Do you have to be in love all the time?

• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 22:19

  Anyone here feels like they can't be out of love for a long time? Like...when you just broke up with someone, you will quickly get together with another person just for the sake to be with someone, just for sake you won't feel the emptiness in your heart?
  
  i.c.y
• SGpork

  5 Mar 05, 22:20

  nope...
  
  
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 22:22

  think i m currently suffering from withdrawal symptom
  
  i.c.y
• the Bear

  5 Mar 05, 22:50

  maybe.. as with most withdrawals, you'll get used to not having it there.. then you're home and dry..
  
  give it time... and maybe the next time you fall, will be the one who is good for you
  
  and then you can go to him without any emotional baggage too!
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 22:53

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  maybe.. as with most withdrawals, you'll get used to not having it there.. then you're home and dry..
  
  give it time... and maybe the next time you fall, will be the one who is good for you
  
  and then you can go to him without any emotional baggage too!

  thing is...the next time I fall, how do I know he will be the good one for me?
  
  i.c.y
• browniebaobao

  5 Mar 05, 23:14

  i won't get into a r/s if i cant get over my previous r/s..
  
  and...y love someone who will ultimately break ur heart? love urself more!
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 23:16

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i won't get into a r/s if i cant get over my previous r/s..
  
  and...y love someone who will ultimately break ur heart? love urself more!

  if I can control myself like this, I will not get into trouble le last time...
  
  i.c.y
• Mr Chumpa Woompa

  5 Mar 05, 23:19

  Transfer.... that love you have to elsewhere? There are many other things in life that need our attention and our love... like orphans and stray animals. Love is a very strong emotion, ahh. And maybe it doesn't always have to be romantic love.
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 23:21

  Originally posted by Mr Chumpa Woompa:

  Transfer.... that love you have to elsewhere? There are many other things in life that need our attention and our love... like orphans and stray animals. Love is a very strong emotion, ahh. And maybe it doesn't always have to be romantic love.

  I seriously want to transfer it to animals..but too bad I can't have pets in my dorm
  
  i.c.y
• OrneryBoy

  5 Mar 05, 23:22

  Is it that important to satisfy your own desire(emptiness) rather to truly love someone?
• monkeybusiness

  5 Mar 05, 23:26

  hmm...
  i am single and currently happy with life..
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 23:27

  Originally posted by OrneryBoy:

  Is it that important to satisfy your own desire(emptiness) rather to truly love someone?

  It is not my desire to satisfy my own emptiness...it is more like something I can't have control over...
  
  i.c.y
• jojoma

  5 Mar 05, 23:30

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I seriously want to transfer it to animals..but too bad I can't have pets in my dorm
  
  i.c.y

  even fish or hamsters? They can be easily kept.
  
  It's not healthy to transfer your love to another person, if you are not ready and have not given up the previous one.
  
  Try to control for 3 to 6mths... in between think and sort out your own emptiness and prob, okie?
• icyprincess

  5 Mar 05, 23:34

  Originally posted by jojoma:

  even fish or hamsters? They can be easily kept.
  
  It's not healthy to transfer your love to another person, if you are not ready and have not given up the previous one.
  
  Try to control for 3 to 6mths... in between think and sort out your own emptiness and prob, okie?

  I wish I can keep hamster...
  Yea, right now I am not doing the transfering yet...I am just a bit confused that's all...
  
  i.c.y
• browniebaobao

  6 Mar 05, 00:28

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  if I can control myself like this, I will not get into trouble le last time...
  
  i.c.y

  
  
  hmm..to me i feel that..it's unfair to the later guy if im with him yet i cant forget the previous one..my heart can only occupy one person each time.
• Mr Chumpa Woompa

  6 Mar 05, 00:33

  You don't have to look very hard to notice that your friends and your family need all the love they can get from you.
  
  And you also barely have to look at all to know that there are several unfortunate people in our midst who need some warmth, having suffered at the cold cold hands of their Fate.
  
  Aiyah. Or just find something else to do, like a fun physical activity such as wakeboarding or something... to take your mind off it.
  
  There's so much more to life than just loving another person! Life is so vibrant, and it's ever-changing. It's neeeeeeever boooooring....
• keuriseudo

  6 Mar 05, 01:37

  Your love will never be whole until you are whole in the inside.
  
  S.H.I.N.
• Patrik

  6 Mar 05, 04:09

  I have been loveless for so long....
• keuriseudo

  6 Mar 05, 04:15

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  I have been loveless for so long....

  Me too. But take it like a man ya?!
• icyprincess

  6 Mar 05, 07:17

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  I have been loveless for so long....

  hmm...I have always believed in this...love will come when the time is right..and it will come when you least expect it, not when you are looking for it...
  
  So meanwhile, keep yourself busy with other things in life, go out and meet new people, and one day she will show up in your life
  
  Love...will always be a surprise.
  
  i.c.y
• Patrik

  6 Mar 05, 10:46

  I dun wanna think thsi way but for me,there will never be another "she".
• icyprincess

  6 Mar 05, 11:38

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  I dun wanna think thsi way but for me,there will never be another "she".

  Of course there will never be another she, there will never be another human being who is the exact replica as the other, and when the next one appears, it wun be right to keep comparing her with your ex.
  
  Because she is simply different. She might complement your life in a way your ex has failed to do so after a while, and she will complete you in a way your ex has never done so...
  
  i.c.y
• SGpork

  6 Mar 05, 11:40

  
• keuriseudo

  6 Mar 05, 11:40

  Icy is right. Patrik, it's time to stand on both your two feet.
• icyprincess

  6 Mar 05, 11:51

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  

  Oh man...why are so many people crying nowadays?
  
  Porkie, dun just cry. Tell us briefly what's wrong.
  
  i.c.y