do you stop yourself from loving sumone so dat u wun b hurt?

• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:19

  do u think it is rite...if we dun love someone too much? just to stop ourselves from getting hurt too deeply? prolly cos i have had really bad experiences in the past, now i m more cautious abt falling in love, so feel quite tiring cos I have to stop myself from falling for him evday...sighhhh
  
  i.c.y
• SnowFlag

  7 Dec 04, 13:20

  i will
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:20

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  i will

  do u find it tiring?
  
  i.c.y
• skeujin

  7 Dec 04, 13:20

  wen yr truly in luv. there's no such thing as 'putting on the brakes'
  
  i knw tt from experience...
• Devil1976

  7 Dec 04, 13:21

  
  
  I'm not totally afraid of her as much as I'm afraid of what I can do to myself...?
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:21

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  wen yr truly in luv. there's no such thing as 'putting on the brakes'
  
  i knw tt from experience...

  but an put a brake on when it is still 'new'..so wun get too deep into it...
  
  yea, i m selfish.
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:22

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  
  
  I'm not totally afraid of her as much as I'm afraid of what I can do to myself...?

  wat u tink u will do to urself?
  
  i.c.y
• 798

  7 Dec 04, 13:25

  yes!
  
  no point... really no point...
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:26

  Originally posted by 798:

  yes!
  
  no point... really no point...

  why no point? u tink it is no point so u stop loving her??
  
  i.c.y
• skeujin

  7 Dec 04, 13:26

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  but an put a brake on when it is still 'new'..so wun get too deep into it...
  
  yea, i m selfish.
  
  i.c.y

  if u wnt commit to a r/s.. mite as well dnt b in one.. jus get a F bud...
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:27

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  if u wnt commit to a r/s.. mite as well dnt b in one.. jus get a F bud...

  I am not in one yet...I am now in between, dats y I dun wan to start falling for him yet because I do not know whether this will last or not. Or whether he will end up hurting me badly or not...
  
  i.c.y
• frOst^~^nOva

  7 Dec 04, 13:28

  yep. it happened to me a few times already. well i guess it's life
• jusgal

  7 Dec 04, 13:29

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  do u find it tiring?
  
  i.c.y

  TIRED
• skeujin

  7 Dec 04, 13:29

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  I am not in one yet...I am now in between, dats y I dun wan to start falling for him yet because I do not know whether this will last or not. Or whether he will end up hurting me badly or not...
  
  i.c.y

  take a luk in this thread i posted some time back
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=70732
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:30

  Originally posted by frOst^~^nOva:

  yep. it happened to me a few times already. well i guess it's life

  last time i used to love with abandon. but I got 'burned' a few times already. dats y now, I am more cautious.
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:36

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  take a luk in this thread i posted some time back
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=70732

  so how's it now? happy?
  i hope so.
  
  i.c.y
• skeujin

  7 Dec 04, 13:49

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  so how's it now? happy?
  i hope so.
  
  i.c.y

  im hapi.. it has its ups n downs.. ive learned tt there is no perfect r/s... its made up of sacrifices n compromises.... n plenty of TLC...
  
  
• LilO gIrL

  7 Dec 04, 13:51

  I cannot stop myself from loving him.
  
  I can only hate myself for loving him.
  
  And that will make me feel that I am not fit to love him
  
  And...i will give up.
  
  Crap! Duno what am I talking about.
• Ice79

  7 Dec 04, 13:53

  yes i will. especially if i'm uncertain if i am ready for that relationship. but some chance once missed, may never have a 2nd time
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:56

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  im hapi.. it has its ups n downs.. ive learned tt there is no perfect r/s... its made up of sacrifices n compromises.... n plenty of TLC...
  
  

  these few days back...he showed me a lot of TLC le...
  but still a part of me, is really, really afraid to take the risk...
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  7 Dec 04, 13:57

  Originally posted by LilO gIrL:

  I cannot stop myself from loving him.
  
  I can only hate myself for loving him.
  
  And that will make me feel that I am not fit to love him
  
  And...i will give up.
  
  Crap! Duno what am I talking about.

  I think I do know a little bit abt how you feel.
  cos I am feeling it too...
  
  i.c.y
• amuletgurl

  7 Dec 04, 13:58

  i DUN want to FALL inlove......it takes up so much of my time n feelings,damn it,im loving my single life
• skeujin

  7 Dec 04, 13:58

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  these few days back...he showed me a lot of TLC le...
  but still a part of me, is really, really afraid to take the risk...
  
  i.c.y

  if u dnt take the plunge.. ull nvr knw how deep is his love.. sounds corny bt really relevant...
  
  everyone gets hurt.. doesnt mean u wnt find true love... even true love hurts sometimes...
  
  
• SnowFlag

  7 Dec 04, 13:59

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  i will

  i find myself getting more forgetful.
• xking

  7 Dec 04, 14:03

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  but an put a brake on when it is still 'new'..so wun get too deep into it...
  
  yea, i m selfish.
  
  i.c.y

  I used to think that....u know...try to control the feeling before it goes to deep... as in put on the brakes..
  
  but in the end...i felt ...give it a shot...wats there to fear...nothing too worst will happen...