can anyone help me?
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my mum disapprove of me having a stead but den i cant bring myself to break.. nv eva will i b able to lo.. but den now my results duno lyk wad hor.. i scared my mum will blame it on him den make us break.. how?? i rali v scared.. can anyone help me..
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follow ur heart, BGR could bring to much problem which they themselves could not think of. Like i say, one small steps u take will cause more things unexpected result unkown. Dropping of result is one of them, work hard and play hard. When it comes to stduy, try ur best, when it comes to BGR let go of ur studies and relax, cherish ur time together.Originally posted by *st3phanIe*:my mum disapprove of me having a stead but den i cant bring myself to break.. nv eva will i b able to lo.. but den now my results duno lyk wad hor.. i scared my mum will blame it on him den make us break.. how?? i rali v scared.. can anyone help me..
Do ur best in watever u do. -
For me, studies and relationships don't go hand in hand so I have to agree with your mum.
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den u shd concentrate on ur studies now..Originally posted by *st3phanIe*:my mum disapprove of me having a stead but den i cant bring myself to break.. nv eva will i b able to lo.. but den now my results duno lyk wad hor.. i scared my mum will blame it on him den make us break.. how?? i rali v scared.. can anyone help me..
n try not to think bout BGR now..
budden i guess it shd b ok to remain as frenz den wait until de right age/time den proceed onto de nex level lohx..
anywayz, still got like more than 10 yrs b4 u even think bout getting married.. so watz de use of starting so early.. when u look at it realistically, its quite impossible to b able to hold on to so many things at dis age and for de relationship to stay strong till de right age rite..
u may disagree wif me larhx, but diff pple tink diff.. so yah.. juz my opinion 
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but ditzy got gf leh...dun tell mi...oopsOriginally posted by ditzy:For me, studies and relationships don't go hand in hand so I have to agree with your mum.
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well... its true tt these two factors dun come hand in hand.. the most challenging part of a relationship is juggling it wif external affairs such as studies, parents etc.. personal feelings may oso affect the relationship such as jealousy.. but ultimately u'll realise tt the relationship still lies on your bare hands.. results are achieved only tru hardwork... even if u slog one whole nite before ur exams it wun guarentee good results.. long term consistent revision is the way.. believe it or not.. no pain, no gain.. try taking short breaks off ur relationship to concentrate on ur studies.. maybe jus 2 weeks before the exams.. do well, den continue to play hard.. ur parent is jus concerned bout ure future.. but she can only do tis much.. its up to u to realise how impt education is.. its for ur benefit.. jus my opinion =)
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If you cannot show that you can concentrate on studies and still maintain a r/s, it means that you have to give up the relationship yourself.Originally posted by *st3phanIe*:my mum disapprove of me having a stead but den i cant bring myself to break.. nv eva will i b able to lo.. but den now my results duno lyk wad hor.. i scared my mum will blame it on him den make us break.. how?? i rali v scared.. can anyone help me..
Your guy is not at fault, but he is a distraction and you neglected your studies. Then you have to forsake him because you're putting yourself in a bad situation.
If you want to maintain your relationship, you must learn to be able to study well and do that. It's not hard, but mentally stressful. At a tender age of yours, you'll likely end up to have be badly depressed.
However, my opinions and my advice is for you to hear only, not for you to follow.
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since ur result alredy so bad.. why not use poison vs poison??? i be ur lover lah.. then u got 1 1/2 bf.... may that will work.. and ur result will improve??
but... bf and studying are not related actually... it's about time management.. u dun have always have to go his house hanky panky right?? always stay back in sch to study lor... then result sure better one.. prove all the idiot out there whothinks bgr will affect result..wrong!!! -
yea.. it just depends on time management.. n a little discipline on both parties.. having BGR doesnt necessary equate bad grades.. i haf a fren.. he n his gf top his sec sch during the 'O' levels.. it just goes to show tt if ppl can do it.. y not u..?? u only get bad grades when u tink u're getting one.. meaning u haf no motivation to study.. y not change ur dates..i mean those weeks b4 exams.. into study dates? it works for me.. so shld be able to work for u too.. just put in some self-restraint can le..
