Depressing entries are more thoughtful??
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*sigh* talk about ppl never being satisfied with what they have...One of my frens messaged me to tell me that she used to like reading my blog, but now my entries are just plain shallow. Last time they used to tell me that my entries are too depressing, so now I stop writing depressing stuff, they are telling me that i am not thinking deep enough. I do not know what to think anymore.
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lol i agree ! entries that are tainted with sadness are more popular
no idea why, maybe it is all in the heart ? -
iys yr blog.. write wat u want. if u write wat people wana read... its more of a story telling session....
its yr life.. live it... -
they ain't you...
let it be...
frankly, being happy, is severely underrated! and people equate happiness with frivolity...
being sad, traumatised and all that, very drama.. but to me, not worth the suffering... so stay happy, okay?
if they want you to be miserable just because they want a "drama" blog to read, they just showed how shallow they themselves are! -
I wrote depressing entries last time cos I was feeling depressed.Originally posted by BeEtHoVeN:lol i agree ! entries that are tainted with sadness are more popular
no idea why, maybe it is all in the heart ?
I am beginning to feel better now, so now my entries are more cheerful, like they contain more jokes, etc.
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yea..but I think recently I have stopped writing about my "private" life...cos I don't think it is appropriate to write about what is happening between the two of us, since we are not official or anything yet...Originally posted by skeujin:iys yr blog.. write wat u want. if u write wat people wana read... its more of a story telling session....
its yr life.. live it...
plus I can write cryptic entries to somehow convey my sadness...but somehow to write a cryptic entry to convey my happiness, that's harder to do. Surprisingly so...
i.c.y -
i don't even bother with blogs. ppl know when something's wrong when i start acting insanely happy, or when i've got blood stained clothes.
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yea, I think some people just love reading about my "private" life...they know there was one point of my life (which is not too long ago) when I was feeling extremely emotional and when I get emotional, I can't really keep secrets, so they have more things to read and gossip about. But now that I am feeling happier and contented with life, I have a better control over what I write...Originally posted by the Bear:they ain't you...
let it be...
frankly, being happy, is severely underrated! and people equate happiness with frivolity...
being sad, traumatised and all that, very drama.. but to me, not worth the suffering... so stay happy, okay?
if they want you to be miserable just because they want a "drama" blog to read, they just showed how shallow they themselves are!
i.c.y -
Originally posted by HENG@:i don't even bother with blogs. ppl know when something's wrong when i start acting insanely happy, or when i've got blood stained clothes.
I started my blog because I wanted a place to channel my feelings I guess.
But recently I started to realize that a lot of other people are interested in how my life goes...even tho sometimes it is really none of their business...
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they r just voyeuristic really.Originally posted by icyprincess:
I started my blog because I wanted a place to channel my feelings I guess.
But recently I started to realize that a lot of other people are interested in how my life goes...even tho sometimes it is really none of their business...
i.c.y -
hmm i nv believe in a blog.... like reporting strength like tat haha... no matter wa u do wad happen dun need to let others noe ma... so no point writing ur daily life happenign and postng it on the net letting others noe.. hmm..
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yea...sometimes it is flattering that people actually bother to read about what I think(esp when I just write crap) but sometimes it is kinda scary to have so many people looking and peeking into my mind...Originally posted by HENG@:they r just voyeuristic really.
i.c.y -
that is goodOriginally posted by icyprincess:I wrote depressing entries last time cos I was feeling depressed.
I am beginning to feel better now, so now my entries are more cheerful, like they contain more jokes, etc.
i.c.y
depressing stuff are better left untouched unless necessary -
well...why care about what other says? that is your blog and what you wanna write is all about yourself can't you just write about your depression all day long isn't it?
just reply them...thanks for your k-p-o...
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well, i dun just write about my daily life like oh, 8am I went to brush my teeth, then 9am I went to school, etc...it is more of like reflecting on the things that have happened to me during the day and writing abt the things that matter to me...sometimes they might just be things I have seen or heard, they might just be my thoughts about certain incidents or even feelings that I have had. Or they might just be about jokes or songs that I have heard...sometimes just thought they might cheer soemone up...Originally posted by m)phosis:hmm i nv believe in a blog.... like reporting strength like tat haha... no matter wa u do wad happen dun need to let others noe ma... so no point writing ur daily life happenign and postng it on the net letting others noe.. hmm..
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when i want ppl to know im feeling insane, i can always just yell at them.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea...sometimes it is flattering that people actually bother to read about what I think(esp when I just write crap) but sometimes it is kinda scary to have so many people looking and peeking into my mind...
i.c.y -
I guess... sometimes I can't find people to talk to me about it, and I can't just keep them to myself because they will keep going around my head and I can't do anything else other than brood and dwell on them. So my blog is kinda theraupatic in that sense, it helps me to get things out of my systemOriginally posted by BeEtHoVeN:that is good
depressing stuff are better left untouched unless necessary
i.c.y -
in my case, i just write poems.Originally posted by icyprincess:I guess... sometimes I can't find people to talk to me about it, and I can't just keep them to myself because they will keep going around my head and I can't do anything else other than brood and dwell on them. So my blog is kinda theraupatic in that sense, it helps me to get things out of my system
i.c.y -
hehe...the poems i wrote...mebbe u did see them in the forum somewhere yesterday. I dun think they are really poems tho, just bits and pieces of my fragmented thoughts...Originally posted by HENG@:in my case, i just write poems.
i.c.y -
to me a blog is whr u put yr tghts down tt u wana share with the world...
not a place to write yr secrets or air dirty laundry...
write way u want.. but b prepared to accept compliments or critisizm...
at most do what russel crowe asked of his audience in gladiator....
"ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?!" -
dats true..Originally posted by skeujin:to me a blog is whr u put yr tghts down tt u wana share with the world...
not a place to write yr secrets or air dirty laundry...
write way u want.. but b prepared to accept compliments or critisizm...
at most do what russel crowe asked of his audience in gladiator....
"ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?!"
i dun air my dirty laundry in the public of cos, i know someone who did that and mebbe dats y it is not surprising why her blog has like 20,000 visitors up to date...
i.c.y -
bits and pieces of my twisted tortured and mentally disfigured thoughts are more then enough to be shown to the world. any more and they'll lock me up in a mental institution.Originally posted by icyprincess:hehe...the poems i wrote...mebbe u did see them in the forum somewhere yesterday. I dun think they are really poems tho, just bits and pieces of my fragmented thoughts...
i.c.y -
hehe...show meOriginally posted by HENG@:bits and pieces of my twisted tortured and mentally disfigured thoughts are more then enough to be shown to the world. any more and they'll lock me up in a mental institution.
sumtimes when I am emotional, I think my entries can really get over the top as well...and they might seem crazy to someone who doesn't understand the depth of my feelings at times...
i.c.y -
show u my inner self? oh no i can'tOriginally posted by icyprincess:hehe...show me
sumtimes when I am emotional, I think my entries can really get over the top as well...and they might seem crazy to someone who doesn't understand the depth of my feelings at times...
i.c.y -
alrite, wun force uOriginally posted by HENG@:show u my inner self? oh no i can't
just curious anyway...
i.c.y