helping a friend
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one cent not one centsOriginally posted by MoonIce:if averse to psychologist can seek counselling first at a nearby Welfare services or Family Services centre.
just my 1 cents worths
got it ...
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me lohOriginally posted by KFDugong:and i d like to add my 1 cent too... talk to your friends... and friends, please try to listen... not hear... listen
i very good listener as far as i know among my frenz
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oh no drats it...Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:one cent not one cents
got it ... 
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is a joking dear ...Originally posted by MoonIce:oh no drats it... -
well then ur frens are blessed!Originally posted by MoonIce:me loh
i very good listener as far as i know among my frenz -
yeah they very blessedOriginally posted by KFDugong:well then ur frens are blessed!
but who so blessed to listen to mine wor
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come ... I want your helping hand, join me for the flag day on 1/4/2006 please...Originally posted by MoonIce:yeah they very blessed
but who so blessed to listen to mine wor -
ne u still haven go koonz arhOriginally posted by MeOwSuSan:come ... I want your helping hand, join me for the flag day on 1/4/2006 please...
see arh if i well or not 1st arh -
you sick ???Originally posted by MoonIce:ne u still haven go koonz arh
see arh if i well or not 1st arh
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hahaha i haf since learnt its good enough if u listen to urself.. especially since u noe u r a good listenerOriginally posted by MoonIce:yeah they very blessed
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not sick just tiredOriginally posted by MeOwSuSan:you sick ???
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YeahOriginally posted by KFDugong:hahaha i haf since learnt its good enough if u listen to urself.. especially since u noe u r a good listener
mostly i kept to myself anyway no need for practices 
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I wonder how is coffee&tea's friend now.
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thank you for your concern, she's pretty much still in the process of healing and stuff.. the situation is still rather stale, but i am doing my best to support her in any way possible. thanks for asking =)Originally posted by fornight:I wonder how is coffee&tea's friend now. -
these things do not always change in the blink of an eye.. takes time.. but when recovery happens...can be quite magicalOriginally posted by coffeeortea:thank you for your concern, she's pretty much still in the process of healing and stuff.. the situation is still rather stale, but i am doing my best to support her in any way possible. thanks for asking =) -
anyway u always have us here at the forum... even if its mostly words and emoticons.. sure u can see beyond and feel the feelingOriginally posted by MoonIce:Yeah
mostly i kept to myself anyway no need for practices -
yeah...Originally posted by KFDugong:anyway u always have us here at the forum... even if its mostly words and emoticons.. sure u can see beyond and feel the feeling
ahem... i where can see beyond de -
sure u can!Originally posted by MoonIce:yeah...
ahem... i where can see beyond de
read between the lines and the words... and u see feeelllliiinnnggg -
\Originally posted by KFDugong:sure u can!
read between the lines and the words... and u see feeelllliiinnnggg
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yeah it certainly does, which would u consider worse? recovering from illegal drugs? or this?Originally posted by KFDugong:these things do not always change in the blink of an eye.. takes time.. but when recovery happens...can be quite magical -
ok thats a tough question... i will say this... because drugs right... theres a physical aspect to it... so u can be confident there is always a medicine,, go hospital or rehab can liaoOriginally posted by coffeeortea:yeah it certainly does, which would u consider worse? recovering from illegal drugs? or this?
but a broken spirit? not so easy to heal.... -
must be confident lor... dun u trust us??Originally posted by MoonIce:\
really arh 
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one more tip i want to add... sometimes right... these problems come about cos ur mind is very clouded... u find like everything u want and wish for does not happen...
only the opposite that happens instead....u need to realise most of these things are in ur mind,.... granted things happen as they are meant to... u need to decide how u wanna feel about it.... believe u are able to overcome anything.
ur frens must also be ready to see the nonsenseness of it all... and accept it as something u have to help with. -
yeah, i've been doing alot of thinking and talking to her about how i think she should help herself to recover, and that i will be there for her.Originally posted by KFDugong:one more tip i want to add... sometimes right... these problems come about cos ur mind is very clouded... u find like everything u want and wish for does not happen...
only the opposite that happens instead....u need to realise most of these things are in ur mind,.... granted things happen as they are meant to... u need to decide how u wanna feel about it.... believe u are able to overcome anything.
ur frens must also be ready to see the nonsenseness of it all... and accept it as something u have to help with. -
thats good.... if she refuse to try recovering... it will be very hard.... maybe you have to nudge her in the right direction a little bit.... show her life worth living... but be very careful... she might get the wrong idea everyone has a nice life except her....Originally posted by coffeeortea:yeah, i've been doing alot of thinking and talking to her about how i think she should help herself to recover, and that i will be there for her.
and pls dun sacrifice urself too much either... its also easy to get dragged down by someone else's depression