Lingos wants to rant again..

• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 08:34

  Sigh..
  My best friend.. absolute best friend.. sounds like he's developing..
  Schizophrenia or something along those lines. Even though he claims strongly that he isn't.
  Anyway.. point is..yet another person needs me in Singas.
  Why can't i just drop everything and go back to singapore??
• wuming78

  12 Mar 04, 08:35

  har?
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 08:36

  Wuming.. i have been questioning my decision to stay in melbourne.
  Anyway.. the thing is.. everyone i know in Sg has been saying.. I miss you, when are you coming back.
  My family has been having issues.
  My friend is developing mental issues..
  Urgh.. i don't know why i'm still here sometimes.
• wuming78

  12 Mar 04, 08:37

  well.. home is where the heart is...
  
  ask ur heart, and u will find the answer.
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 08:38

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  well.. home is where the heart is...
  
  ask ur heart, and u will find the answer.

  Erm.. home is now.. Melbourne.
  Just feel that suddenly everyone needs me in Singapore.
  Sniff.
• laurence82

  12 Mar 04, 08:42

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Wuming.. i have been questioning my decision to stay in melbourne.
  Anyway.. the thing is.. everyone i know in Sg has been saying.. I miss you, when are you coming back.
  My family has been having issues.
  My friend is developing mental issues..
  Urgh.. i don't know why i'm still here sometimes.

  Dear,
  
  What do you hope for when you make the plans for Melb?
  
  Better job, bf, better environment?
  
  Is it possible to sacrifice them on short term just to make right your family and friends right again?
  
  Do you foresee that you must be present to solve the problems, meaning the issues are overwhelming and you need to fly back immediately for long term?
  
  Best is, discuss with bf. At least you wll have a listening ear and adivce. Best yet, you will have support.
• sillyme

  12 Mar 04, 08:42

  just come back, at least to settle those who miss you..
  
  then, while here, take time to think about what to do
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 09:21

  sis! be strong!
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 09:43

  Even heng di di is more sensible than me.
  I think i'll come back to sg with my mum.
  Depending on whether my leave is approved. Actually stuff them, if my leave isn't approved, i'll take no pay leave.. Except i'll come back poor again.
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 09:46

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  Dear,
  
  What do you hope for when you make the plans for Melb?
  
  Better job, bf, better environment?
  
  Is it possible to sacrifice them on short term just to make right your family and friends right again?
  
  Do you foresee that you must be present to solve the problems, meaning the issues are overwhelming and you need to fly back immediately for long term?
  
  Best is, discuss with bf. At least you wll have a listening ear and adivce. Best yet, you will have support.

  I was just suddenly overwhelmed by my best friend's troubles.
  Hmm.. just suddenly feel that no one is supporting him to be himself over there. He is not accepted by his parents.. sniff.
  
  Anyway.. sacrifice career? And come home jobless? Oh.. it gives me a sense of security. I will be upset.. i guess.
  
  Mmm... my bf wants me to go home for like a month or a few weeks. And get it out of my system.
• ditzy

  12 Mar 04, 09:48

  If i were you, I'll go home. My heart is always in Singapore.
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 09:50

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Even heng di di is more sensible than me.
  I think i'll come back to sg with my mum.
  Depending on whether my leave is approved. Actually stuff them, if my leave isn't approved, i'll take no pay leave.. Except i'll come back poor again.

  i am???
• choco B

  12 Mar 04, 09:50

  A month's break to settle things here is good. Then at least you return to work with a load off your shoulders and a clear mind.
  
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 09:52

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  I was just suddenly overwhelmed by my best friend's troubles.
  Hmm.. just suddenly feel that no one is supporting him to be himself over there. He is not accepted by his parents.. sniff.
  
  Anyway.. sacrifice career? And come home jobless? Oh.. it gives me a sense of security. I will be upset.. i guess.
  
  Mmm... my bf wants me to go home for like a month or a few weeks. And get it out of my system.

  ok. very simply, seems like u need a short break.
• coolger03

  12 Mar 04, 09:53

  Originally posted by choco B:

  A month's break to settle things here is good. Then at least you return to work with a load off your shoulders and a clear mind.
  

  yup... and at least u wun be regretting not coming back if anything were to happen to ur family and frens in sg....
• stoner

  12 Mar 04, 09:54

  lingos .. please don come back....... stay there .... ....
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 10:05

  Originally posted by stoner:

  lingos .. please don come back....... stay there .... ....

  So bad ah Stoner.
  Evil man.
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 10:07

  Hmm.. sigh... i think i'd better put in a leave approval form.
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 10:12

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Hmm.. sigh... i think i'd better put in a leave approval form.

  u do that sis. i think it'll do u good.
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 10:21

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  u do that sis. i think it'll do u good.

  Yeah.. heng.. watch me plead with my boss.
• stoner

  12 Mar 04, 10:22

  ahh lingos .. come back for a break lar .... anyway there now goign to winter liao mah ... so come back singapore and have a summer vacation !!! hahaha
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 10:42

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Yeah.. heng.. watch me plead with my boss.

  u could always go bonkers on him if u dun get one.
  
  my uncle recently sent their maid back home. she normall gives them unsealed letters to post to her family. this time, she gave them a sealed letter to give to the agent. when the agent opened it n read, and my uncle's family asked what was written, the agent suggested sending her away.
  turns out, she had written nothing except for 3 words "Kaya, papaya " and another word they forgot thought she might be going bonkers. so she was sent home.
• sillyme

  12 Mar 04, 10:52

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  Hmm.. sigh... i think i'd better put in a leave approval form.

  hope it'll be approved
• Lingos

  12 Mar 04, 11:09

  HHAHAH..
  Ok i will do that.
  
  I will write..
  
  Vegemite 1 jar,
  Lettuce 1 head
  
  in my reports and emails.
• HENG@

  12 Mar 04, 11:22

  Originally posted by Lingos:

  HHAHAH..
  Ok i will do that.
  
  I will write..
  
  Vegemite 1 jar,
  Lettuce 1 head
  
  in my reports and emails.

  dun forget to seal them up really nicely and all...