What Incident(s) Completely Turned Your Life Around?
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Feel free to share your story here.
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exams loh
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Hmm...I would say the offer I get to study here...it is really an eye-opening experience. I want to believe that it has turned me into a better and more open-minded person, someone who is now more open to new things and opportunities. And to feel what it is like to be in a foreign land all by yourself and how to take care of yourself...really learn what independence means.
I might have faced a lot of problems here, but I am kinda proud that I have survived for so long
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The day she entered my life and left my life.
My life was changed totally. -
hmm I wanted to say how my ex changed my life.Originally posted by Patrik:The day she entered my life and left my life.
My life was changed totally.
I guess he did give me some very good memories...
but sumhow I dun think my life was changed that much lor...
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She had taught me alot of things.
She changed me into what i am today. -
abusive behaviour by ex-bf... was hospitalized... juz becoz i wanted to break up and he din want to, so he hit mi.... i'll never want to learn my lesson a second time man...
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Wah..so violent...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:abusive behaviour by ex-bf... was hospitalized... juz becoz i wanted to break up and he din want to, so he hit mi.... i'll never want to learn my lesson a second time man...
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thats why lah... we never managed to communicate properly... and our character is so different... for 2 years leh... enuf is enuf loh.. and i did learnt alot from this lesson...Originally posted by Patrik:Wah..so violent... -
How u survived the 2 years sia???Originally posted by carpe diem jur:thats why lah... we never managed to communicate properly... and our character is so different... for 2 years leh... enuf is enuf loh.. and i did learnt alot from this lesson...
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survive...??? HELL...!! dats y they say Love is Blind... my eyes had blinders on, now come to think of it really realise i haf alot more to achieve in life dan to remain persistant in Love... i juz want get focus in my studies and career now...Originally posted by Patrik:How u survived the 2 years sia???
wat bout u...?? any incidents that changed u or lifestyle..?? -
one was when i got to know my ex gf.
the other is when i pulled nicola. -
did he get charged? what an Asshole.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:abusive behaviour by ex-bf... was hospitalized... juz becoz i wanted to break up and he din want to, so he hit mi.... i'll never want to learn my lesson a second time man... -
what is nicola??Originally posted by HENG@:one was when i got to know my ex gf.
the other is when i pulled nicola. -
When............. my dearest mother passed away suddenly
2nd.......... cheated by ex
found in bed with another person.....
3rd......... realised tt guys can be even more b-itchy than gers when he's too self centred.
4th.......... Law can't really protect you neither do police force in many areas, there are too many loopholes.....
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i never wanted to send him to jail, not to mention make a police report to protect myself... people hurt mi doesnt mean i haf to hurt them back mah... anyway, if not for him i wouldnt haf realise how horrible and shitty this world is....Originally posted by HENG@:did he get charged? what an Asshole.
the whole incident didnt only consist of abuse... also got threatenings, faking, lies, etc...
it was only after the breakup dan got one time he called mi to tell mi the truth... that is, last time he chased after mi becoz he was betting with his friends that he can get mi and 'eat' mi within a period of time challenged....... juz becoz i used to work in pub when i was young, so that all assumed that gers working in pubs all loose... and he said that it was after i became his gf and he sees that i'm not that kinda ger dan he dont want to dump mi....
so this whole incident really wakes mi up with a BIG TIGHT SLAP...!! -
ooh gosh... thats a big lesson learnt... subsequently or years apart??Originally posted by jojoma:When............. my dearest mother passed away suddenly
2nd.......... cheated by ex found in bed with another person.....
3rd......... realised tt guys can be even more b-itchy than gers when he's too self centred.
4th.......... Law can't really protect you neither do police force in many areas, there are too many loopholes..... -
She's a fit gal I met. Probably made more of an impact on my life than she knows.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:what is nicola?? -
oh well. we live n learn.Originally posted by carpe diem jur:i never wanted to send him to jail, not to mention make a police report to protect myself... people hurt mi doesnt mean i haf to hurt them back mah... anyway, if not for him i wouldnt haf realise how horrible and shitty this world is....
the whole incident didnt only consist of abuse... also got threatenings, faking, lies, etc...
it was only after the breakup dan got one time he called mi to tell mi the truth... that is, last time he chased after mi becoz he was betting with his friends that he can get mi and 'eat' mi within a period of time challenged....... juz becoz i used to work in pub when i was young, so that all assumed that gers working in pubs all loose... and he said that it was after i became his gf and he sees that i'm not that kinda ger dan he dont want to dump mi....
so this whole incident really wakes mi up with a BIG TIGHT SLAP...!! -
care to share more...?? curious how a ger caused an impact on u....Originally posted by HENG@:She's a fit gal I met. Probably made more of an impact on my life than she knows. -
wel i wouldn't mind sharing, but not in the open... would u mind if i PMed u?Originally posted by carpe diem jur:care to share more...?? curious how a ger caused an impact on u.... -
well, the past is the past, I am glad you have left him for good. Such person doesn't deserve you...Originally posted by carpe diem jur:i never wanted to send him to jail, not to mention make a police report to protect myself... people hurt mi doesnt mean i haf to hurt them back mah... anyway, if not for him i wouldnt haf realise how horrible and shitty this world is....
the whole incident didnt only consist of abuse... also got threatenings, faking, lies, etc...
it was only after the breakup dan got one time he called mi to tell mi the truth... that is, last time he chased after mi becoz he was betting with his friends that he can get mi and 'eat' mi within a period of time challenged....... juz becoz i used to work in pub when i was young, so that all assumed that gers working in pubs all loose... and he said that it was after i became his gf and he sees that i'm not that kinda ger dan he dont want to dump mi....
so this whole incident really wakes mi up with a BIG TIGHT SLAP...!!
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no worries... as long as u feel comfortable... no pressure...Originally posted by HENG@:wel i wouldn't mind sharing, but not in the open... would u mind if i PMed u? -
well okiesOriginally posted by carpe diem jur:no worries... as long as u feel comfortable... no pressure...