Final advices for me
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first interview is compulsory.. but if he doesn't have time to fully talk to you, then arrange for another one.Originally posted by AhJun:huh u mean the first mass interview no use? but i still can sound out first right then see what opinion he gif?
tt time i go see specialist i alrdy requested for letter liao. but my specialist say either i go back to cmpb wif appointment card and show them then ask them to get the letter from my specialist OR i enlist first then see how since there r psychologists and counsellors in saf too. so i thought even if i go back to cmpb again they probably wun entertain me as i juz haf an appointment card. -
what you have just typed out in one huge mother of a chunk of gibberish is what you are.. pointless, useless, incomprehensible
fricken everything also scared..
what you need, frankly, is not a diagnosis, medication, counselling or anything...
what you need is someone to beat the hell out of you or give you a couple of hard slaps...
get a grip.. stop being such an asswipe.. go do your stuff..
btw.. you're one of those ballsless, useless scholars right? -
he not scholar lah. scholar different kuan oneOriginally posted by the Bear:what you have just typed out in one huge mother of a chunk of gibberish is what you are.. pointless, useless, incomprehensible
fricken everything also scared..
what you need, frankly, is not a diagnosis, medication, counselling or anything...
what you need is someone to beat the hell out of you or give you a couple of hard slaps...
get a grip.. stop being such an asswipe.. go do your stuff..
btw.. you're one of those ballsless, useless scholars right?
you talk very shiok hor..got manage ppl in army before or not? -
Stop being mean... but what you said are quite true. from all your post, I can see that your actually condition is not as serious as wad u may sound to be. These are all the physcology issues most people who are soldier to be facing. I am no exception. well, my case is more serous than you , u could dig the thread out to read if u dun beleive me.Originally posted by the Bear:what you have just typed out in one huge mother of a chunk of gibberish is what you are.. pointless, useless, incomprehensible
fricken everything also scared..
what you need, frankly, is not a diagnosis, medication, counselling or anything...
what you need is someone to beat the hell out of you or give you a couple of hard slaps...
get a grip.. stop being such an asswipe.. go do your stuff..
btw.. you're one of those ballsless, useless scholars right?
So what you really need is motivation. The courage to face what u will be going thru. Do not keep thinking of downgrading yourself. What the Medical Officer define u is in otherword 100% gareentee your PES status. Unless u tend to injure yourself during the training. These PES grading for your does not come out just a 'snap'. it takes time, analysising, and lots of other factors to determine your PES. It takes more den 1 person to view and determine your PES. so if u are declare PES 'A'. It means u are fully functionable to be a soldier.
Get over it. I am like you. But I get over it. -
i manage lots of people from all walks of life...
a few keng until si suah type, a few chiong until si suah type..
but almost all will try their best to do what is necessary..
this guy has not even tried..Originally posted by CSM:he not scholar lah. scholar different kuan one
you talk very shiok hor..got manage ppl in army before or not? -
yeah lah he never tryOriginally posted by the Bear:i manage lots of people from all walks of life...
a few keng until si suah type, a few chiong until si suah type..
but almost all will try their best to do what is necessary..
this guy has not even tried..
but if he cannot, I rather he not be in the platoon and be a liability.
let him downgrade and serve his best ability elsewhere .
army is not a playground.. if you can, can, if you cannot or don't know, better say cannot. other people's safety n your unit effectiveness is compromised. -
AhJun, it seems like you would have seen the whole range of advice here.
Hopefully, you'll do okay inside. Everything is progressive, and always remember to keep your eyes open. -
just c how he post his thoughts after his 1st book out when he enlist somewhere this friday to 1sir.....
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maybe he'll turned out to be like Infantry / aka Freedomfighter / aka chuckie Boy
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i know i haven even try. but the thing is tt i am alrdy having massive worries way b4 i enlist. nidless to say those worries will of cos buildup as stress and pressure starts to develop..Originally posted by the Bear:i manage lots of people from all walks of life...
a few keng until si suah type, a few chiong until si suah type..
but almost all will try their best to do what is necessary..
