Commitment!
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Commitment!
As u grew older, there seem to b alot of commitment. Commitments cums responsibility!
Y are there so many commitment in life??
During our young day(0-10+yrs), There were no commitment, no responsibilites. We were so carefree, happy go luckly, live a day by a day, no worries, no fear. Eat, play sleep. A day goes by jus lik dat. U need not worry abt where would the food cum from. Do i have clothes to wear tmr. Do I hav e $$ to pay e Utilities bill, etc....Everything is provided for u, U jus enjoy ur life, do watever u wan, eat, happy n b merry!
Mayb e onli worry wld b sch, E test, e Exam. Can I make it to nxt level? Will I pass wif flyin colors. Will I dissapoint my parents if I fail, etc....
Mayb e onli stress wld hav to be, project deadline, hav to finish it, exam comin, hav to study n revised, etc.....
Mayb e onli fear wld be scoldin from teachers/principle in sch, kena punished for late hand-up of homework, play taurant n kena caught, scolding n beating from parents if they see all e RED in report card/book, etc......
Mayb e onli commitment wld be to sch n parent
When we were (10plus - 20), things started to change, we felt attracted to e opposite partners, we long for love n likness from ppl, wanted attention, hate e feeling of being lonely, wanna hang out wif ppl wif e same interest, basically we hav our own thinkin, own mentality, jus wanna hav fun, play, party, all nite long, do many things wif consequences, etc....
Mayb e onli worry wld b Will "she" be available? If she's attached? Did "She" noticed me? How does "she" feel abt me? etc.......
Mayb e onli stress wld b, wad movies shall we watch? Wad shall we eat? where shall we party? Which KTV shall we go? Wad shd I wear for my date? Wad shd I buy "her" for Vday?�@etc.....
Mayb e onli fear wld b, wad if she ran away wif another ppl, wad if she two-timming wif me? Wad if she is late for 2months? etc.... -
When we were (20plus - 80s), things started to change again, we were worried abt getting a job, a career, Will we able to earn for a living? Where wld my nxt meal cum from? Wld I hav a roof to stay on? Hw do I pay my utilties bill? Will I able to clear my house loan? Car loan? Where wld all my income cum from? Will I get retrenched? Will I bcum a beggar? Wld my fran leave me? Will my family leave me? Will I stay single all my life? Will I be able to find a life partner? Will I hav e $ to get married? Will I able to survive in Spore? Will I able to saport a family of my own? Will I able to saport my old folks?
Will my wife suffer wif me? Can I brim her happiness? Will my wife look down on me?Do I hav e finance to saport a kid? Will I able to saport their education? Will I be able to hav kids in e 1st place? Will my wife take e kids leave me behind? Will my wife dioviced me?
Will my kids grow up n b sumbody? Will my kid b filal to me? Will they look down on me? Will they leave me? Will they dispise me?
So many so many.....cmmitment cum responsibility....hai...part n pacel of growin up....dat's life.... -
Commitment is responsibility.
Responsibility is maturity.
If a guy is mature enough, he's always ready to commit and accept responsibility.
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that is why they say boy go in ns come out as man... coz they teach them the meaning of "LPPL" that's responsibility...Originally posted by keuriseudo:Commitment is responsibility.
Responsibility is maturity.
If a guy is mature enough, he's always ready to commit and accept responsibility. 
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LPPL??? Wad the Fuck is that???!!!Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):that is why they say boy go in ns come out as man... coz they teach them the meaning of "LPPL" that's responsibility... 
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NS?Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):that is why they say boy go in ns come out as man... coz they teach them the meaning of "LPPL" that's responsibility... 
nah...wont teach a boy to be a man...will only teach the boy to chao keng like a man -
lampard pardlamOriginally posted by keuriseudo:LPPL??? Wad the Fuck is that???!!! -
Yes i noe, but dun u think as u grow older, u hav more responsibility n commitment?Originally posted by keuriseudo:Commitment is responsibility.
Responsibility is maturity.
If a guy is mature enough, he's always ready to commit and accept responsibility.
Too much of dat until u almost cannot tahan.... -
progene .. you have grown upOriginally posted by progene:When we were (20plus - 80s), things started to change again, we were worried abt getting a job, a career, Will we able to earn for a living? Where wld my nxt meal cum from? Wld I hav a roof to stay on? Hw do I pay my utilties bill? Will I able to clear my house loan? Car loan? Where wld all my income cum from? Will I get retrenched? Will I bcum a beggar? Wld my fran leave me? Will my family leave me? Will I stay single all my life? Will I be able to find a life partner? Will I hav e $ to get married? Will I able to survive in Spore? Will I able to saport a family of my own? Will I able to saport my old folks?
