Originally posted by Ihatemen:
gal friends... Just a nickname...nothing much...how do i change my nick to Ilovemen?
cannot change name.
Will your gal friends want to marry a guy who earn less than them and than she will pay for majority of the household expenses?
Originally posted by single_alone:
cannot change name.Will your gal friends want to marry a guy who earn less than them and than she will pay for majority of the household expenses?
Originally posted by dechang:Than if you manage to marry a malaysian chinese woman, what if she don't want to migrate to singapore to be with you?
Nowadays govt have tightened the rules to apply for PR. So even if she is willing to come to singapore to be with you, it does not mean she will auto qualify for PR just because she marry a singaporean
Malaysia is only right across the causeway. You can chose to live in Johor and commute to spore for work. Anyway, most malaysian chinese women would love to get out of malaysia to live in singapore because they are attracted to the city life, clean streets (more cleaner than KL monsoon drain) and shopping variety.
Aiyoh. If you so concern about citizenship - then why bother vietnamese bride? It is harder for vietcong bride to get PR than a malaysian woman.
Hard to get PR meh? Am sure singapore would place malaysian chinese first in their list for immigrants.
Originally posted by dechang:
never heard of what city viet gals and rural ones..are city viet gals rich, just like our sg girls?
Got a few friends married to city viet gals. They are quite backward and have bad rotten teeth.
Originally posted by Xiao^P:Stuck up women like Paem above ought to read something like this link below before they make any stupid statements.
http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/this_urban_jungle/1062906/sporean_women_on_why_dating_bluecollar_workers.html
If a Singaporean guy doesnt marry a sg girl, then he is not good enough?
So what if you do manage to get a sg girl? Is that really something to be proud of?
Seriously sg girls think too highly of themselves.
I've not exactly heard anywhere from somebody telling me that sg girls make good wives.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Malaysia is only right across the causeway. You can chose to live in Johor and commute to spore for work. Anyway, most malaysian chinese women would love to get out of malaysia to live in singapore because they are attracted to the city life, clean streets (more cleaner than KL monsoon drain) and shopping variety.
Aiyoh. If you so concern about citizenship - then why bother vietnamese bride? It is harder for vietcong bride to get PR than a malaysian woman.
Hard to get PR meh? Am sure singapore would place malaysian chinese first in their list for immigrants.
Malaysia girls can easily come to singapore to work and apply for work permit or S Pass.
I don't think they will need to marry a guy just to come to live in singapore pa
Originally posted by dragg:
you have not met one doesnt mean there isnt one? do you believe every married man in singapore earns more than their wives?
Wives earning more than husband belongs to the minority and such good girls are long snatched away and happily married liao.
Pity you guys. Please remain single and dry out your genes.
Sg girls are not being materialistic, in fact they are just realistic.
You need lots of money to survive in singapore, not forgetting that you have bills to pay, parents to look after, and you will need a house one day.
HDB nowadays are expensive.
Originally posted by dechang:Malaysia girls can easily come to singapore to work and apply for work permit or S Pass.
I don't think they will need to marry a guy just to come to live in singapore pa
Then go to the local dating agency and seek malaysian gurls. No need to headach about viet cong bride.
Originally posted by Summer hill:Sg girls are not being materialistic, in fact they are just realistic.
You need lots of money to survive in singapore, not forgetting that you have bills to pay, parents to look after, and you will need a house one day.
HDB nowadays are expensive.
I know a singaporean lady who married a johorean guy. She willing to move to JB to live with him and give up high roller singaporean life.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
I know a singaporean lady who married a johorean guy. She willing to move to JB to live with him and give up high roller singaporean life.
maybe the johore guy is well-educated?
there must be something that charm that the singapore lady.
Unlike TS, who hangs around forums complaining sg girls are materialistic instead of working hard trying to earn money.
less than 2k per month??? did TS fail his O-levels?
Originally posted by Summer hill:maybe the johore guy is well-educated?
there must be something that charm that the singapore lady.
Unlike TS, who hangs around forums complaining sg girls are materialistic instead of working hard trying to earn money.
less than 2k per month??? did TS fail his O-levels?
Ah. You are the dumb ass that get banned many times and you are still studying.
Can't blame a dumb ass like you who thinks that only people who fail O level earn less than 2k.
In fact I believe you will also earn less than 2k a month even if you got a degree because a dumb ass like you will not be able to survive in society.
You can't even survive in sgforum and keep on getting banned so stop acting smart
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Then go to the local dating agency and seek malaysian gurls. No need to headach about viet cong bride.
I think that is a good idea and I intent to do that in future too irregardless of how much I earn
I wo
Originally posted by single_alone:
Ah. You are the dumb ass that get banned many times and you are still studying.Can't blame a dumb ass like you who thinks that only people who fail O level earn less than 2k.
In fact I believe you will also earn less than 2k a month even if you got a degree because a dumb ass like you will not be able to survive in society.
You can't even survive in sgforum and keep on getting banned so stop acting smart
Originally posted by ivan1973:I would say if you earing less than 10~15K, stay single. Remember, you still need lots of money for retirement.
I would say if you earning less than 1 billion dollars, try to stay single. Because being single is fun!
Someone like summer hill is going to be single forever.
