Being with him brings back memories...
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Today I feel sadder than ever. These few days, my ex crush has been coming to my room and we have had those really personal talks again. And they never fail to remind me how much I once loved him...
And as usual, he was feeling sad and lonely, I think he got rejected by a girl again, and as always I would be there to soothe him, to tell him not to worry, to advice him on what to do next...
I wonder if one day he would wake up and realize how much I have done for him...I dun love him anymore in that way, pls dun misunderstand me, but sumtimes it just reminds me of the things I do that people dun really appreciate. I wonder if one day he would feel really lucky to have a friend who is always so willing to stand by him, no matter how much he had hurt me inside in the past...
I can't seem to bear grudge. I dunno if that's good or not. Other gals wud have turned him away...
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some guy hor when they have the best they never realise,Originally posted by icyprincess:Today I feel sadder than ever. These few days, my ex crush has been coming to my room and we have had those really personal talks again. And they never fail to remind me how much I once loved him...
And as usual, he was feeling sad and lonely, I think he got rejected by a girl again, and as always I would be there to soothe him, to tell him not to worry, to advice him on what to do next...
I wonder if one day he would wake up and realize how much I have done for him...I dun love him anymore in that way, pls dun misunderstand me, but sumtimes it just reminds me of the things I do that people dun really appreciate. I wonder if one day he would feel really lucky to have a friend who is always so willing to stand by him, no matter how much he had hurt me inside in the past...
I can't seem to bear grudge. I dunno if that's good or not. Other gals wud have turned him away...
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kept thinking tat other gers are better.
then dump the one who really cares.
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i know he never treats me as more than a fren...when he is happy he wud not want to be wif me, but I can say that when he is sad, I have always been there for him...Originally posted by jusgal:some guy hor when they have the best they never realise,
kept thinking tat other gers are better.
then dump the one who really cares.
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Some things are just not meant to be. Just let it go.
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yea, I have already let it go...I am now in love with someone else, whom I really hope would never hurt me in the way I have been hurt in the past. I just hope my ex crush wud realize one day how much I have really done and endured just for his sake and would not take me for granted anymore...Originally posted by Otingocni:Some things are just not meant to be. Just let it go.
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The Fur ease luke king four yew.
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If you do something for the one you love, dont aspect return or him to realise, This will make you feel better.
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U deserve some one even better....Originally posted by icyprincess:Today I feel sadder than ever. These few days, my ex crush has been coming to my room and we have had those really personal talks again. And they never fail to remind me how much I once loved him...
And as usual, he was feeling sad and lonely, I think he got rejected by a girl again, and as always I would be there to soothe him, to tell him not to worry, to advice him on what to do next...
I wonder if one day he would wake up and realize how much I have done for him...I dun love him anymore in that way, pls dun misunderstand me, but sumtimes it just reminds me of the things I do that people dun really appreciate. I wonder if one day he would feel really lucky to have a friend who is always so willing to stand by him, no matter how much he had hurt me inside in the past...
I can't seem to bear grudge. I dunno if that's good or not. Other gals wud have turned him away...
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cast him away
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We help people, not knowing whether they will appreciate us or not. But i just want people to remember me as someone who has helped them through the difficult times in their lives..
Of course, if some chio bu wants to marry me for that, or well, someone wants to give me a car cause they're rich and successful... i'll appreciate them more
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yea, I guess I should not expect anything back in return. I should just cherish the time I spend with him lor...he went out for a while now to give present to the girl he likes now, I just smiled and wished him good luck when I have to struggle to keep all the sadness behind my smile...Originally posted by F.O.S:If you do something for the one you love, dont aspect return or him to realise, This will make you feel better.
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I don't have the mood to talk with him. He is getting on my nerves recently and it will do us both better if I'm being left alone.Originally posted by Sparing Miss Tek:The Fur ease luke king four yew. -
I already cast him away from my heart le...I no longer hope to be with him or anything...now he is just a fren to me...but still really sad that he puts so much effort in buying gift for a girl who doesn't even care a damn about him and doesn't even say thank you to me who have done so much for him. I really doubt that anyone can hide so much emotion as me...Originally posted by jusgal:U deserve some one even better....
cast him away
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I seriously doubt he would remember all that I have done for him...mebbe he thinks listening to him is not much, only me and me alone will know how much courage it takes to listen to someone you like talking about some other girls he likes...Originally posted by _Aaron_:We help people, not knowing whether they will appreciate us or not. But i just want people to remember me as someone who has helped them through the difficult times in their lives..