Will my wife suffer wif me? Can I brim her happiness? Will my wife look down on me?Do I hav e finance to saport a kid? Will I able to saport their education? Will I be able to hav kids in e 1st place? Will my wife take e kids leave me behind? Will my wife dioviced me?
Will my kids grow up n b sumbody? Will my kid b filal to me? Will they look down on me? Will they leave me? Will they dispise me?
So many so many.....cmmitment cum responsibility....hai...part n pacel of growin up....dat's life.... -
Life is like that.Originally posted by progene:Yes i noe, but dun u think as u grow older, u hav more responsibility n commitment?
Too much of dat until u almost cannot tahan....
Get use to it and move on.
Be happy.
Not much you can do to change that. -
yah! Fiction n reality r distance apart!Originally posted by antoh:progene .. you have grown up -
Wad is LIFE??Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Life is like that.
Get use to it and move on.
Be happy.
Not much you can do to change that.
Study, exam, graduate, NS, work, partoh, marry, parenting, family, gow old, die.........
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Life is a never-ending process of finding out who you really are. All those that you mention, helps you in the way of achieving more understanding about yourself. And they also help you to grow. And you go thru them, they will bring you beautiful memories that you can reflect on later in life, and then you would know you have truly lived...Originally posted by progene:Wad is LIFE??
Study, exam, graduate, NS, work, partoh, marry, parenting, family, gow old, die.........
I do not see committing to my future family or my sweetie as a chore or a burden. being together with someone you love, how troublesome can that be?
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Yes, you can change the way you live. How? By changing your mind set of certain things. Once your mind is renewed, your life will change. One cannot experience change around him when his mentality has not changed as well.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Life is like that.
Get use to it and move on.
Be happy.
Not much you can do to change that.
Live; but live with a purpose and a vision. Without a vision, you will surely die. -
Life is living it to the fullest by first and most importantly having a goal or a vision, and the ability to dream great dreams and fulfil your purpose. But if you dun have a dream, you'll not have a destiny you always wanted.Originally posted by progene:Wad is LIFE??
Study, exam, graduate, NS, work, partoh, marry, parenting, family, gow old, die.........
Start dreaming and never let anyone mock at it. Hence, do not waver but set your faith strong. -
x2Originally posted by icyprincess:I do not see committing to my future family or my sweetie as a chore or a burden. being together with someone you love, how troublesome can that be?
i.c.y 
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Havin a ping fan normal life, hav a normal 9-5job, get married n hav kids...n live normally lik most sporean do...or strike out a career n do sumtink big n astonishin n never regret for wad u did.....
life is so complicated!!! -
wad e purpose of living??
Live to work?
or
work to live?
y r we born here?
born to hav shen lao ping shi.....grow old, suffer n die?
As I mention, study, work, married, family, kids, old, die......is dat all to LIFE???
Can we expect more from it? -
Life is half spent before one knows what life is.
"Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood."(Helen Keller)
"Life is a mystery to be lived, not a problem to be solved."(Van Kaam)
Life always give you back what you give out. Your life is not a coincidence, but a mirror of your own doings. -
Find something you are passionate about...make it your dream. Then dedicate your life to realizing it.Originally posted by progene:wad e purpose of living??
Live to work?
or
work to live?
y r we born here?
born to hav shen lao ping shi.....grow old, suffer n die?
As I mention, study, work, married, family, kids, old, die......is dat all to LIFE???
Can we expect more from it?
Your life will then have meaning
i.c.y -
for ur referenceOriginally posted by progene:Wad is LIFE??
Study, exam, graduate, NS, work, partoh, marry, parenting, family, gow old, die.........
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=84308
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You can either be happy and live life the way you want it to be.Originally posted by progene:Wad is LIFE??
Study, exam, graduate, NS, work, partoh, marry, parenting, family, gow old, die.........
OR ...
You can keep on pondering and waste your time.
Up to you... -
+1Originally posted by keuriseudo:Yes, you can change the way you live. How? By changing your mind set of certain things. Once your mind is renewed, your life will change. One cannot experience change around him when his mentality has not changed as well.
Live; but live with a purpose and a vision. Without a vision, you will surely die. -
Hav u ever had a thought wad if u can start all over again?
Let say becum amnesia, live a life all over again, in a foreign land....ur memory is a pieces of blank paper.....
No kindship, fanship, relationship.....no family, no frans, no love 1.....jus u urself......
Wouldn't it b better? Sumtime I wish i hav amnesia.....live a life all over again, no worries or memories of wad had happen.... -
Beri true.....but......Originally posted by keuriseudo:Life is living it to the fullest by first and most importantly having a goal or a vision, and the ability to dream great dreams and fulfil your purpose. But if you dun have a dream, you'll not have a destiny you always wanted.
Start dreaming and never let anyone mock at it. Hence, do not waver but set your faith strong.