...wats more importantly...hab a positive mindset...else everything in life wld seem dull n meaningless to u...n u will lose ur drive to even live on...nt even to say solving probs n overcoming obstacles... -
not bad, bro. im surprised by this topic of urs..Originally posted by progene:When we were (20plus - 80s), things started to change again, we were worried abt getting a job, a career, Will we able to earn for a living? Where wld my nxt meal cum from? Wld I hav a roof to stay on? Hw do I pay my utilties bill? Will I able to clear my house loan? Car loan? Where wld all my income cum from? Will I get retrenched? Will I bcum a beggar? Wld my fran leave me? Will my family leave me? Will I stay single all my life? Will I be able to find a life partner? Will I hav e $ to get married? Will I able to survive in Spore? Will I able to saport a family of my own? Will I able to saport my old folks?
Will my wife suffer wif me? Can I brim her happiness? Will my wife look down on me?Do I hav e finance to saport a kid? Will I able to saport their education? Will I be able to hav kids in e 1st place? Will my wife take e kids leave me behind? Will my wife dioviced me?
Will my kids grow up n b sumbody? Will my kid b filal to me? Will they look down on me? Will they leave me? Will they dispise me?
So many so many.....cmmitment cum responsibility....hai...part n pacel of growin up....dat's life....
to be frank, i dun really think u will consider so far ahead. Cos most people my age or ur age wont do so. Im impressed.
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why dun u see this another way?Originally posted by progene:Runnin away is Easy, facin it is tough.....
But wad if it's too much 4 u to face it? Wat wld u do? still face it knowin u cannot cope? Or jus ignore n run away from it....
U can run but u can't hide, soon or later u will face it....e past wld b back to hunt bac e undead....
There is someone who told me this before..
" In life.. u will always have choices.. tat means.. either u make it, or u break it. Only with this sort of attidtude then u are able to struggle through life"
u must understand for most of us..life isnt all that smooth flowing.. most of the time, its hard, tough, full of bad surprises and things beyond our control. Som,e people i know even say that, trying to live, is a sturggle. It is a struggle that will not end until the day u sleep inside a coffin. Tat means that even if u are able to run away from one problem, u will not be able to run away from the next one. It is better to solve it and move on, instaed of stalling on it.
Always remember ur goal in life and move towards it.. the day u lost all goals in life, can mean two things.. either u are temporary too stressed by situations, or else its about tiem for u to go somewhere in heavens.
To sum it off,
Live.. and find meaning in it.. Decide for urself what means the most to u, pirotize ur goals and work towards it. The main thing is to leave the world with no regrets.. long / short life doesnt matte. ^^ -
happiness is something u need to decide for urself..Originally posted by progene:E art of life is happiness....y b sad when u can b happy?
Den wad is happiness? wad is xin fu?
Doin e things u lik? doin sumtink dat u enjo???
hw 2 live a day by a day wifout any worries of tmr?
for all u know.. sitting beside ur gf without talking can b spmething u are happy about.
Remember this
"If u dun love urself, no one will love u."
For me,
happiness is something which u spend effort and time on. I dun like things that come easy in life. Cos i will not value it. Achieving the goals / the things i want is something that i can be happy about.
There is no way one have no worries about tomorrow. But with gd planning, u can minimize any worries u have. -
Progene, I dunno about you but I put my hope and trust in God.
Because I believe He will walk with me as a friend throughout all my journey in life and look after me when I'm down and out. He understand me through and through and someone I can depend on when no friends are available to come to my help. For the hope of the spirit will never disappoint.
smth to share about.