Of course, if some chio bu wants to marry me for that, or well, someone wants to give me a car cause they're rich and successful... i'll appreciate them more
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you are doing the right thing, don't force him into relationship. it will never work out that way.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, I guess I should not expect anything back in return. I should just cherish the time I spend with him lor...he went out for a while now to give present to the girl he likes now, I just smiled and wished him good luck when I have to struggle to keep all the sadness behind my smile...
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human needs to learn from lesson to realise the best is just besides, I would rather say you will love him more when the day comes he is an experiance man, understanding and caring than now what you like he is.
when the day comes,what you need to bare is just his pass. Since is the pass just forget it and look forward to future.
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If we decide to consider these type of scenarios, I believe a lot of parents would deserve better children. After all, our parents suffered more and bear little grudges against their children. And these children who grow up, probably never said 'I love you mom' in their lives.Originally posted by jusgal:U deserve some one even better....
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I have done too much for him for the last two years. That's why I gave up on him and decided to accept the other guy who treats me way better. but now, what I am feeling now is making me feel like I am betraying the current guy who is now back in Malaysia...Originally posted by F.O.S:you are doing the right thing, don't force him into relationship. it will never work out that way.
human needs to learn from lesson to realise the best is just besides, I would rather say you will love him more when the day comes he is an experiance man, understanding and caring than now what you like he is.
when the day comes,what you need to bare is just his pass. Since is the pass just forget it and look forward to future.
Just let him be for a moment, its yours will be yours.
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Originally posted by icyprincess:
at least he treat you closer next position than the one he is after.
I seriously doubt he would remember all that I have done for him...mebbe he thinks listening to him is not much, only me and me alone will know [b]how much courage it takes to listen to someone you like talking about some other girls he likes...
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from all his complain you can know him better and understand how to handle him when the day he change his mind to be with you.
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I always try to at least show my appreciation. At least I remember my parents' birthday and will always try to get something for them to show taht I remember. He doesn't even remember, let alone care to get anything for me...Originally posted by Otingocni:If we decide to consider these type of scenarios, I believe a lot of parents would deserve better children. After all, our parents suffered more and bear little grudges against their children. And these children who grow up, probably never said 'I love you mom' in their lives.
Love is giving without expectation of returns. If you love someone you will give the best and hope for the best. If every second must be measured, every feeling must be calculated, then your love is like a trading affair.
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I have spent more than 2 years listening. Is that not enuff?Originally posted by F.O.S:at least he treat you closer next position than the one he is after.
from all his complain you can know him better and understand how to handle him when the day he change his mind to be with you.
Take it positively, cheer up and listen more. the more he finds comfortable taking to you, the earlier he realise.
It is very tiring to have to try to keep your tears from coming out everytime you talk to a person. That's why I have decided to move on.
Anyway I think it is too late. If he decided to be with me now, I dun think I can accept him anymore, because I already love the other guy, and he deserves my love more...
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oic! Thought you have no bf, anyway clear up yourself first. If you like and enjoy with your current bf , I think should forget and draw a line not to get too close to "him".Originally posted by icyprincess:I have done too much for him for the last two years. That's why I gave up on him and decided to accept the other guy who treats me way better. but now, what I am feeling now is making me feel like I am betraying the current guy who is now back in Malaysia...
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well, me and the current guy is not official yet, but he really does treat me way better. prolly cos he is naturally a very nice guy to begin with, and he really gives a lot to me and cares for me. He knows I am hurting (tho he doesn't know who hurt me) and told me that he will always wait until I heal before we really get into a relationship. I dun wan to be unfair to someone who has treated me so good all along. I have already told my ex crush that we are nothing but frens, and so far I have managed to do dat until these few days, I kept being reminded of the time I used to spend with him last time and it is making me feel guilty towards the guy I am seeing now...Originally posted by F.O.S:oic! Thought you have no bf, anyway clear up yourself first. If you like and enjoy with your current bf , I think should forget and draw a line not to get too close to "him".
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Yew deed naught old pern yaw am ass an.
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????Originally posted by Sparing Miss Tek:Yew deed naught old pern yaw am ass an.
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97% of the people on my msn is blocked. My colleagues, people from sgforums, my ex-classmates and many others. Why does it bother you that you're blocked or I did not open my msn? Can't I have silence for some time?Originally posted by Sparing Miss Tek:Yew deed naught old pern yaw am ass an. -
agrees...Originally posted by Otingocni:97% of the people on my msn is blocked. My colleagues, people from sgforums, my ex-classmates and many others. Why does it bother you that you're blocked or I did not open my msn? Can't I have silence for some time?
everything up to u as an individual