I know many people will ask whats the point of getting married if there are no plans to have babies? Many say marriage is to start a new family.
But for me I believe marriage is not just about having kids. Why bother having one just to fill the emptiness and regret later? Having kids is a lifetime commitment. what if you cant afford to feed the kids or worse, you dont like kids?
Like me, my whole life I have never liked kids or babies. So I think its best I avoid having one then later become an irresponsible father. All I want is to be a good and caring husband to my wife.
Their cries and screaming are just too much for me. I dont wanna come home after a stressful day at work and hear all their crying that will only make me more stress.
Im still open to get married, but to find a girl who can share the same views as me is nearly impossible. First mutual agreement we must have is not to have kids.
I think these days a lot of girls do not want to hv kids too
if tats true, then at least one issue is settled.