I wanna get rid of the boy!!
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Sounds like a bad short circuit in your system. I mean, not many guys(even I, do it once in a blue moon or if it so happens I'm walking to the passenger side) open car doors nowadays. Can't expect him to dash across the car to open the car door?Originally posted by Lingos:Don... we just had a shouting match (well.. short as it may be) about how long he takes to open the door.
He drove us to the city or .. actually i can't remember where, cos he parked so far away, i went into hysterics..
Oh.. actually it was the route that he took. I went bananas over which route he took! And i'm like.. I"m never getting into your frigging car. And tonight, it was how he takes forever to open the door. He said, well next time open it yourself. So i again.. pulled out the trump card. FINE, next time you can open the door to your own one bedroom cos i'm not staying here anymore.
Opps.. bad huh?
As to which route he takes, maybe you can suggest to him that this route is better. But I find even most guys like me, like to stick to the route that I know best or like... though it might just be a min longer.
If its too far to walk, ask him to drop you off closer while he goes to park the car!
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Oh hun.. let me clarify!.. GUYS.. it is to open the house door, not the car door.Originally posted by :Sounds like a bad short circuit in your system. I mean, not many guys(even I, do it once in a blue moon or if it so happens I'm walking to the passenger side) open car doors nowadays. Can't expect him to dash across the car to open the car door?
As to which route he takes, maybe you can suggest to him that this route is better. But I find even most guys like me, like to stick to the route that I know best or like... though it might just be a min longer.
If its too far to walk, ask him to drop you off closer while he goes to park the car!
Aiyoh.. he never does open the car door. ahhah..
By the time he gets out.. fiddles around with his door ahahha.
But he's really nice ah.. he lets me rave around with his car. Gave me a set of keys to the car really early in the relationship.
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well ill b peeved too if i was doing all the work n i had a live commentary running beside me.Originally posted by Lingos:hahah..
No offence at all taken.
Just that I drive too. And i believe that i drive better.
So i'm fuming in the car like you won't believe. I guess i can't win eh?
Maybe i'm just looking for excuses!!
You didn't get it wrong. I can't believe that minute stuff is irritating the hell out of me.
jus relax. read men r from mars n women r frm venus.... it kinda helps. -
oh no... not another r/s going up in flames!
why recently so many ppl lidat?
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haha and why all are MTY regulars?Originally posted by HENG@:oh no... not another r/s going up in flames!
why recently so many ppl lidat? 
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Hmmm. If you ask me, from my perspective, it looks like you're nit-picking on him. And if he really is trying his best to be nice to you, and all he gets is you being angry, then I can tell you, he is one really really sad and emotinally upset guy.
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yup.... my fren's was also a case that she found it irritating only after a year into the relationship..Originally posted by Lingos:Really? But it has never bugged me before.
We've been together for like 2 years.. i think it's overload of him..
And it's getting to me now.
guess after being together for some time, people will just subconsciously take each other for granted... my fren expects the guy to know what she wants and automatically do it (like read her mind type) whereas the guy expects her to understand why he want to go to such detail and slow process etc.... so when expectations clash.... discontentment occurs lor... -
Originally posted by Lingos:
Oh... now the house door is a must to open unless the Guy happens to be carrying all of the Gal's shopping bags + groceries + dog ++++.... then jolly well the Gal should open the door. Sometimes its a whoever is the closest to the door, opens it kinda thing...
Oh hun.. let me clarify!.. GUYS.. it is to open the [b]house door, not the car door.
Aiyoh.. he never does open the car door. ahhah..
By the time he gets out.. fiddles around with his door ahahha.
But he's really nice ah.. he lets me rave around with his car. Gave me a set of keys to the car really early in the relationship.
I think i've short circuited.[/b]
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No honey, I had no grocery bags. And if there was any, i'd frigging carry it myself cos he has no initiative.Originally posted by :Oh... now the house door is a must to open unless the Guy happens to be carrying all of the Gal's shopping bags + groceries + dog ++++.... then jolly well the Gal should open the door. Sometimes its a whoever is the closest to the door, opens it kinda thing...
Cut your man some slack...
So i'm not commenting on your behaviour. If i were you, i'd shut the fUCK up. -
there's no need for vulgarities.Originally posted by Lingos:No honey, I had no grocery bags. And if there was any, i'd frigging carry it myself cos he has no initiative.
So i'm not commenting on your behaviour. If i were you, i'd shut the fUCK up. -
Yes please no vulgarities!Originally posted by kopiosatu:there's no need for vulgarities. -
ling jie, relax! relax!Originally posted by Lingos:No honey, I had no grocery bags. And if there was any, i'd frigging carry it myself cos he has no initiative.
So i'm not commenting on your behaviour. If i were you, i'd shut the fUCK up.
know times r hard for u now too... don't get worked up okies?
