What is a date?
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it sure doesOriginally posted by icyprincess:sumtimes..sumhow absence makes the heart grows fonder
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dunno leh...like meet everyday oso nice, but after a while suddenly feel like nothing new to talk about...mebbe i m just weird...Originally posted by InnoHippo:it sure does
anyway i talk in my blog and he goes there to read my thoughts haha...
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then hippo is as weird as uOriginally posted by icyprincess:dunno leh...like meet everyday oso nice, but after a while suddenly feel like nothing new to talk about...mebbe i m just weird...
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Sometimes absence can also make you see that you don't really like him.Originally posted by icyprincess:dunno leh...like meet everyday oso nice, but after a while suddenly feel like nothing new to talk about...mebbe i m just weird...
anyway i talk in my blog and he goes there to read my thoughts haha...
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Nothing like separating/no contact for a few days ~~
Actually really lar, where got everytime meet up got stuff to talk one? That's why sometimes i just see couples hold hands slowly walk, enjoy each other's company...
That's what i would want to do... hopefully in the near future.. -
I think the absence..makes me realize I do like himOriginally posted by _Aaron_:Sometimes absence can also make you see that you don't really like him.
Nothing like separating/no contact for a few days ~~
Actually really lar, where got everytime meet up got stuff to talk one? That's why sometimes i just see couples hold hands slowly walk, enjoy each other's company...
That's what i would want to do... hopefully in the near future..
cos last time I was worried mebbe I was still on rebound...but for the past few weeks, I have found out mebbe I am not after all...
I think a true friend is someone you can be wif even during moments of silence...and dun feel uncomfortable or anything like dat...
I am sure you will get your chance soon
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if a guy initiates an outing to a girl and prefers that the gal does not bring her best friend along, that is a dateOriginally posted by icyprincess:In these modern days, it is so hard to distinguish between a date or just going out with a normal friend.
So who wants to tell me what is considered as a date?
*blur mode on*
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haha...cannot bring fren along...cos he is paying...later has to pay for the best fren as well...Originally posted by boy in blues:if a guy initiates an outing to a girl and prefers that the gal does not bring her best friend along, that is a date
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Originally posted by icyprincess:haha...cannot bring fren along...cos he is paying...later has to pay for the best fren as well...
i.c.y ya. this is a likely scenario. i will never treat a gal not even my girlfriend unless i know she has money issue. and i won't dare make it obvious. even then, i won't spend much and would rather eat low-priced food even when i'm hungry. because she may feel i trying to make her owe me a favor or i trying to show off i rich. abusing money like that does no good to the relationship. in chinese society, using money to win relations has bad connotations -
A Date is like an interview except that you may ultimately be naked at the end of the session.
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u mean u wun treat ur gf to meals?Originally posted by boy in blues: ya. this is a likely scenario. i will never treat a gal not even my girlfriend unless i know she has money issue. and i won't dare make it obvious. even then, i won't spend much and would rather eat low-priced food even when i'm hungry. because she may feel i trying to make her owe me a favor or i trying to show off i rich. abusing money like that does no good to the relationship. in chinese society, using money to win relations has bad connotations
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no..i wud make sure dat wil never happen to me :pOriginally posted by aH_v:A Date is like an interview except that you may ultimately be naked at the end of the session.
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Originally posted by icyprincess:u mean u wun treat ur gf to meals?
i.c.y cheapskate mah. i will occasionally, but i will find some excuse for it. project the image that i'm in a very good mood today because "blah blah blah blah ........... so treat you for this time". you know, so she doesn't think i think she's the type of girl easily impressed by money -
haha..not to say everyday treat la..I dun wan someone to treat me evday oso, I will start to feel very suspicious, mebbe dat guy got sum ulterior motive or wat..Originally posted by boy in blues: cheapskate mah. i will occasionally, but i will find some excuse for it. project the image that i'm in a very good mood today because "blah blah blah blah ........... so treat you for this time". you know, so she doesn't think i think she's the type of girl easily impressed by money 
but mebbe on special occassion, or when you feel like making her feel pleased... 
she wun be impressed by the money but she wud be impressed by ur efforts
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It seems that you are the one taking initiative..you like him but you want him to date you.Originally posted by icyprincess:thank you...but i wan him to put in effort oso...dats y i told him off yesterday...i said i wan us to spend more time together but he said i have to understand sumtimes he is busy and after working very tired so dun feel like going out wif me cos he will get into bad mood...so now i just tell him to ask me out whenever he is free lor...
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erm not really...when i did go out wif him, it is him who asked me...it seems like he doesn't like ppl ask him to go out, beats me why so i stop asking him already..he will ask me to go out wif him when he is free...Originally posted by LilO gIrL:It seems that you are the one taking initiative..you like him but you want him to date you.
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