Nothing wrong with liking your best friend
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The guy I'm with today started out as my best friend, and he still is. Just because they're close to you doesn't mean you're inclined to only stay the way you are - infact being in a relationship with them could bring you even closer.
If you make things clear to your friend and discuss how you feel then even if they don't feel the same way (which is pretty unlikely) there will be less tears shed later
They're probably finding it difficult to make the first move as you're so close and they're scared of harming you and your friendship so pluck up the courage and spill your heart out.
If you never say anything then you WILL regret it at some point in your life and perhaps make your friendship awkward. You can't hide from your feelings
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haha..my ex crush was my best guy fren here, and he still is. We can spend the whole night talking abt all sorts of things, and he has overnighted in my place a few times. I used to like him a lot, but when I told him, he told me that he can't see me as someone more than friends...so that's what we stay as now...Originally posted by Joshua1975:The guy I'm with today started out as my best friend, and he still is. Just because they're close to you doesn't mean you're inclined to only stay the way you are - infact being in a relationship with them could bring you even closer.
If you make things clear to your friend and discuss how you feel then even if they don't feel the same way (which is pretty unlikely) there will be less tears shed later They're probably finding it difficult to make the first move as you're so close and they're scared of harming you and your friendship so pluck up the courage and spill your heart out.
If you never say anything then you WILL regret it at some point in your life and perhaps make your friendship awkward. You can't hide from your feelings
by Sarah
i.c.y -
Good for you. Guy are more EZ on this but for gal... "We" had known each other for some times and one day I told her, she say nothing and from than on, most of the time will be NO for this NO for that? haha.Originally posted by icyprincess:haha..my ex crush was my best guy fren here, and he still is. We can spend the whole night talking abt all sorts of things, and he has overnighted in my place a few times. I used to like him a lot, but when I told him, he told me that he can't see me as someone more than friends...so that's what we stay as now...
i.c.y
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well yea, i can understand...actually sumthing like this is happening to me now wif another person...he asked me to be his gf but i think he really just sees me as a close fren, but cos i expect too much from him, i told him i can't go out wif him anymore le...Originally posted by Joshua1975:Good for you. Guy are more EZ on this but for gal... "We" had known each other for some times and one day I told her, she say nothing and from than on, most of the time will be NO for this NO for that? haha.
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it always nice to love and to be loved. as for me it still good to know I can still give love.Originally posted by icyprincess:well yea, i can understand...actually sumthing like this is happening to me now wif another person...he asked me to be his gf but i think he really just sees me as a close fren, but cos i expect too much from him, i told him i can't go out wif him anymore le...
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yea, but there is a limit to it. I have been the one giving love most of the time and more often than not, the person I love wun appreciate how I feel towards him.Originally posted by Joshua1975:it always nice to love and to be loved. as for me it still good to know I can still give love.
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someday someone will. I always look at the bright side.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, but there is a limit to it. I have been the one giving love most of the time and more often than not, the person I love wun appreciate how I feel towards him.
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yea, dats wat i m trying to believe in as well....Originally posted by Joshua1975:someday someone will. I always look at the bright side.
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Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, dats wat i m trying to believe in as well....
i.c.y
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I am doing it la, otherwise I will be crying my eyes out already...Originally posted by Joshua1975: trying? dun try, do it. hahaa
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crying is good, it oso the best way clean you eye without using eyemo.Originally posted by icyprincess:I am doing it la, otherwise I will be crying my eyes out already...
i.c.y
"Letting it go and if it come back, it yours."
Now I worried what if all come back at one time? hahahahaaa. -
there will be chaos.Originally posted by Joshua1975:crying is good, it oso the best way clean you eye without using eyemo.
"Letting it go and if it come back, it yours."
Now I worried what if all come back at one time? hahahahaaa.
but for my case, i think it will not come back le...i have accepted the fact that we are both just too different, too young, too inexperienced to be together...
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yupe..there is nothing wrong..
Reminds me of the time when we were like the best of friends.
Now she is happily attached and we no longer keep in contact le.
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it is always dat way...once someone is happily attached, forget all abt frenship...Originally posted by Patrik:yupe..there is nothing wrong..
Reminds me of the time when we were like the best of friends.
Now she is happily attached and we no longer keep in contact le. 
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Haiz
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oh crap...
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I dun know about you, I have heard of ladies going back to old lover but never any guys did that.Originally posted by icyprincess:there will be chaos.
but for my case, i think it will not come back le...i have accepted the fact that we are both just too different, too young, too inexperienced to be together...
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Hao ma bu chi hui tou cao?Originally posted by Joshua1975:I dun know about you, I have heard of ladies going back to old lover but never any guys did that.
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people already say don't want me, how to go back?Originally posted by Joshua1975:I dun know about you, I have heard of ladies going back to old lover but never any guys did that.
anyways, im an ugly, unloved, troll child. no one will want me. -
Ooi, you case is ppl reject you leh. how to go back that i dun know?Originally posted by HENG@:people already say don't want me, how to go back?
anyways, im an ugly, unloved, troll child. no one will want me.
I am referring to those gal who walk out of the bf, and most will go back to the same bf when they find the one is worst. -
orh then that one is relationship of convenience leh. u know guys. they r jerks. all they want is sex.Originally posted by Joshua1975:Ooi, you case is ppl reject you leh. how to go back that i dun know?
I am referring to those gal who walk out of the bf, and most will go back to the same bf when they find the one is worst.
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hey again, gals oso want sex. just that dun show much like what guys show on the outside. hahaa when in the room, hell loose.Originally posted by HENG@:orh then that one is relationship of convenience leh. u know guys. they r jerks. all they want is sex.
as posted else where. guys are not the only one having fun in today world. -
guys are simply jerks. 'nuff said.Originally posted by Joshua1975:hey again, gals oso want sex. just that dun show much like what guys show on the outside. hahaa when in the room, hell loose.
as posted else where. guys are not the only one having fun in today world. -
problem is gals like mah.Originally posted by HENG@:guys are simply jerks. 'nuff said. -
whatever happened to decency. and u dun really see gals heckling guys on the streets. whoever said gals like jerks? only Jerks are so ego(n thicked skinned) that they can say something like that.Originally posted by Joshua1975:problem is gals like mah.