its a good thing to be.Originally posted by icyprincess:sighhh...seems like soon i will turn asexual too
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it is hard when there are ppl around you tempting you to be sexual.Originally posted by HENG@:its a good thing to be.
then what? who better to decide on one's sexualty then oneself? like... if a gal hits on u, u're gonna be lesbian?Originally posted by amuletgurl:asexuality is not something u should decide upon urself
bi guan xiu lian.Originally posted by icyprincess:it is hard when there are ppl around you tempting you to be sexual.
oops.
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hmm...will try. dunno how successful i will beOriginally posted by HENG@:bi guan xiu lian.
seriously, it's possible.
depends whther one is attracted to another or not,and im not attracted to girls,how to be les?Originally posted by HENG@:then what? who better to decide on one's sexualty then oneself? like... if a gal hits on u, u're gonna be lesbian?
and that is self determination is it not? there are ppl who choose to be asexual for other reasons. self determination of sexuality is the right of being a human being.Originally posted by amuletgurl:depends whther one is attracted to another or not,and im not attracted to girls,how to be les?
asexuality exists,but its like 1 in millions ,but...i've read that they have never been attracted to male nor female in their life,and they dun even have sexual thoughts at all,they dun even know how to masturbate
anyways, why i thot u had a guy after u?Originally posted by icyprincess:hmm...will try. dunno how successful i will be
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yea, i m getting scared i m going to fall for himOriginally posted by HENG@:anyways, why i thot u had a guy after u?
why scared?Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, i m getting scared i m going to fall for him
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cos i m afraid of him hurting me...Originally posted by HENG@:why scared?
well...... ok. brb. im gonna go take a shower.Originally posted by icyprincess:cos i m afraid of him hurting me...
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We're going back to Square One here, icy.Originally posted by icyprincess:cos i m afraid of him hurting me...
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I think I cannot control myself anymore.Originally posted by Rhonda:We're going back to Square One here, icy.
its the price for loving a "ball-picker" u knowOriginally posted by icyprincess:I think I cannot control myself anymore.
I am in love with him.
Met him for dinner just now, and the more time I spent with him, the more I realize I do like him.
sighh.
hopefully he will protect my heart....cos I think now it is already in his hands...
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I dun mind him taking his time, I have been hurt before also so I dun wan to rush into a r/s as well...just dat I have never had anyone who cares so much about what I think, about what I say and listen to me like evry word I said is worth gold. I wish I can freeze time and make us stay this way forever...Originally posted by InnoHippo:its the price for loving a "ball-picker" u know
Maybe you can, since he's a 'slow' ball picker. You're going to enjoy this time freeze for a few more months at least... ~Originally posted by icyprincess:I dun mind him taking his time, I have been hurt before also so I dun wan to rush into a r/s as well...just dat I have never had anyone who cares so much about what I think, about what I say and listen to me like evry word I said is worth gold. I wish I can freeze time and make us stay this way forever...
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I am giving in to my feelings le...too strong for me to control already...Originally posted by _Aaron_:Maybe you can, since he's a 'slow' ball picker. You're going to enjoy this time freeze for a few more months at least... ~
Just give in to your feelings, and pray that he'll understand what you're going through, and do the same thing for himself.
Wishin' you luck
Aaron di di~
ha ha .... "ball-pickers" are slow moversOriginally posted by icyprincess:I am giving in to my feelings le...too strong for me to control already...
I told him that I was hurt before and he said he understand, so mebbe dats y he wans to take things slow...
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i find it hurting to prevent myself to love someone so dat i wun be hurt.. like u keep dwelling in the shadows of past bad experiences...Originally posted by icyprincess:do u think it is rite...if we dun love someone too much? just to stop ourselves from getting hurt too deeply? prolly cos i have had really bad experiences in the past, now i m more cautious abt falling in love, so feel quite tiring cos I have to stop myself from falling for him evday...sighhhh
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yea, it is very tiring in a way...I think I am slowly trying to let go of the past now...Originally posted by ~Lyn~:i find it hurting to prevent myself to love someone so dat i wun be hurt.. like u keep dwelling in the shadows of past bad experiences...