What would you do...

• icyprincess

  3 Nov 04, 13:26

  if u see one of your very close frens going into something you know will end up hurting him/her, what would you do? You have tried giving advice but they would not listen. Instead they will call you a wet blanket and say that you dun understand. Sometimes will even get labelled as "nosy"
  
  Sometimes it is so hard to try to be nice to people *sigh*
  
  i.c.y
• Fuqua

  3 Nov 04, 13:34

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  if u see one of your very close frens going into something you know will end up hurting him/her, what would you do? You have tried giving advice but they would not listen. Instead they will call you a wet blanket and say that you dun understand. Sometimes will even get labelled as "nosy"
  
  Sometimes it is so hard to try to be nice to people *sigh*
  
  i.c.y

  Ur close fren call u wet blanket AND nosy?
  Some lessons in life are meant to be learnt the HARD way. Let him/her be.
  Just be there for support when the sh*t hit the fan later.
• the.raven

  3 Nov 04, 13:40

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  if u see one of your very close frens going into something you know will end up hurting him/her, what would you do? You have tried giving advice but they would not listen. Instead they will call you a wet blanket and say that you dun understand. Sometimes will even get labelled as "nosy"
  
  Sometimes it is so hard to try to be nice to people *sigh*
  
  i.c.y

  my friends not like that, they know what I'm thinking, I know what they are thinking
• icyprincess

  3 Nov 04, 13:44

  they think I have become too doubtful of ppl.
  but I see him going down a path I have trodden on before.
  and that path has lead me to nowhere but destruction.
  Thank goodness I managed to get up again in the end and the whole experience has made me a stronger, wiser person (not so wise yet, I still have a lot to learn).
  I am worried for him. But I guess some people just need to learn by experience as it is the best teacher.
  
  i.c.y
• Fuqua

  4 Nov 04, 08:13

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  they think I have become too doubtful of ppl.
  but I see him going down a path I have trodden on before.
  and that path has lead me to nowhere but destruction.
  Thank goodness I managed to get up again in the end and the whole experience has made me a stronger, wiser person (not so wise yet, I still have a lot to learn).
  I am worried for him. But I guess some people just need to learn by experience as it is the best teacher.
  
  i.c.y

  Practical advice from someone who have gone thro a similar experience before. I wud VALUE such an advice. Go on!, tell ur story leh and maybe others can benefit from it.
• Estee

  4 Nov 04, 08:14

  pang guan ze qing, dang ju ze mi.
• Fuqua

  4 Nov 04, 08:22

  Originally posted by Estee:

  pang guan ze qing, dang ju ze mi.

  Morning buddy. I miss the old photo of J.A. Always brings a smile to my face. BUT i suppose we all have to learn to move on in this life gracefully.
• Estee

  4 Nov 04, 08:23

  Originally posted by Fuqua:

  Morning buddy. I miss the old photo of J.A. Always brings a smile to my face. BUT i suppose we all have to learn to move on in this life gracefully.

  morning buddy....... jennifer aniston is on leave till she goes for another 'photoshoot' haha........
• Fuqua

  4 Nov 04, 08:27

  Originally posted by Estee:

  morning buddy....... jennifer aniston is on leave till she goes for another 'photoshoot' haha........

  My heart remembers her fondly.
  I will wait for the new photo then. Nice delicate ears btw ... J-Lo?
• Estee

  4 Nov 04, 08:33

  Originally posted by Fuqua:

  My heart remembers her fondly.
  I will wait for the new photo then. Nice delicate ears btw ... J-Lo?

  nope.. from ayumi hamasaki.......
• 101wish

  5 Nov 04, 01:35

  Wil advise him/her, but if they stil tink they r not wrong then ther's nothg much i can do..at least i hav done my part as his/her close frd !
• Ito_^

  5 Nov 04, 01:58

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  if u see one of your very close frens going into something you know will end up hurting him/her, what would you do? You have tried giving advice but they would not listen. Instead they will call you a wet blanket and say that you dun understand. Sometimes will even get labelled as "nosy"
  
  Sometimes it is so hard to try to be nice to people *sigh*
  
  i.c.y

  ya. been labelled as kpo before, so dun care her liao. in the end, it turn out juz as expected. *shurgs*