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You can still post in Aunt Agony even though you're not seeking for an advice? As long as you're in agony, why not?Originally posted by Lingos:This should not be in AA cos i'm not seeking advice.
I'm merely making a statement. Everything he does.. including silly things like taking too long to open the door to how he wears my mum's free RL jersey shirts.
URGH..
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Hmm...Originally posted by HENG@:ling jie, relax! relax!
know times r hard for u now too... don't get worked up okies? -
yah. everyone pls dun be too hard on ling jie jie. its a rough patch now for her...Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... -
Well..
The thing is, I'm bloody old. Been through lots of relationships.
I'm not looking for advise. As i don't believe outsiders are able to give any.
It's just a place for ranting.
No need for vulgarities? Then do not make comments that ask for it.
I treat him like a dog? Excuse me, I do not buy my dog Tsubi friggin $300 jeans. I do not drive him and his friends around in a friggin bus.. resulting in the party queen not drinking a drop of alcohol! -
oooh..... lingos dear... relac relac..... no point getting worked up over other people's comments....Originally posted by Lingos:Well..
The thing is, I'm bloody old. Been through lots of relationships.
I'm not looking for advise. As i don't believe outsiders are able to give any.
It's just a place for ranting.
No need for vulgarities? Then do not make comments that ask for it.
I treat him like a dog? Excuse me, I do not buy my dog Tsubi friggin $300 jeans. I do not drive him and his friends around in a friggin bus.. resulting in the party queen not drinking a drop of alcohol!
hope u feel better after ranting....
and trust me... you're still young!!! kekeke... old?? nah...... -
How does my comment get awards for vulgarities? I was'nt being mean or anything... Just hoping you two can forgive each other and patch back. Think that is what everyone here wants.Originally posted by :Oh... now the house door is a must to open unless the Guy happens to be carrying all of the Gal's shopping bags + groceries + dog ++++.... then jolly well the Gal should open the door. Sometimes its a whoever is the closest to the door, opens it kinda thing...
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Well..
Kittyn hahaha..
Cool as.
I'm a girl full of vulgarities.
As you know, even my mum and I swear infront of each other. haha.
I'm just pissed off not cos of him. It's more of external factors that i bring into the relationship.
And stupid and minor stuff gets to me.
Ya know life is tough when i suck up to corporate wh0re organisations like Accenture.
OH yeah.. you're such a leader in the consulting industry.
When i really mean.. you guys are slave drivers. -
you worked for accenture?? kekekeOriginally posted by Lingos:Well..
Kittyn hahaha..
Cool as.
I'm a girl full of vulgarities.
As you know, even my mum and I swear infront of each other. haha.
I'm just pissed off not cos of him. It's more of external factors that i bring into the relationship.
And stupid and minor stuff gets to me.
Ya know life is tough when i suck up to corporate wh0re organisations like Accenture.OH yeah.. you're such a leader in the consulting industry.
When i really mean.. you guys are slave drivers. -
Should take things easy... Lingos relax!
Just know that if its not meant to be, its better to find out sooner then you can move on and find someone who suits you better. Well, you're still better than me... seems like the older I get, the less r/ss' I get involved in. keke... *grin* Dunno if thats a good choice or I'm just tired of playing games... -
ling jie jie..... look to the brighter side of things. when u coming back???Originally posted by Lingos:Well..
Kittyn hahaha..
Cool as.
I'm a girl full of vulgarities.
As you know, even my mum and I swear infront of each other. haha.
I'm just pissed off not cos of him. It's more of external factors that i bring into the relationship.
And stupid and minor stuff gets to me.
Ya know life is tough when i suck up to corporate wh0re organisations like Accenture.
OH yeah.. you're such a leader in the consulting industry.
When i really mean.. you guys are slave drivers. -
Heng di..
Trouble arising.. haha.
But don't worry, i'll still get the lip gloss in preparation.
Anyone who knows me know that i can't organise holidays for the life of me. It's meant to be enjoyable, but it means stress for me. Everytime I go on a holiday, i lose weight. Right now i've got a job interview lined up, so once again. I CAN'T LEAVE MELBOURNE?! I don't know why, just sit still for one minute!
Anyway.. i'll keep you posted!
Kittyn.. no i don't. I just sucked up and applied for a job there. Even though i hate that company. My friend works there and they are all the same -> brainwashed. -
Anyway we were just talking about stress levels in the house.
It appears that my stress was rubbing off on him..Resulting in b|tching all the time. It's funny we're bickering infront of my mum.. it's weird too. -
hahaha.... hang in there and stay cool.... just try to find ways to relax and don't let that stress get to you.... chills...Originally posted by Lingos:Kittyn.. no i don't. I just sucked up and applied for a job there. Even though i hate that company. My friend works there and they are all the same -> brainwashed.