Nothing wrong with liking your best friend
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Posted else where b4... study carried out and it show.
Hazi... extract from: Why single women are attracted to jerks. By Don Diebel
Women are not "bad" people at all. Quite the opposite. But WOMEN ARE COMPLETELY CONTROLLED BY THIS ANCIENT MATING INSTINCT. Therefore, they have NO OTHER CHOICE but to go after ANY strong, dominant, untamable male. Or any male who can make her FEEL all those intense, uncontrollable feelings she lives for. The key to understanding women's strange behavior is "they have NO OTHER CHOICE" but to fall for these type of males.
If a nice guy became strong and dominant and HARD TO GET, she will go BLINDLY after that nice guy. The proof that I am right is that EVERY TIME a nice guy starts ACTING like a jerk, HE IS SUDDENLY WANTED BY ALL THOSE WOMEN WHO USED TO IGNORE HIM BEFORE. Women don't really want jerks. They probably want a nice guy. But ... "what women -WANT" and "what women NEED" are two different things. And their Subconscious ''genetic" programming, that NEED to feel and feel and feel, will make women go uncontrollably after what they NEED, not what they want. And that is true of EVERY person, in any area of life. They will attract into their lives and/or will go toward what they subconsciously NEED, not what they think they want.
Even when women fall for a guy who is very handsome, they will leave him very quickly if they discover he is a nice guy who can be easily controlled by females. It happens all the time. And they will go after some not-so-handsome type, even ugly one, who is strong and dominant. Even married women will do the craziest things and go after THE guy who can "ignite" those feelings in them. What she loves are the feelings she FEELS. Not the guy! But in her mind, the guy and the feelings become inseparable. She loves the feelings. Therefore, she falls in love with the guy who can make her feel that way.
Women were "genetically" programmed to be SUCKERS for intense feelings and emotions in order to surrender and mate. -
Once I found out he is a jerk, I left him le...I wun be controlled by such person lor, even if I loved him a lot before...
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anyway, gals will only realise when you reach your mid 20s. than will start to look for mr nice but some how will still fall for a jerk. even those who are married, when the hub become nice, they will look else where.Originally posted by icyprincess:Once I found out he is a jerk, I left him le...I wun be controlled by such person lor, even if I loved him a lot before...
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mr nice will never have a nice time till he pass the 30 gap. -
pray, u are not a jerk with thick skin saying this. a study on the internet doesn't not make it the ultimate authority on women.Originally posted by Joshua1975:anyway, gals will only realise when you reach your mid 20s. than will start to look for mr nice but some how will still fall for a jerk. even those who are married, when the hub become nice, they will look else where.
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the study is not done on the internet. it had been done for sometime (i dun know when) not only on woman, it is done on man as well.Originally posted by HENG@:pray, u are not a jerk with thick skin saying this. a study on the internet doesn't not make it the ultimate authority on women.
all i can say is treat all guys as jerk and find out if he is one. found out he is, than you are prepare, will not feel so bad or sad. if he is not a jerk but a real nice guy than you hit jackpot.
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erm, i dun think i m like dat...if i found someone nice who can appreciate me, i will not look elsewhere le...Originally posted by Joshua1975:anyway, gals will only realise when you reach your mid 20s. than will start to look for mr nice but some how will still fall for a jerk. even those who are married, when the hub become nice, they will look else where.
mr nice will never have a nice time till he pass the 30 gap.
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How would i know right? it does not say all will neither does it say some will not.Originally posted by icyprincess:erm, i dun think i m like dat...if i found someone nice who can appreciate me, i will not look elsewhere le...
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in a r/s, it is an art of communication between the 2 sexes. how you perfect your art only the parties involve knows. -
basically, people are jerks then.Originally posted by Joshua1975:the study is not done on the internet. it had been done for sometime (i dun know when) not only on woman, it is done on man as well.
all i can say is treat all guys as jerk and find out if he is one. found out he is, than you are prepare, will not feel so bad or sad. if he is not a jerk but a real nice guy than you hit jackpot.
mr nice or jerk will not go around tell ppl he is nice or a jerk.
i shall now go kill myself. -
Originally posted by HENG@:basically, people are jerks then.
i shall now go kill myself.
even in the net ppl can have such reaction, than all jerks shall be lor. -
ar boh?Originally posted by Joshua1975: even in the net ppl can have such reaction, than all jerks shall be lor.
*dies*
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dun know what you had gone throught, hope you will get out of it.Originally posted by HENG@:ar boh?
*dies*
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whoever to stay in this bad, unhappy mood will just make things worst for themself.
I leave the option open for myself even when i tell myself NO no more r/s for me. no one know what will happen and it happened for a reason. only the "super being" (maybe you call it god) knows. -
didn't u see my post in another thread? pain makes us feel alive. there is no point in living if you can't feel alive.Originally posted by Joshua1975:dun know what you had gone throught, hope you will get out of it.
whoever to stay in this bad, unhappy mood will just make things worst for themself.
I leave the option open for myself even when i tell myself NO no more r/s for me. no one know what will happen and it happened for a reason. only the "super being" (maybe you call it god) knows. -
what thread, where, ermmm never mind.Originally posted by HENG@:didn't u see my post in another thread? pain makes us feel alive. there is no point in living if you can't feel alive.
yes. pain will let all know he or she is alive so does pleasure.
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pleasure is dull.Originally posted by Joshua1975:what thread, where, ermmm never mind.
yes. pain will let all know he or she is alive so does pleasure.
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ok lor... pain is pain if you feel pain is the way for you and happy with it. what can anyone say. you are happy can liao.Originally posted by HENG@:pleasure is dull. -
why ah pek getting short on temper liao? see how i can suck the pleasure from anyone i want?Originally posted by Joshua1975:ok lor... pain is pain if you feel pain is the way for you and happy with it. what can anyone say. you are happy can liao.
go enjoy your pleasure instead of coming here n letting me deny it to u. -
there you get the pleasure and the pleasure is all my to see you canOriginally posted by HENG@:why ah pek getting short on temper liao? see how i can suck the pleasure from anyone i want?
go enjoy your pleasure instead of coming here n letting me deny it to u. -
okie, everyone dun gaduh here...be it you like pain or pleasure, it is your personal choice
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sorry. your english is incomprehensible. please rephrase.Originally posted by Joshua1975:there you get the pleasure and the pleasure is all my to see you can -
hahaaa i am used to ppl say my english no good in here. but they still get the point.Originally posted by HENG@:sorry. your english is incomprehensible. please rephrase.
no need to thank me for getting you the pleasure of pain -
or u mean the pain of pleasure?Originally posted by Joshua1975:hahaaa i am used to ppl say my english no good in here. but they still get the point.
no need to thank me for getting you the pleasure of pain -
there, english no good but ppl still get the point
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what makes u think i got your point? was there a point to begin with?Originally posted by Joshua1975:there, english no good but ppl still get the point