Getting Married without Proposal...
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Dear readers i am getting married next year but up till now my bf have not propose to me...I did hint him and right to my face he tell me he will not propose to me & he will not get me engagement ring..is engagement ring a must???.However we had book the hotel and rom date etc...All will be the same day...We had bought wedding band and we share the amount...As for the wedding we split the amount too 50/50. However recently i found that all the wedding stuffs i am the one who settle all and finding all the resources including nego for the prices for wine, bridal shop, photographer, hotel booking etc...i feel that he did not do anything sort of. ..i feel i am just like a one man show....How we get to married is through a discussion & we decided to get married... All our parents & frenz are happy for our decision..fyi we being together for 2yrs plus and decided to get married we had also bto flat...Everything is according to our plan but somehow i still feel something missing i do love him but what shall i do??? He is 33yrs old & i am 28yrs old...thks
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how good is he a catch?
or are you a better catch for him?
he like not very romantic or not very giving
marry liao issit u have to bear everything?
maybe he is thinking he sign on the dotted line means u are entitled to 50/50 also if anything goes wrong
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wedding band oso msut bear 50/50 like a bit extreme
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Would any gal want to marry me if I do not propose??
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you discussed about wedding before you are sure he wants to marry you, that is putting the cart before the horses?
Many men are like that, they decide and then everythings are left to the other party. this is just the beginning, you are going to live together, and have children together....can you live with that?
You should have another discussion with him and tell him how you feel...engagement, proposal...all are in the process for you two to think before you finally say I DO, then you do the preparation, invite the relatives and friends to share the joy with you as you officially say I DO. First thing first! Don't jump the gun.
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why need to geh gao who contribute what to the wedding
if everything must count like tt, think abt the married life later on...............
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i am nt geh gao the contribution if i am i will be quarrelling with him...just that i feel something is missing & i dunno wat is that...& i want to know engagement ring is it a must ??? since he will nt give me & i already give up hope that he will propose to me...seriously he dun really earn alot both of us just have an average income...he treats me gd at times that is why i do not bother abt the contribution cause money can't buy a gd husband but inside my heart i feel abit pain when all my frenx ask me how he propose to me?? i can only smile & bring across. ..if engagement ring is nt a must then i feel sort of relieve in future i can tell my frenx engagement ring is nt a must....
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dont think too much ...everything will be alright
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not a must
donno who came out with this engagement ring idea in the 1st plc
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so engagement ring is nt a must as well as proposal???
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I thought if want to get married, by both side agree 就好? as long as go ROM and the country certify that it is a legal marriage, then it is a marriage...
All the other stuff like wedding dinner, kneel down proposal, honeymoon are all plus plus plus. But by today's society standard, like must have, if not will lose face...
As long as both happy 就好, if u die die wan ring or etc etc then better discuss properly, dun few years later blame he no give u ring then u still marry him etc etc... It all boils down to the fact on whether can people live with it anot...
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all those are personal expectations
which is now simply too commercialised to actually hold any significant meaning
to get married in SG it is just registering at ROM and cost SGD26
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Who is going to apply hdb flat?
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we 2 applying for hdb..
regarding register for rom now is $28 no longer $26....cause i had applied recently.
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hor fifi it's $28 now, for your update
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how i am confused too many things in my mind...perhaps my wedding is getting close to the date & i am the one who deal with everything from small to big stuffs such as the 过大礼etc...i really feel like a one man show...even finding rental car & rom filing no one helps me....i deal with all...seriously guys over here...wat do ur think??? is he really sincere in marrying me??? or is it becos he left with no choice or it is just right tat i appear at the right time for him but the feeling he has for me is nt strong??? some of them asking me is it i left with no choice the fact is NO despite we together for 2yrs plus in between there is guys go after me some are even younger than me but i do nt feel anything for them as i luv my bf alot but i do nt wish to be like a one way thing...means i luv him alot so he feel he should marry me ..guys if u all really luv a ger wat will u guys do since u all are getting married & how u will handle the preparation of your wedding? ??pls advise how i know do he really sincere in marrying me & luv me???