Originally posted by Call4ljw:See outside doctor then do what??
Actually i got also the same problem as him, and i want to know what i can do.
But what i want is just to continue stay-out, but i need stay-in soon TT.
check my other posts(also in this forum) and you will know le.
Coz one of my plan is, if can stay-out can mc 4/5 every wk until my unit CAC is up.
There is such thing as restriction of reporting sick privileges which can be imposed onto a servicemen and that basically means that he is only allowed to report sick in camp.....break it and he might find himself getting into trouble.
Not to imply anything but more as a cautionary warning to those who are thinking of jumping onto the same bandwagon as the poor souls at the SAF Ward.
Originally posted by desperatelyextreme:i am feeling low, and depressed. my unit sucks, and my platoon mates are making it worse for me. i need to seek help, i know that, but when i called saf hotline, the counseller could not be bothered to talk to me. his first line was, "make this fast, what is wrong". i need a listening ear. and i am very desperate. i donno what i want and i feel suicidal. feeling suicidal is normal as i think everyone is depressed at 1 point of time in life. there are certain stuff that i am thinking of and i know it is wrong. and i cant type it out or else if i get traced, even if nothing happens my future will be ruined...i need annomyous help. ... help me pls.
Is this really called depression?
coz i know depression can excuse stay-in.
All pls help! I really NEED help!
Originally posted by Call4ljw:Is this really called depression?
coz i know depression can excuse stay-in.
All pls help! I really NEED help!
First is asthma,now is depression?
FFS,just say that you are desperate to stay out and will try any means to do it lah...don't insult us by saying you need help.
You think depression all confirm stay out?Ya,you might not need to stay in the camp but on a case by case basis,some even need to "stay-in" in the SAF Ward at AH.You want that too?
Take a trip down to the SAF Ward at AH,see what kind of life the NSF patients there are living and then come back to tell us if you still think you are suffering from depression.
To desperatelyextreme: That's the way mah! must relax, don't take NS too seriously.
just do what you're told, and don't be too garang or too slack.
be a "good" soldier, not thinking soldier.
although chief of army says he wants thinking soldiers, if you try this, you'll get back-stab by superiors who think you're trying to be smart alec.
try to keep low profile also.
whenever you're very depressed, just read the following paragraph below or have it tattooed onto your chest:
All Singaporean males have to serve NS, so be it. It's only 2 farking years, we just farking serve and return to the government, and we serve and fark off. You're not the first victim of NS, and you won't be the last. Your father, my father, me myself etc.....we're do NS not because we love SG or love the gahmen......it's because we have no other choice.
This is in return for being born in Singapore, a country with no natural disasters or war. Or would you prefer to be born in a country with no NS but has tons of war, conflicts and earthquakes etc.?
How many people like to serve NS? last time in my camp of 70 people excluding regulars, no NSF wanna serve one more day of NS.
if you're depressed and you want to kill yourself, then YOU LOSE, your family lose and the SG gahmen WINS. You want that to happen?
show them how farking brave you are by not dying and living through these 2 years (minus weekends, minus holidays, minus off-in-lieu, minus leave and entitlement, its not even 1.6 months of NS!!!!)
After NS, you can return to civilian life and enjoy liao. Civilian life got fun, got girls, got
sex, got laughter, got joy.......that should be your main motivation for passing NS.
now, just live day by day and don't count. Before you know it........ORD LOH!!!!!! FFI clearance! collect pink IC!!!!!! i can still remember that i felt like a god on my ORD day. :D
and don't try to keng........because superiors and mates can spot it easily and give you hell.
try to be involved in NS, try to have a positive vibe, try to be helpful and others will be kind towards you in return, no kidding.
and some time from today, things will get way better when you become lao-jiao and see new NSFs being posted into your camp.
on a side note, i agree with what Angmokio says:
NS for Singaporean males, Jobs for foreign talents (meaning, rich fat big white expats).
however, i would like to edit his sentence with:
NS for Singaporean males, Jobs and SG girls for foreign talents
Originally posted by Call4ljw:Is this really called depression?
coz i know depression can excuse stay-in.
All pls help! I really NEED help!
declare 302 to MO and chief clerk, guarantee + chop stamp confirmed stay out!
Originally posted by baikachuchu:
First is asthma,now is depression?
FFS,just say that you are desperate to stay out and will try any means to do it lah...don't insult us by saying you need help.
You think depression all confirm stay out?Ya,you might not need to stay in the camp but on a case by case basis,some even need to "stay-in" in the SAF Ward at AH.You want that too?
Take a trip down to the SAF Ward at AH,see what kind of life the NSF patients there are living and then come back to tell us if you still think you are suffering from depression.
i must say this again....
he is just one gu niang.... 姑娘 姑娘 姑娘
Originally posted by baikachuchu:There is such thing as restriction of reporting sick privileges which can be imposed onto a servicemen and that basically means that he is only allowed to report sick in camp.....break it and he might find himself getting into trouble.
Not to imply anything but more as a cautionary warning to those who are thinking of jumping onto the same bandwagon as the poor souls at the SAF Ward.
yup, there is one such directive.
PC, OC, CO, CSM, RSM all also have the authority to make u come back to camp to endorse MC even if its for MC 1 day. for kuai lan ones, make u att C in bunk then u noe... y? since at home outside everytime sick, come stay in bunk, less people, less contact, less sick, then got cookhouse cook for u, breakfast, lunch, dinner, even supper for nightsnacks. hungry still got canteen.
trade 2 years for the rest of your life? Not worth it
no one said going through NS was easy, but that fact of the matter is that hundreds of thousands have gone through it in 1 piece, and ure no exception, look at that positively