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parent's tone: you should concentrate on your studies.... so young want pat tor for what? You result very good izzit, still want to spend time pat tor. Spend so much time on phone etc
my view: If you can prove to your parents that u can do well in studies yet having someone you love for company... go ahead... enjoy the feeling of being in love.... BUT if the r/s affects your studies... thus causing problems with your parents... then maybe you should think about what's better for you. -
are you spending too much time with your boyfriends or even friends?
have you been planning your time well between studies and leisure?
your mum is just concern about your studies. prove to her that you can be responsible enough to juggle your time properly. with proper time management, your studies can improve. -
yah i noe but den i realised it too late le.. my results duno lyk wad shit lidat den today got back report bk i dun dare go home le.. how??Originally posted by Hocklez:follow ur heart, BGR could bring to much problem which they themselves could not think of. Like i say, one small steps u take will cause more things unexpected result unkown. Dropping of result is one of them, work hard and play hard. When it comes to stduy, try ur best, when it comes to BGR let go of ur studies and relax, cherish ur time together. Do ur best in watever u do. -
but den lyk abit too involved le leh.. n i tink i loved him too much mayb.. tot of breakin b4 but den cant bring myself to reali..Originally posted by Joyce:den u shd concentrate on ur studies now..
n try not to think bout BGR now..
budden i guess it shd b ok to remain as frenz den wait until de right age/time den proceed onto de nex level lohx..
anywayz, still got like more than 10 yrs b4 u even think bout getting married.. so watz de use of starting so early.. when u look at it realistically, its quite impossible to b able to hold on to so many things at dis age and for de relationship to stay strong till de right age rite.. u may disagree wif me larhx, but diff pple tink diff.. so yah.. juz my opinion -
yea gd opinion.. i noe tt la.. but sumhow its too late le.. i noe its my fault tt i got diz kinda results.. i shuldnt neglect my studies.. even during exams i still everydae go out wif gerald.. i noe i wrong le but den its too late.. i duno howta manage tym de lo..Originally posted by HeAdLeSs:well... its true tt these two factors dun come hand in hand.. the most challenging part of a relationship is juggling it wif external affairs such as studies, parents etc.. personal feelings may oso affect the relationship such as jealousy.. but ultimately u'll realise tt the relationship still lies on your bare hands.. results are achieved only tru hardwork... even if u slog one whole nite before ur exams it wun guarentee good results.. long term consistent revision is the way.. believe it or not.. no pain, no gain.. try taking short breaks off ur relationship to concentrate on ur studies.. maybe jus 2 weeks before the exams.. do well, den continue to play hard.. ur parent is jus concerned bout ure future.. but she can only do tis much.. its up to u to realise how impt education is.. its for ur benefit.. jus my opinion =)
i noe she did it all for my own gd but den she is restrictin too much le lo.. den make me unhappy alot den i dun lyk to stay at home le lo.. haiz no matter wad i noe i m at fault le..
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dun like to go home?? come my house lor. haha joke joke lah.. what u can do now is......Originally posted by *st3phanIe*:yea gd opinion.. i noe tt la.. but sumhow its too late le.. i noe its my fault tt i got diz kinda results.. i shuldnt neglect my studies.. even during exams i still everydae go out wif gerald.. i noe i wrong le but den its too late.. i duno howta manage tym de lo..
i noe she did it all for my own gd but den she is restrictin too much le lo.. den make me unhappy alot den i dun lyk to stay at home le lo.. haiz no matter wad i noe i m at fault le..
can anyone tell me how i can get outta diz mess??
go home now, no point stay ouside it's not going to change anything... what is over is over.. go back home let ur mum scold or anthing .. then just look into her eyes and tell her serious that u know u are wrong already.. then promise to study hard... then go start studying everyday now..... and end of the yr ur result better then ur mum will not object u and him already lor... not point thinking about the past already..
start doing somethnig about ur future....