this guy has not even tried.. -
There is NOTHING to be worried abt NS. If your are PHYSICALLY FIT. You will pull through eventually. There are thousands of boys going thru this and well they pull thru it. If they can, why cant you? If I CAN, WHY CANT U?Originally posted by AhJun:i know i haven even try. but the thing is tt i am alrdy having massive worries way b4 i enlist. nidless to say those worries will of cos buildup as stress and pressure starts to develop.. -
physically fit but mentally unfit? u shld know tt having a constantly worried mind affects performance and shld be taken note of since there r impt lessons tt require full attention like range, grenade throwOriginally posted by DarkMatter:There is NOTHING to be worried abt NS. If your are PHYSICALLY FIT. You will pull through eventually. There are thousands of boys going thru this and well they pull thru it. If they can, why cant you? If I CAN, WHY CANT U? -
OKay. First, when is your enlistment date. Where are you enlisting. you can highlight to your sergent first and try to refrain to highlight him too early as he may dismiss it due to the pack schdule for the first day recruits. If you feel uncomfortable, u can chat around with your section mates first. I'm sure they will too, have some problems and u all could discuss abt it before bringing it up to the superiors. during the first week, we will conduct a questionaire, asking what problems do our recruits have, problem such as family, medical, social, problems etc. so you will take this chance to voice out. And RMB TO VOICE OUT. Dun hasitate. The MO will not Kick u out of the room. For showing your pass records, he'll definitely give u advice on how to cope wif your problems. But do not report sick too often as this may affect your BMt grading and your superiors do not encourage or like that. there will be an interview booklet for every recruits, they will note it down on your booklet with all your problems for future ref, so they wont forget u.
Last but not least, IF , i mean IF u feel that the MO, PC, is not helping you at all, U can consult your OO (Orientation Officer) he takes care of your well fare. He will be most gladly to help u cope with all the different problems. If there is anything else u need, there is also SAF hotline.
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some pple here sae mono intake got no OO..is it true? hope the questionaire helps though..Originally posted by DarkMatter:OKay. First, when is your enlistment date. Where are you enlisting. you can highlight to your sergent first and try to refrain to highlight him too early as he may dismiss it due to the pack schdule for the first day recruits. If you feel uncomfortable, u can chat around with your section mates first. I'm sure they will too, have some problems and u all could discuss abt it before bringing it up to the superiors. during the first week, we will conduct a questionaire, asking what problems do our recruits have, problem such as family, medical, social, problems etc. so you will take this chance to voice out. And RMB TO VOICE OUT. Dun hasitate. The MO will not Kick u out of the room. For showing your pass records, he'll definitely give u advice on how to cope wif your problems. But do not report sick too often as this may affect your BMt grading and your superiors do not encourage or like that. there will be an interview booklet for every recruits, they will note it down on your booklet with all your problems for future ref, so they wont forget u.
Last but not least, IF , i mean IF u feel that the MO, PC, is not helping you at all, U can consult your OO (Orientation Officer) he takes care of your well fare. He will be most gladly to help u cope with all the different problems. If there is anything else u need, there is also SAF hotline.
hope it helps. -
40 sar this friday wa si bei kan chong man!!
i si bei quiet 1 hope go in people dun bully me
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i gurss u juz nid to open up though. my case diff frm uOriginally posted by iluvmilky:40 sar this friday wa si bei kan chong man!!
i si bei quiet 1 hope go in people dun bully me -
so when u enlisting? gud luck to u
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same as u..but to 1sir. although i pesA, i haf some personal problems though wif is giving me headacheOriginally posted by iluvmilky:so when u enlisting? gud luck to u -
I'm not too sure whether my advice is correct but coming from a medic's pov, yes you have the 48 hours to talk to your PC to sound out anything...
you have your receipts from IMH. check.
you have seen the specialists there. check.
there should be a case file of you lying in the dockets room of IMH.
Like what has been said before in this thread, I assure you that you will confirm have a first interview with your PC to sound out whatever fears you have, what medical conditions that you have (even your receipts are supporting documents!) etc. If you feel that you like to talk more to your PC/OC/OO, request for a special interview. You have to take the initiative to request. -
because i personally have a tatoo on my back and my leg scared the pai kia misunderstand
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err y dun u remove ur tattoo? i am sure tt there r pple will also misunderstand u as ahbeng and scared to talk to u liao. like tt u want to talk to pple also hardOriginally posted by iluvmilky:because i personally have a tatoo on my back and my leg scared the pai kia misunderstand -
tattoo can removed de meh
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can y not? i see b4. they use laser 1. but its going to be a long process and much more pain. i think u remove better if not u want to talk to pple pple also scared to talk to u cos u anggong kia pple thot u ahbengOriginally posted by iluvmilky:tattoo can removed de meh -
juz hope tt i dun get tongue tied during the interview.
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Honestly, there's some good advice provided in this thread, so don't challenge them as yet (whether to boost your self-esteem or whatever). As stated, you'll definitely have two outlets early in BMT to highlight your predicament to (the PC interview; the MO when you report sick).
Just don't expect quick resolutions. Your PC may have a quiet word with your DIs but training will otherwise carry on as usual, & peer pressure can be tough if you whine to much or don't carry your weight. You may not necessarily get to OOC before BMT finishes either, even if the MO sends your docket up the COC for further review/boarding. In other words, DON'T rely on your condition as a security blanket. This is a new stage of your life, & it's time to grow up accordingly.
If the unit doesn't have an OO, there's always the SAF Counselling Hotline. Just keep in mind that neither source has any real executive powers; they can only provide a listening ear.