NS: "302"/ Gays/ Homosexuals/ Transgenders? Declare, How?

• Confused_boy

  31 Mar 10, 01:07

  hi. wat would u guys do if u all were to meet with such situation?

  You are a stay in personnel. of course, there are some other guys living together in same bunk. if one day one of ur bunkmate confess to u tat he's gay and he's very turned on when seeing other guys changing in bunk, walking around in boxer or underwear or when they walk out naked from bathroom after bathing.. he's having sexual fantasy of them and at times he feel like touching them when they are asleep...

  wat would u all do? he's not trying to be perverted but he cant control himself.. he confided in me bcos he's depressed and he trusts me as a friend and buddy and believe tat i will keep his secret.. i advised him to seek the help of MO but he's unwilling as he dun want others to know abt his problem and dun want this to be in his record.. wat should i do? Pretend tat i dunno? let him continue to ogle at the guys without them knowing? or at least let others know abt him so they will not accidentally do things to tempt my friend?

  haiz.. in a dilemma. rather that i dunno abt his sexual orientation..

• TTFU

  31 Mar 10, 01:12

  Damm..... Seriously ask him to stop. The best thing is go see your MO, but since your friend doesnt want, betraying him seems bad too. I guess you need to talk to him over this matter and find whats the best decision. Either control yourself.... or go seek help and go to.... lalala

• Forbiddensinner

  31 Mar 10, 06:38

  Originally posted by Confused_boy:

  hi. wat would u guys do if u all were to meet with such situation?

  You are a stay in personnel. of course, there are some other guys living together in same bunk. if one day one of ur bunkmate confess to u tat he's gay and he's very turned on when seeing other guys changing in bunk, walking around in boxer or underwear or when they walk out naked from bathroom after bathing.. he's having sexual fantasy of them and at times he feel like touching them when they are asleep...

  wat would u all do? he's not trying to be perverted but he cant control himself.. he confided in me bcos he's depressed and he trusts me as a friend and buddy and believe tat i will keep his secret.. i advised him to seek the help of MO but he's unwilling as he dun want others to know abt his problem and dun want this to be in his record.. wat should i do? Pretend tat i dunno? let him continue to ogle at the guys without them knowing? or at least let others know abt him so they will not accidentally do things to tempt my friend?

  haiz.. in a dilemma. rather that i dunno abt his sexual orientation..

  Just be a good friend and listen to his woes.

  If you tell the commanders or MO, you will get him into trouble. And I highly doubt he will go to the MO himself, since it could get him in trouble. 

  However, if he tries to molest the other guys or sexually assault them, you will have no choice but to tell the truth to your commanders. 

• Lokey

  3 Apr 10, 14:45

  Originally posted by Confused_boy:

  hi. wat would u guys do if u all were to meet with such situation?

  You are a stay in personnel. of course, there are some other guys living together in same bunk. if one day one of ur bunkmate confess to u tat he's gay and he's very turned on when seeing other guys changing in bunk, walking around in boxer or underwear or when they walk out naked from bathroom after bathing.. he's having sexual fantasy of them and at times he feel like touching them when they are asleep...

  wat would u all do? he's not trying to be perverted but he cant control himself.. he confided in me bcos he's depressed and he trusts me as a friend and buddy and believe tat i will keep his secret.. i advised him to seek the help of MO but he's unwilling as he dun want others to know abt his problem and dun want this to be in his record.. wat should i do? Pretend tat i dunno? let him continue to ogle at the guys without them knowing? or at least let others know abt him so they will not accidentally do things to tempt my friend?

  haiz.. in a dilemma. rather that i dunno abt his sexual orientation..

  If you see pretty girls on the streets, even wearing low cut and sexy bikini, you feel excited but do you go to rape them? Ask him to exercise self control. 

  If he is siao, ask him to see doctor.  

• I-like-flings(m)

  3 Apr 10, 15:06

  i have seen my men sleeping together on the same bed alot of time b4.... and yes they are gays....dunno what they do at nite....

• Fatum

  3 Apr 10, 15:07

  Originally posted by Confused_boy:

  hi. wat would u guys do if u all were to meet with such situation?

  You are a stay in personnel. of course, there are some other guys living together in same bunk. if one day one of ur bunkmate confess to u tat he's gay and he's very turned on when seeing other guys changing in bunk, walking around in boxer or underwear or when they walk out naked from bathroom after bathing.. he's having sexual fantasy of them and at times he feel like touching them when they are asleep...

  wat would u all do? he's not trying to be perverted but he cant control himself.. he confided in me bcos he's depressed and he trusts me as a friend and buddy and believe tat i will keep his secret.. i advised him to seek the help of MO but he's unwilling as he dun want others to know abt his problem and dun want this to be in his record.. wat should i do? Pretend tat i dunno? let him continue to ogle at the guys without them knowing? or at least let others know abt him so they will not accidentally do things to tempt my friend?

  haiz.. in a dilemma. rather that i dunno abt his sexual orientation..

  you should start wearing two pairs of underwear at night ..... just in case ...

• BanguIzai

  3 Apr 10, 15:20

  Originally posted by Lokey:

  If you see pretty girls on the streets, even wearing low cut and sexy bikini, you feel excited but do you go to rape them? Ask him to exercise self control. 

  If he is siao, ask him to see doctor.  

  agree

• Rooney9

  3 Apr 10, 15:22

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  you should start wearing two pairs of underwear at night ..... just in case ...

  

• hisoka

  3 Apr 10, 15:47

  He knows what he is doing is wrong and so far all indications is that he is not going to touch the rest. Just let it lie.

  The other guys are not going to lose anything, esp if they don't know. But do tell your friend to avoid temptations.

  BTW if he is telling you, chances are he wants to get into your pants. do wear protection

• shade343

  4 Apr 10, 13:48

  My PC is gay. I always look forward to every session of PC Interview. =D

• laurence82

  4 Apr 10, 14:04

  Originally posted by shade343:

  My PC is gay. I always look forward to every session of PC Interview. =D

  omg, shady....