to all the men i've loved....
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it's all a frame of mind.
my ex-gf hurt me to the core too... but i dun hate her. i still think she's a great girl and hope the best for her.
if u've been in the forum long enuff, u will know i always speak fondly of her when i mention her.
how did she hurt me? she was screwing another guy in OUR bedroom. so.. any other ways to be more hurt then to actually catch them red-handed?
why does it seem ur hurt is worse than mine yet i seem to be able to handle it better? becos i'm male?
i guess then u should blame urself for being born female, if that's the case. -
the ability to handle, go through and survive hurts is not based on gender.
the statement you made is uncalled for.Originally posted by jOhO:it's all a frame of mind.
my ex-gf hurt me to the core too... but i dun hate her. i still think she's a great girl and hope the best for her.
if u've been in the forum long enuff, u will know i always speak fondly of her when i mention her.
how did she hurt me? she was screwing another guy in OUR bedroom. so.. any other ways to be more hurt then to actually catch them red-handed?
why does it seem ur hurt is worse than mine yet i seem to be able to handle it better? becos i'm male?
i guess then u should blame urself for being born female, if that's the case. -
yeah i know it's not. glad u detected the sarcasm.Originally posted by the_don:the ability to handle, go through and survive hurts is not based on gender.
the statement you made is uncalled for.
anyway like i said in ur other thread which i'm still shaking my head over, i hope u get over it.
i am also sincere in sharing my own experiences. i still smile when i think of the times we had. never regretted. -
your sarcasm was pretty thick, it's not that difficult to miss.
with regards to the other thread, i am happy for you that you had wonderful examples of love in the form of your parents and married friends. you are lucky. however there is a flip side to every coin and sadly i have seen and experience some.
with regards to the current thread; thank you for sharing your experience. wat u have gone thru is what no one should ever experience. i pray for you tat it will never come round again.
i too have the same experience, not once but twice. does that make my pain more to bear? maybe, maybe not. but it seems the issue here might be that the way we choose to handle our hurts are different. for me i need to rant it out, and it so happens i like sgforums. i do know by ranting here it would mean there would be pple who would flame me. but that is not a big issue as there is no such thing as a flameless forum anyway.
u might still think i am just ranting with no experiences or reasons to back them up. i don't think i want to justify my rants here as it would mean digging up past hurts. if u still think u want judge me, it's only fair that u are in possession of the full facts before arriving at your conclusion. if u really want to continue this exchange in opinions, do feel free to PM me.Originally posted by jOhO:yeah i know it's not. glad u detected the sarcasm.
anyway like i said in ur other thread which i'm still shaking my head over, i hope u get over it.
i am also sincere in sharing my own experiences. i still smile when i think of the times we had. never regretted. -
neh no issues really, PMs not necessary, this thread is fine i guess now that u sound more sane and hopeful! i guess u might want to take note that to the gentlemen out there (however FEW there may be of them) that give their all to their girl AND have been hurt, they would surely take offence, even if not personally, but certainly in general.
best wishes to u in ur current/future relationships.
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Don't start this sexism stuff.Originally posted by jOhO:why does it seem ur hurt is worse than mine yet i seem to be able to handle it better? becos i'm male?
i guess then u should blame urself for being born female, if that's the case.
JohO -
U shldnt show dat... coz it means nth to dem... juz noe dat its their loss loh.Originally posted by the_don:
that is for all the heartless b*stards, sheep in wolf clothing, MOFO! -
he didn't... she did...
besides, it's in the past now... she's pretty happy nowOriginally posted by Lingos:Don't start this sexism stuff.
JohO -
how do u want me to react?Originally posted by Lingos:Don't start this sexism stuff.
JohO
u tell me, mr/s moderator.
take note: at least i engage in intellectual discussion, not one liners. -
Is this bout that men are heartless thing?Originally posted by the Bear:he didn't... she did...
besides, it's in the past now... she's pretty happy now
Heheh.. Ahhh... i can't believe it's still floating. -
Sorry JohO, skimmed thru your post too fast.
I apologise.
And it's a oneliner, cos i didn't want to start a mud slinging session Mister Mod. -
aiyah ..... ling's status as mod has got nothing to do with this lah ...... i think u look too deep into things lolOriginally posted by jOhO:how do u want me to react?
u tell me, mr/s moderator.
take note: at least i engage in intellectual discussion, not one liners.
TX
ps. i also MTY mod .... dun think too much abt this reply yah? -
sarcasm will roll off my tongue when i dun respect the person, or at least the reply.
anyway lingos, no worries, i dun think it really matters as we're still strangers (for now).
ok lar i think i'll stay out of this thread, i still wish the best for don.