She is the type of sluts that go work as prostitute also nobody wants her
I am going to be 37 years old this year. And for the past 17 years, I had only 3 short relationships that ended up with breakup. And many other smaller rejections from gals which hurts. I am not ugly at all and I work as an Engineer, just that I do not know how to sweet talk. 3 months ago, I decided to call up the Vietnamese Marriage agency and look for a quick marriage. For the first time, the boss brought 3 gals to my home for me to see and choose. All of them are between 18 to 20 years old. As my expectation on looks is still quite high, I rejected them. 2 months later, the boss called me again and say there is a new batch of gals. I was very unwilling at that time because the gals are so young! And it cost $7800, which I find it very expensive. but he says that there is a 21 year old and very pretty. So I agree to meet. He brought another 4 gals. The 21 one year old caught my eye. She does not look Chinese, but has slim figure and a pretty face. She looks nervous and blur, which I like alot. After a few days, I decided to take the next step, that is to pay a non-returnable deposit of $2000 for one week dating with the gal. If finally success, I'll have to pay the remaining for the agent to prepare for the ROM, parent visit, VISA, and many others. Everything was ok, but the biggest headache was the communication. She doesn't understand Mandarin and English. And we had to reply on a electronic translator all the time, which is very time-consuming and rather frustrating. Anyway, I brought the cute gal out a few times (no hanky panky, just holding hands). And we finally agreed to marry each other. The agent boss brought her to the medical centre for a checkup to ensure her health is ok. To my surprise, after 4 days, the result showed that her has Hepatitis B which is contagious. Although I have developed some feelings for her, but it is not possible for us to be together because HBV can cause liver damage/cancer, and can pass on to babies. I heard she cried and has to be sent back to Vietnam.
The $2000 is non returnable, and the agent boss is still finding the right one for me. I met another 2 gals ,but their looks fail. Most of them are not nice looking, and cannot communicate by English/Mandarin. Before June, I will decide to pick the one out of the batches. The time will come soon, and I will need to adapt to marriage life. Bless me...
Originally posted by Summer hill:maybe the johore guy is well-educated?
there must be something that charm that the singapore lady.
Unlike TS, who hangs around forums complaining sg girls are materialistic instead of working hard trying to earn money.
less than 2k per month??? did TS fail his O-levels?
Malaysian guy ok ok only. He is consider high earner in johor but if his salary translate to SGD, maybe only SGD3.8k. Most malaysians are degree holder.
Originally posted by single_alone:
I think that is a good idea and I intent to do that in future too irregardless of how much I earn
Yes there are also many desperate msian women in their 30s. They want to be cougar. So they don't mind younger guys like you.
Originally posted by WayneKwek:I am going to be 37 years old this year. And for the past 17 years, I had only 3 short relationships that ended up with breakup. And many other smaller rejections from gals which hurts. I am not ugly at all and I work as an Engineer, just that I do not know how to sweet talk. 3 months ago, I decided to call up the Vietnamese Marriage agency and look for a quick marriage. For the first time, the boss brought 3 gals to my home for me to see and choose. All of them are between 18 to 20 years old. As my expectation on looks is still quite high, I rejected them. 2 months later, the boss called me again and say there is a new batch of gals. I was very unwilling at that time because the gals are so young! And it cost $7800, which I find it very expensive. but he says that there is a 21 year old and very pretty. So I agree to meet. He brought another 4 gals. The 21 one year old caught my eye. She does not look Chinese, but has slim figure and a pretty face. She looks nervous and blur, which I like alot. After a few days, I decided to take the next step, that is to pay a non-returnable deposit of $2000 for one week dating with the gal. If finally success, I'll have to pay the remaining for the agent to prepare for the ROM, parent visit, VISA, and many others. Everything was ok, but the biggest headache was the communication. She doesn't understand Mandarin and English. And we had to reply on a electronic translator all the time, which is very time-consuming and rather frustrating. Anyway, I brought the cute gal out a few times (no hanky panky, just holding hands). And we finally agreed to marry each other. The agent boss brought her to the medical centre for a checkup to ensure her health is ok. To my surprise, after 4 days, the result showed that her has Hepatitis B which is contagious. Although I have developed some feelings for her, but it is not possible for us to be together because HBV can cause liver damage/cancer, and can pass on to babies. I heard she cried and has to be sent back to Vietnam.
The $2000 is non returnable, and the agent boss is still finding the right one for me. I met another 2 gals ,but their looks fail. Most of them are not nice looking, and cannot communicate by English/Mandarin. Before June, I will decide to pick the one out of the batches. The time will come soon, and I will need to adapt to marriage life. Bless me...
Lucky the agent tested her for HBV. Smart thinking.
Wow, now I realise how the singaporean men really is struggling with marriage. hope all goes well..
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Lucky the agent tested her for HBV. Smart thinking.
Wow, now I realise how the singaporean men really is struggling with marriage. hope all goes well..
Don't just take my case and presume that all Singaporean guys are having trouble. I am a special individual with no skills in gal hunting. Thats why they (the gals) don't really see my good points. But I admit that I'm very shallow. I like slim and pleasant looking girl only. And those types that I fancy will never like a plain guy like myself, unless miracle happen. haha.
Originally posted by dechang:Someone like summer hill is going to be single forever.
She is the type of sluts that go work as prostitute also nobody wants her