Soft-hearted........
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tat's call chee hong???Originally posted by xian89:I have a 'soft-heart' for gals. Seems to be more willing to help gals than guys.
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hahaha..... i don wan him to b scare of me......Originally posted by boy in blues: from now on..every time you see him..it's your turn to ask favors from him..next time he see you also scared.
i oso have nothing to ask favors from him...... -
my fran did tell him he's not worth helping.....Originally posted by rovguy:also help within your limits.No need to help so much,unless it is worth it.
but i cant leave him in lurch leh..... -
Hmm...Ji Shi Ben - Cally Chen ver. is one of my favourite song.
But i can't reach her note. ....
However the meaning in that song somehow speaks. I understand.
Sometimes, Somethings, somewhere in life, you just got to make certain decisions which will jepordise your character...or your very heart.
Sometimes it's good to know when to say no.
It's hard...but we need to learn. -
hmm.... yah it's hard to reject lah....Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...Ji Shi Ben - Cally Chen ver. is one of my favourite song.
But i can't reach her note. ....
However the meaning in that song somehow speaks. I understand.
Sometimes, Somethings, somewhere in life, you just got to make certain decisions which will jepordise your character...or your very heart.
Sometimes it's good to know when to say no.
It's hard...but we need to learn.
cos we oso wont like to b rejected mah.... hence wont tot of rejecting pple loh..... somemore it's HIM?! -
if it HIM, let your heart decide...
i hope you do not get hurt or become calloused...
sounds like he's wearing out his welcome already.. -
wat u mean by wearing out his welcome?Originally posted by the Bear:if it HIM, let your heart decide...
i hope you do not get hurt or become calloused...
sounds like he's wearing out his welcome already.. -
that you were happy to help him.. then he takes advantage and gets you to keep helping him until you are pretty unhappy with the situation already...
sort of like a guest at your house.. you like that the person visits and welcomes the person.. then the person stays and stays and treats your place like it was his own... and as host, it's not nice to throw him out... he has "worn out his welcome"... that is, you don't feel like welcoming him anymore...Originally posted by thhong22:wat u mean by wearing out his welcome? -
Originally posted by thhong22:
hong jie.. wad happened.. i know the lyrics very well.. n it does makes me cry when i am down... wad happened..
sometimes i think i'm very soft-hearted...... will kena used by pple who take advantage of this......
wan ignore oso cannot.... can bear to b so hard -hearted leh.....
[b]"Ji Shi Ben" by Kelly Chen
fan kai sui shen xie dai de ji shi ben
xie zhe xu duo shi, dou shi guan yu ni
ni tao yan bei leng luo, xi guan bei shou hou,
ji mo cai zhao wo....
wo kan jian zi ji xie xia de xin qing
bao zi ji fang zai, bei wei de hou tou
deng ni deng tai jiu, xiang ni lei hui liu
er xing fu kuai le shi she me.....
ai de tong le, tong de ku le
ku de lei le ri ji ben li ye ye zhi zhuo
ji zai zhe ni de hao, xiang shang ying de du yao
ta fan fu pian zhe wo
ai de tong le, tong de ku le
ku de lei le mao dun xin li zhong shi qiang qiu
quan zi ji yao fang shou, bi shang yan rang ni zou
shao diao ri ji cong xin lai guo......
for those who can understand the lyrics, think it describe my feelings very well..... tat's how i felt now [/b] -
a guy..........Originally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:hong jie.. wad happened.. i know the lyrics very well.. n it does makes me cry when i am down... wad happened..
anyway he was in deep trouble lah..... he borrow money from me.....
i scolded him in the 1st place..... cos he don find me very often, then he suddenly come find me is borrow money.....
he shld noe i wont reject him.... ta'ts y he came to me.....
but he did ask me how much i'm convenient with, don wan to end up i suffer cos not enuff to use...... -
oh..... don reali wanna help him.... but neither do i wan to leave him in lurch..... it hurts me to c him sad n troubledOriginally posted by the Bear:that you were happy to help him.. then he takes advantage and gets you to keep helping him until you are pretty unhappy with the situation already...
sort of like a guest at your house.. you like that the person visits and welcomes the person.. then the person stays and stays and treats your place like it was his own... and as host, it's not nice to throw him out... he has "worn out his welcome"... that is, you don't feel like welcoming him anymore...
