been ages since i last post.
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forumites, nid ur opinion.
had an arguement with gf.
sentosa outing was postpone yet again frm ytd to today and postpone from today to tmr. was suggesting other places to relax as time was late at ard 2+ pm today. gonna make it back home for dad bday dinner at ard 8+. i decided nt to go sentosa due to time constraints. gf was throwing tantrum at my hse after i decided nt to go sentosa. showing mi a face, and i ask her to go other place instead but kip giving mi a "face". i suggested some 3,4 other places which is near to my hse but a hell "no".. kip arguing dat 3+ can rch sentosa and will be back my 7+. i said if i wanna go sure i wanna enjoy and not with time constraints. after dis,didnt even tok to mi at my hse, after dat bring her bag out and left the hse. being a bf, i gif chase. and arguments start to throw.
she said i was on long wkends coz of vesak and simply wasted today and she wanna spend quality time with mi. ytd she was bz with smthing on and therefore a day was gone. and today was the onli day dat she can enjoy being with mi. but is cancelling sentosa outing called nt spending quality time? makes mi wonder. its been happening 2,3 times alreadi.
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thank you for posting here.
I not good with advise, so I have to said may be you should try to told to her, second thing, base on what I went throught you should try to spend time with her but I hope is willingly....
it must be from your heart ...
is not of pleasing her, to her you already part of her. she do not want to loss you and feeling. She is not selfish "she love you alot that why"
cool down and listen to want she want to said, relationship should be supporting not go again each other.
is just my point. it may not help sorry.
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im alwiz spending time with her.. and i enjoy spending time with her. its happening for the 2nd time i can say.
im juz lost at wad to do. she initiate a brokeup for the 2nd time. -
Welcome back
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A glorious and meaningful nite to Brother Zacken,Originally posted by zacken99:
Glad to see you in the Enchanted Realms of The Light of Atlantis.So how have you been?Do post in LOA more often,maybe you will find answers to the problems you have been racking your brains over in our forums.
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I know how you feel.Originally posted by WrX_STi:im alwiz spending time with her.. and i enjoy spending time with her. its happening for the 2nd time i can say.
im juz lost at wad to do. she initiate a brokeup for the 2nd time.
may be try to talk to here it help. put yourself in her shoe may be it help. -
He post abit than MIA liao
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It's definately not your fault...Originally posted by WrX_STi:forumites, nid ur opinion.
had an arguement with gf.
sentosa outing was postpone yet again frm ytd to today and postpone from today to tmr. was suggesting other places to relax as time was late at ard 2+ pm today. gonna make it back home for dad bday dinner at ard 8+. i decided nt to go sentosa due to time constraints. gf was throwing tantrum at my hse after i decided nt to go sentosa. showing mi a face, and i ask her to go other place instead but kip giving mi a "face". i suggested some 3,4 other places which is near to my hse but a hell "no".. kip arguing dat 3+ can rch sentosa and will be back my 7+. i said if i wanna go sure i wanna enjoy and not with time constraints. after dis,didnt even tok to mi at my hse, after dat bring her bag out and left the hse. being a bf, i gif chase. and arguments start to throw.
she said i was on long wkends coz of vesak and simply wasted today and she wanna spend quality time with mi. ytd she was bz with smthing on and therefore a day was gone. and today was the onli day dat she can enjoy being with mi. but is cancelling sentosa outing called nt spending quality time? makes mi wonder. its been happening 2,3 times alreadi.
forumites, izit my fault? advise ?
Try to talk some sense to her?
Give her some time to grow up ?
Well, if she doesn't change.. i bet it'll be very hard to live with this kinda person.. i was in your shoes b4....
I simply gave up....