Some Advice Please.. Im Very Depressed..
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Live one day at a time and know that this will pass....Originally posted by Niptuckx:I have been enlisted to SCDF .. it's been 4 days.. im very stressed... the population there is like 90% malay.. im a chinese.. and i can't speak really well english. so there will always be alot of misunderstanding between towards my action. im in a confusion.. everyone there commnucates in malay language.
And in every meal we have to que up for food many of them cut ques.. and we have to que to wash the tray with hands.. no soap.. i feel so uncomftable..
i feel so depressed.. i can't take it anymore.. what can i do? i dare not to apporach any of my instrutor.. i don't no why.. im just scared...
can i request to transfer to army? im so miserable in there but i dare not to question any stuff.. i feel i become a changed person... i feel i was so unfairly treated.. i feel miserable.. -
Accept your fate & move on, Niptuckx. Like fudgester said, you may not adjust well to the Hokkien peng on the army side either.
I do not know how the SCDF system works but if it's similar to the SAF one, mono-intakers enlist together with the idea of staying together throughout NS & reservist. In other words, some 22 years (until you turn 40). The only chance to formally "detour" out is after BMT, when the unit declines to retain you for whatever reason. Thereafter, the possibilities are all but fleeting: get downgraded, sign on with another military arm, work overseas after NS, posted to holding list for reservist, etc. -
LOL. Come on la.. what you expect?Originally posted by Niptuckx:hey can i transfer to army? im like a moron there do not know what to do.. im so moody.. im living in fear... need to look at their face to live in there.. im going crazy........
i was being treated like dog.. need to train everyday.. and need to place all tray water bottles in order.. im mixing my tray and waterbottle with them.. and need to smell their sweats.. need to listen to their language everyday..
have to listen to their laugh.. have to accept when they tried to disturb me..
im almost like a retarted in there.. and i have to wash this and that.. dunno if they will find me lazy when i take a min rest.. when they chit chat going to other bunk fooling around..
always order the PR to do this and that..... why i have to take all this humiliation.. my brain was freezed.. it hurts so much.
Don't be too upset or angry if they disturb you.. they will take it as you as "putting on airs". Anyway you still in BRTC right? If you get into ERS or MOC things will be better.. more chinese there... Malays also more educated... -
cb.. thoese malays fking smoke in bunk.. on music and tok c0ck untill midnight.. this is getting insane.. i can't sleep for the whole night and still got training everyday.. i dunno if i should complaint to my instructor... if i did they will know im the one who did it.. beacuse im the only one having arguements with them everytime... then my life will be pretty hard facing them everyday.... everyone got affected just kept quiet.. this is disgusting... i hope they will all be sent to DB.
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Originally posted by Niptuckx:cb.. thoese malays fking smoke in bunk.. on music and tok c0ck untill midnight.. this is getting insane.. i can't sleep for the whole night and still got training everyday.. i dunno if i should complaint to my instructor... if i did they will know im the one who did it.. beacuse im the only one having arguements with them everytime... then my life will be pretty hard facing them everyday.... everyone got affected just kept quiet.. this is disgusting... i hope they will all be sent to DB.
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funny arh? it sounds funny... but you know how depressing it is.. to smell them smoking and tok so loud.. laughing like they are in chalet.. and on their music so loud.... all cannot sleep.. but none voiced out... CB.. the training there so tough somemore.. we might faint without having enuff slp...
i think i should save the instrutor number... and sms him when they smoke in bunk.. then all sent to db.. wipe out all of them -
Wow, and you think army training is like chalet?Originally posted by Niptuckx:funny arh? it sounds funny... but you know how depressing it is.. to smell them smoking and tok so loud.. laughing like they are in chalet.. and on their music so loud.... all cannot sleep.. but none voiced out... CB.. the training there so tough somemore.. we might faint without having enuff slp...
i think i should save the instrutor number... and sms him when they smoke in bunk.. then all sent to db.. wipe out all of them
If you in SCDF kena bullied, most likely, in army also you will be bullied.
No such thing I go army people love me, go police people hate me, go sdf people bully me etc etc...
If you are the typed to be bullied, then too bad. Only you got yourself to blame. -
.. then all sent to db.. wipe out all of them
I sense unpleasant undertones, & things are heading nowhere either.
Time to close the thread, ref? -
sorry.. for being so navie.. just need some listeners..... i will not be posting anymore.. i will just endure... thanks for all the advice..