truth and lies
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wrong. he is the one who throws his chance away, not me.Originally posted by ernestantan:why tell him so many things and still end...
explain so much also dun wan him eventually...
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wah lau.....i also experience the same darn thing..Originally posted by icyprincess:i just told him the truth. i told him i care. i told him i wish we can be a couple for a longer time. but this has got to end becos we have different expectations and mindset lor...told him i wun be seeing him anymore cos i need time to heal and to forget him. he said he understands and told me to take care and not stress so much. I wish him all the best and told him maybe one day he will find someone whom he likes being with and someone whom he cares about more....
so sad....
i.c.y
and that's wht my ex-gf tell me leh when she dumped me for another guy...
but luckily i moved on liao...
felt so much lighter, happier..
at least i've got an inking of wht happened...
but of cos u'll be sad in the beginning de.
let time washed out any sad moments...
but do keep all those happy memories that u & him have had loh
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even if he did blow his chances, i dun understd the need to tell him that u love him, would love the relationship to last longer, etc. and then tell him a big BUT we have to end here.Originally posted by icyprincess:wrong. he is the one who throws his chance away, not me.
i.c.y -
why not? I am merely telling the truth, just like wat he was doing. He told me he doesn't love me, so I told him the truth which is I did. I am not trying to make him feel guilty or sad or anything. I just think it is good to let someone know that I do care when I was with him. the big But was there because of our ideas of a relationship is just too different and I can't compromise that much anymore...Originally posted by ernestantan:even if he did blow his chances, i dun understd the need to tell him that u love him, would love the relationship to last longer, etc. and then tell him a big BUT we have to end here.
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your gf told you she can't commit?Originally posted by tikoman:wah lau.....i also experience the same darn thing..
and that's wht my ex-gf tell me leh when she dumped me for another guy...
but luckily i moved on liao...
felt so much lighter, happier..
at least i've got an inking of wht happened...
but of cos u'll be sad in the beginning de.
let time washed out any sad moments...
but do keep all those happy memories that u & him have had loh
right now, i m just focussing on forgetting, so dat means i can't even think of the good times we have had together. Whenever I think back about them, I will feel like crying. So maybe it is better to push them all to the back of my mind for now. And maybe someday I will have the courage again to look back and smile.
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Originally posted by icyprincess:
I wasnt aware he said that. My apologies...
why not? I am merely telling the truth, just like wat he was doing. He told me he doesn't love me, so I told him the truth which is I did. I am not trying to make him feel guilty or sad or anything. I just think it is good to let someone know that I do care when I was with him. the big But was there because of our ideas of a relationship is just too different and I can't compromise that much anymore...
i.c.y
Well, I guess my scenario is somewhat similar to yours...
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she told me she dun can't get along with me liao...Originally posted by icyprincess:your gf told you she can't commit?
right now, i m just focussing on forgetting, so dat means i can't even think of the good times we have had together. Whenever I think back about them, I will feel like crying. So maybe it is better to push them all to the back of my mind for now. And maybe someday I will have the courage again to look back and smile.
i.c.y
she left for another guy..
but eventually she broke up with me and ask for me bk recently..
but i told her no as i feel that a relationship that is so easily broken up won't last...
furthermore, i'm hopefully seeking girls that will click with me .
in the meantime, i'm immerse in my own wk & also doing lots of self-reflection!
cos there's gotta be lots of reasons why she dumped me, yeah?
mmm....bad temper, inpatience.
but sibe hard to find a girl liao at my age...
approaching 28 liao..
somemore nowadays girls sibe scary leh...
dunno if i can provide anything more than feelings liao..
cos:
got $$$ but not much
got car but old car
got hse but not mine
got face but not yandao
haa haa haaaa -
wah lau eh....dun love lagi better....im veri anti- love today n tomoro n many yrs to come......relax relax........