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i know.. try this method instead...
find out why he needs the money and then help him solve that problem..Originally posted by thhong22:oh..... don reali wanna help him.... but neither do i wan to leave him in lurch..... it hurts me to c him sad n troubled -
errrr....... i noe y..... but it's all money mattersOriginally posted by the Bear:i know.. try this method instead...
find out why he needs the money and then help him solve that problem.. -
icic... sometimes u have to be hard hearted.. cannot easily let them have their way..Originally posted by thhong22:a guy..........
anyway he was in deep trouble lah..... he borrow money from me.....
i scolded him in the 1st place..... cos he don find me very often, then he suddenly come find me is borrow money.....
he shld noe i wont reject him.... ta'ts y he came to me.....
but he did ask me how much i'm convenient with, don wan to end up i suffer cos not enuff to use......
so did u lend? -
errr..... yah i did......Originally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:icic... sometimes u have to be hard hearted.. cannot easily let them have their way..
so did u lend?
he say will return this mth end when he get his pay, if not latest by next mth..... -
so after lending... u have enough for urself??Originally posted by thhong22:errr..... yah i did......
hope.. he will return ba..
suan le.. lor... take it as helping others lor.. -
what causes these money matters?
drill to the cause..
hopefully, no more money matters after it's solved..Originally posted by thhong22:errrr....... i noe y..... but it's all money matters -
ehhh...... ok lah.... he din noe i got 2 bank account.....Originally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:so after lending... u have enough for urself??
hope.. he will return ba..
suan le.. lor... take it as helping others lor..
one left abit only.....
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icic... den.. hope.. u feel better lor.. bu yao xiang na me duo le..Originally posted by thhong22:ehhh...... ok lah.... he din noe i got 2 bank account.....
one left abit only..... -
i noe abit of it...... but it's not very nice to drill deeper cos it's personal......Originally posted by the Bear:what causes these money matters?
drill to the cause..
hopefully, no more money matters after it's solved..
the problem can b quite draggy..... hiaz..... -
he wants you to help and then don't want to tell you?
or you don't want to pry?
but he's being helped.. so i think you do have a right to know..
oh well, i do hope you'll be happy and he solves his problems...
Originally posted by thhong22:i noe abit of it...... but it's not very nice to drill deeper cos it's personal......
the problem can b quite draggy..... hiaz..... -
hmm
$$ matter again
think elmo that time also got 1 incident also like tht
my ex also keep borrow money from me..he alrdy got gf liao lah..but the amt he lend from me is not tht much..den he got return..but i find it very irritated is...y everytime no money come find me loh..somemore always starting of the mth borrow..weird is can afford to buy so expensive thing for gf..and his gf is quite rich 1...and den because of face..dun wan to borrow from her... -
hahhaa... i'm ok lah.... not sad bcos of the money....Originally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:icic... den.. hope.. u feel better lor.. bu yao xiang na me duo le..
sad bcos he donno got treat me as fran or not.....
anywya he say he'll return this or nx mth mah..... c if he did loh
hope he don betray my trust -
he got tell lah..... but i cant spill everything here rite???Originally posted by the Bear:he wants you to help and then don't want to tell you?
or you don't want to pry?
but he's being helped.. so i think you do have a right to know..
oh well, i do hope you'll be happy and he solves his problems...
hhehee.... thanx.... hope everything goes well -
yah loh.... normally oso nv c he so keen on finding me..... tat's y i scold him....Originally posted by BufPuf:hmm
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think elmo that time also got 1 incident also like tht
my ex also keep borrow money from me..he alrdy got gf liao lah..but the amt he lend from me is not tht much..den he got return..but i find it very irritated is...y everytime no money come find me loh..somemore always starting of the mth borrow..weird is can afford to buy so expensive thing for gf..and his gf is quite rich 1...and den because of face..dun wan to borrow from her...