Hmm...
maybe for ex-lovers... to say that I have not pined, or cursed, or yearned before would be lying but..
when I met my .. husband-to-be, I think the shadows of the past all melted away and guess there isn't anyone there liao.. or much emotional baggage
In a way, I feel it is irresponsible to give your heart to someone when part of it still belongs to another person. The person receives the gift not knowing part of it doesnt belong to him or her but yet, returns the whole gift to you.
I guess.. the people I will find really unforgettable would be my family...
my mom, my dad, my grandma, my brother... the husband of course..
sometimes I wonder how things would be like when they grow older and older
and one day the inevitable happens
sometimes a flash of unexpected worry comes into my mind
abt my brother who's overseas at the moment
I think losing them would be really equal to losing a limb
and while you can learn to cope with the loss, you are never whole again.
A friend of mine lost his mother about 5 years ago, yet every year, on her birthday and on festive days, the grief is almost as painful anewed as it was 5 years ago. It was worse cos he already lost his dad when he was very young, and was brought up by his mom.