Originally posted by s0nic:
yah i didnt expect that at all. it was just happening so fast.
he's lucky to have such an understanding gf.
U aren't the only 1 who get depression in NS. I guess a number of people do since its rather stressful to be thrown into such an environment, away from friends and family doing something that i would say most guys dread.
Good luck in finding another gf if you haven't found 1 yet :)
Originally posted by linwei20:wow! is it? That's good! You and your wife relationship is strong! Congrats!:)
Forget to explain to you the woes of marrying too young she was my first wife and the only Singaporean
Originally posted by linwei20:but what if the problem lies on me? Think alot in the camp and got depression like 'sonic'(touch wood!), then will it be my fault and she will think i'm not worth for her?
If you have problems, feel free to pm to talk or post on forums etc and most ppl will try to help and advice.
You still have a long way more to go so don't worry about such things at the moment. Focus on your studies and wait till you are closer to enlistment before you start worrying about such stuff. Don't let the future affect the present.
Now just focus on your studies, do well for your own future.
Originally posted by Short Ninja:
Forget to explain to you the woes of marrying too young she was my first wife and the only Singaporean
What do u mean by only singaporean? U expect alot of wifes and have them from all over the world?
Marrying young has its advantages i would say, have kids early and you have people to support you earlier :p I got boys who already have children when they are only 16-17 now...
Originally posted by Short Ninja:
Forget to explain to you the woes of marrying too young she was my first wife and the only Singaporean
how old did you married? you mention first wife, don't tell me you want second wife? Singaporean cannot?
Originally posted by dkcx:U aren't the only 1 who get depression in NS. I guess a number of people do since its rather stressful to be thrown into such an environment, away from friends and family doing something that i would say most guys dread.
Good luck in finding another gf if you haven't found 1 yet :)
yea, but then because it's a totally new environment then, it did take me quite a while to really get over it.
Anyway thanks for your well-wishes. Hopefully i will get one gf in the near future to settle down.
linwei, it would be better if u could talk to your gf. explain to her what she will expect when u enlist, and what u will expect from her.
Originally posted by s0nic:
yea, but then because it's a totally new environment then, it did take me quite a while to really get over it.
Anyway thanks for your well-wishes. Hopefully i will get one gf in the near future to settle down.
linwei, it would be better if u could talk to your gf. explain to her what she will expect when u enlist, and what u will expect from her.
Important is the present and as long as you have gotten over the past, you can work for the future.
Just don't let yourself get into depression again since its not exactly a problem thats easily solve especially if you get to the more severe stage like the previous guy. Talking to him was a torture...
Originally posted by linwei20:how old did you married? you mention first wife, don't tell me you want second wife? Singaporean cannot?
First marriage was at 19.Finally, got happily married to number 4 a couple of years ago and I often play the Barry White song 'Youre'the first You're my last my everything ' to her just to score some extra points at night.
Originally posted by s0nic:
yea, but then because it's a totally new environment then, it did take me quite a while to really get over it.
Anyway thanks for your well-wishes. Hopefully i will get one gf in the near future to settle down.
linwei, it would be better if u could talk to your gf. explain to her what she will expect when u enlist, and what u will expect from her.
okay thanks for the advised! I'll keep you guys update if i got Enlist and hopefully my gf and i will still carry on!
Originally posted by Short Ninja:First marriage was at 19.Finally, got happily married to number 4 a couple of years ago and I often play the Barry White song 'Youre'the first You're my last my everything ' to her just to score some extra points at night.
wah u go ROM so many times ah...
Originally posted by Short Ninja:First marriage was at 19.Finally, got happily married to number 4 a couple of years ago and I often play the Barry White song 'Youre'the first You're my last my everything ' to her just to score some extra points at night.
lol i got no comments for you already:) good luck and don't change your wife anymore, my advise to you! Is bad..
dkcx, do you think after i completed my NS next time, with my NITEC Cert (i know is quite low qulification), can i go apply for SMRT TO job?
Originally posted by linwei20:dkcx, do you think after i completed my NS next time, with my NITEC Cert (i know is quite low qulification), can i go apply for SMRT TO job?
Haha thats seriously OT my boy.
I am not mr know all. I do know u wan TO job since u see ur posts in trains forum as well as asking for that bus game etc but u noticed i don't post there much. I can help u with your NS related problems of talk to u if u have personal problems but not answer this question about SMRT when i know nothing about it. Sorry
Originally posted by linwei20:lol i got no comments for you already:) good luck and don't change your wife anymore, my advise to you! Is bad..
No I am not into wife swapping (Change wife).I am just an ordinary guy hoping to get real love and in return be a good husband.
Originally posted by dkcx:Haha thats seriously OT my boy.
I am not mr know all. I do know u wan TO job since u see ur posts in trains forum as well as asking for that bus game etc but u noticed i don't post there much. I can help u with your NS related problems of talk to u if u have personal problems but not answer this question about SMRT when i know nothing about it. Sorry
Haha LOL! How you know i post alot of question on Singapore Train? Haha.. Anyway is okay, i won't blame you.. i will still keep on asking other people:p haha
Originally posted by linwei20:Haha LOL! How you know i post alot of question on Singapore Train? Haha.. Anyway is okay, i won't blame you.. i will still keep on asking other people:p haha
Since its the uni holidays, i am on forums quite often and from the latest posts i can see where u been posting since u have posted in SAF forums before.
Furthermore, its easy to just look at your monitored posts to know your interest :)
Just go email SMRT and ask them what is the qualifications for being a TO. Noone can answer that question better than them since they are the 1s hiring.
Originally posted by dkcx:Since its the uni holidays, i am on forums quite often and from the latest posts i can see where u been posting since u have posted in SAF forums before.
Furthermore, its easy to just look at your monitored posts to know your interest :)
Just go email SMRT and ask them what is the qualifications for being a TO. Noone can answer that question better than them since they are the 1s hiring.
haha okay i see.. anyway how do you monitored my post? how you do that?
Originally posted by linwei20:haha okay i see.. anyway how do you monitored my post? how you do that?
Click on anyone's username and you can see where they have posted.
Originally posted by dkcx:Click on anyone's username and you can see where they have posted.
okay i see:) that's cool!
how come my topic name have been changed? I thought i wrote, " what is the minimum age to Enlist?" Who edited? Always i post forums here, my topic name haven been amened before.. hmmm something wrong?
more organised this way what... the naming... feels better...
Originally posted by Rednano:more organised this way what... the naming... feels better...
U not mod can change topic names?
no lah... cannot... i just felt its better anyway...
Originally posted by Rednano:no lah... cannot... i just felt its better anyway...
oh, thought u were the 1 that changed the topic