Advice needed again...
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yea. sum more i told him this kinda thing...need to do by yourself one. i can be there to help , but i wan him to be there wif me oso. he said evthing is just bullshit, why shud he be there when i can get it for him?Originally posted by skinnybeanie:yeah, if my kid still studying, i'll be happy with just a small gift, or even something non-materialistic like cooking a meal for me or doing the chores for me.
But that guy is really too much
i totally dun get him.
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I used to be blind also. See, before I have been treated like maid by other jerks le. Like last time, my ex-crush asked me to go buy presents for this girl that he likes. Now this guy asked me to go buy gift for his mom. What the hell they think I am?Originally posted by skinnybeanie:let sleeping dogs lie, no point arguing with such person.
Well, won't be surprised that there are girls who can condone such attitude. You'll be amazed how powerful love can be.. enough to blind some people
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i'll leave him alone if i'm you.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea. sum more i told him this kinda thing...need to do by yourself one. i can be there to help , but i wan him to be there wif me oso. he said evthing is just bullshit, why shud he be there when i can get it for him?
i totally dun get him.
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yea..dats wat all my frens told me also. i m leaving him alone. This thursday, bo bian, have to see him during dinner, but got a lot of people, so I will try to siam him.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i'll leave him alone if i'm you.
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you have to learn to say NO in order not to be treated this way.Originally posted by icyprincess:I used to be blind also. See, before I have been treated like maid by other jerks le. Like last time, my ex-crush asked me to go buy presents for this girl that he likes. Now this guy asked me to go buy gift for his mom. What the hell they think I am?
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Remember that you are not obligated to do such favours for anybody.
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yea, I feel good after I said no to him tonight.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:you have to learn to say NO in order not to be treated this way.
Remember that you are not obligated to do such favours for anybody.
at least he knows I am not that stupid.
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nah, wat i meant was to leave him alone on this issue concern. No point arguing with him or trying to convince him to agree with you. But then, you can still be frensOriginally posted by icyprincess:yea..dats wat all my frens told me also. i m leaving him alone. This thursday, bo bian, have to see him during dinner, but got a lot of people, so I will try to siam him.
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good girl. Shouldn't let pple let him take advantage of your kindnessOriginally posted by icyprincess:yea, I feel good after I said no to him tonight.
at least he knows I am not that stupid.
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yea, i can be frens with him as long as he doesn't ask me to do this kinda thing for him again. as long as i dun have to take this kinda crap from him, then i m fine with him being my fren. mebbe just the hi-bye type.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:nah, wat i meant was to leave him alone on this issue concern. No point arguing with him or trying to convince him to agree with you. But then, you can still be frens
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a lot of people told me to do this le before. it is just that I never seem to have the courage to do it. I think I am more of the person who would avoid argument if I can, I just want to treat everyone with kindness, I want to treat everyone like my friends. But obviously once ppl learn about this, they start to take advantage.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:good girl. Shouldn't let pple let him take advantage of your kindness
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ya lor, just be casual frens, no need to be so drastic until siam himOriginally posted by icyprincess:yea, i can be frens with him as long as he doesn't ask me to do this kinda thing for him again. as long as i dun have to take this kinda crap from him, then i m fine with him being my fren. mebbe just the hi-bye type.
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it is very hard...i will try to control my emotions.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:ya lor, just be casual frens, no need to be so drastic until siam him
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u have a crush on him issit??Originally posted by icyprincess:it is very hard...i will try to control my emotions.
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well..if u did keep up with my previous entries u wud know what happened.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:u have a crush on him issit??
he was the one who was very attentive to me at first. last time doesn't matter where i want to go, he wud go with me. went out with him a few times, then I started to develop feelings for him le cos last time he really came out as someone warm and caring towards me. then at the same time, he started to change until become like how he is today.
u understand why I am so disappointed now?
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oh i c... sori, haven't been hanging around here often so didn't follow your storyOriginally posted by icyprincess:well..if u did keep up with my previous entries u wud know what happened.
he was the one who was very attentive to me at first. last time doesn't matter where i want to go, he wud go with me. went out with him a few times, then I started to develop feelings for him le cos last time he really came out as someone warm and caring towards me. then at the same time, he started to change until become like how he is today.
u understand why I am so disappointed now?
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i guess. he was really a good actor back then. i was really duped by his nice side. it is only recently i begin to see all the rotten parts.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:oh i c... sori, haven't been hanging around here often so didn't follow your story
well, better to see the true him now then after you are attached
i am willing to accept flaws in people, but there are some that I just cannot tolerate. And insincerity is one of them.
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insincerity if a huge flaw that not many can tolerate.Originally posted by icyprincess:i guess. he was really a good actor back then. i was really duped by his nice side. it is only recently i begin to see all the rotten parts.
i am willing to accept flaws in people, but there are some that I just cannot tolerate. And insincerity is one of them.
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yea. and there is sth about him being very cold also. as in he is rational and practical, but I just feel sometimes he is just too logical, like no feelings at all...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:insincerity if a huge flaw that not many can tolerate.
that's a major no-no for me
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then focus on the flaws. That should help you to get over the crush.Originally posted by icyprincess:yea. and there is sth about him being very cold also. as in he is rational and practical, but I just feel sometimes he is just too logical, like no feelings at all...
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generally, guys hate to shop with gals. my 2 cents.
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agree that most guys hate that.Originally posted by 798:generally, guys hate to shop with gals. my 2 cents.
But then, when come to buying pressie for his own mother, should at least make the effort right? -
yea. i can understand that but it is his mom's present. he shud either go alone and get it by himself or he shud go wif me and we can pick it out together.Originally posted by 798:generally, guys hate to shop with gals. my 2 cents.
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