To Love or Be Loved
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given a scenario tat u like someone n another likes u.......
both r like.... emmm.... one-sided 2wards each other......
wat will u do???
continue to stay by the one u like......??? try to b with the one who likes u....??? do nothing....... ??? others....... pls specify -
i dun understand the 1 sided towards each other part...
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are you going to stay with the one who loves you
or are you going back to the one you love?
someone's going to cry when they've learnt they lost you
someone's going to thank the stars above... -
meaning the one u like, don like uOriginally posted by BufPuf:i dun understand the 1 sided towards each other part...
the one who like u, u don like him....... -
good afternoon!
i'll rather stay wif the one whom i love. I dun think one can be happy if she has to spend her life with one that she doesn't love. It's unfair to the partner and also, such marriages have the tendency to end up with divorce as love is not there to bind both together. -
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like tht very hard to make decision.
usually see who u more comfortable with..if u think that u got time to change the person...to like u...and u got the patience and determination..u can try...but sometimes...u will get so tired..trying to make the person like u..and even if 1 day the person really like u...u may feel so burn out..dat u choose not to continue the r/ship...
if the person who like u....is a goot guy...maybe u can try going out with him more often..try to noe him better...who noes..maybe u will start to like him also...
give yrself more time loh... -
but he doesn't love you...
in a relationship, it takes 2.. and even that, sometimes it doesn't work out..
it's ultimately a personal choice.. myself, i'll love that person... but if she does not love me back, i'll continue to love her... just that we cannot be together.. i cannot wreck her life by being beside her if there's no love for me....
so, i'd be alone... -
stay with the one u love..... i hope to too....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:good afternoon!
i'll rather stay wif the one whom i love. I dun think one can be happy if she has to spend her life with one that she doesn't love. It's unfair to the partner and also, such marriages have the tendency to end up with divorce as love is not there to bind both together.
but wat if he doesn't love u???
r u going to watch him go out with other gals n u upset urself...... or juz c him happy n u'll feel happy??? -
true... but personally, i'll rather hang around and wait for the fella to reciprocate my love. And if he doesn't.. well, love needs to be fed, an unfed love will slowly dies off. And then i'll just move on.. But i will never lead on a guy whom i dun love. Think it's very unfair to himOriginally posted by the Bear:but he doesn't love you...
in a relationship, it takes 2.. and even that, sometimes it doesn't work out..
it's ultimately a personal choice.. myself, i'll love that person... but if she does not love me back, i'll continue to love her... just that we cannot be together.. i cannot wreck her life by being beside her if there's no love for me....
so, i'd be alone... -
hmmm... yah true osoOriginally posted by BufPuf:err
like tht very hard to make decision.
usually see who u more comfortable with..if u think that u got time to change the person...to like u...and u got the patience and determination..u can try...but sometimes...u will get so tired..trying to make the person like u..and even if 1 day the person really like u...u may feel so burn out..dat u choose not to continue the r/ship...
if the person who like u....is a goot guy...maybe u can try going out with him more often..try to noe him better...who noes..maybe u will start to like him also...
give yrself more time loh...
bei ai shi xing fu de -
sometimes, loving doesn't means owning the person. As time goes, your unrequited love will slowly dies off and you will look upon him as a fren. And there's always someone elseOriginally posted by thhong22:stay with the one u love..... i hope to too....
but wat if he doesn't love u???
r u going to watch him go out with other gals n u upset urself...... or juz c him happy n u'll feel happy??? -
yah
but this is if she does not love me, and cannot.. it's walking away that's best for everyone...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:true... but personally, i'll rather hang around and wait for the fella to reciprocate my love. And if he doesn't.. well, love needs to be fed, an unfed love will slowly dies off. And then i'll just move on.. But i will never lead on a guy whom i dun love. Think it's very unfair to him -
u sound so nice.......Originally posted by the Bear:but he doesn't love you...
in a relationship, it takes 2.. and even that, sometimes it doesn't work out..
it's ultimately a personal choice.. myself, i'll love that person... but if she does not love me back, i'll continue to love her... just that we cannot be together.. i cannot wreck her life by being beside her if there's no love for me....
so, i'd be alone...
i do like someone but it's impossible for us to b 2gether.... for various reasons
quite long liao... like a yr since i noe him???
use to mt him rather often, but getting lesser n lesser.... until i don miss him much, but recently we get in touched again.....
i tot i've get over him, but i realise, i din.......
he was so upset this days n i felt sad n pain to c him so upset.....
i hope i can help him n share his woes, but i cant...... hiaz -
then u don think it's unfair to urself if u like the guy n he don reciprocate???Originally posted by skinnybeanie:true... but personally, i'll rather hang around and wait for the fella to reciprocate my love. And if he doesn't.. well, love needs to be fed, an unfed love will slowly dies off. And then i'll just move on.. But i will never lead on a guy whom i dun love. Think it's very unfair to him
u could go for someone more worthy??? -
you don't choose who you love.. love chooses youOriginally posted by thhong22:then u don think it's unfair to urself if u like the guy n he don reciprocate???
u could go for someone more worthy??? -
i believe it's fading too..... frans...... not juz a normal fran n nv will b....... i think he's still someone special to me.....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:sometimes, loving doesn't means owning the person. As time goes, your unrequited love will slowly dies off and you will look upon him as a fren. And there's always someone else
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i agree with you, if by being with the person you love makes life more miserable for the person, then the best is to walk away. Loving is about wanting the person you loved to be happy, not about owning the person.Originally posted by the Bear:yah
but this is if she does not love me, and cannot.. it's walking away that's best for everyone... -
hiaz........Originally posted by the Bear:you don't choose who you love.. love chooses you
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i believe he'll always hold a special place in your heart. But you are still so young, down your long road of life, someone else will come by who will hold a bigger special place in your heart, and hopefully, you will be special to him too.
Have faith in love. I've been thru the worst, but i still have faithOriginally posted by thhong22:i believe it's fading too..... frans...... not juz a normal fran n nv will b....... i think he's still someone special to me..... -
some people will always have a place in your heart
some people, you never get over..
just how you deal with it i guess... hope you will find true happiness... and peaceOriginally posted by thhong22:u sound so nice.......
i do like someone but it's impossible for us to b 2gether.... for various reasons
quite long liao... like a yr since i noe him???
use to mt him rather often, but getting lesser n lesser.... until i don miss him much, but recently we get in touched again.....
i tot i've get over him, but i realise, i din.......
he was so upset this days n i felt sad n pain to c him so upset.....
i hope i can help him n share his woes, but i cant...... hiaz -
hmm... hope so....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i believe he'll always hold a special place in your heart. But you are still so young, down your long road of life, someone else will come by who will hold a bigger special place in your heart, and hopefully, you will be special to him too.
Have faith in love. I've been thru the worst, but i still have faith
me not very young liao.... me 22 yrs old
at least now u r happily married.....
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thanx bear......Originally posted by the Bear:some people will always have a place in your heart
some people, you never get over..
just how you deal with it i guess... hope you will find true happiness... and peace
i think i'll always put him somewhere in my heart..... he's still someone i love most until now......
hope u can find ur happiness soon too
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girl, 22 is very young!
i'm more than a decade older than you!Originally posted by thhong22:hmm... hope so....
me not very young liao.... me 22 yrs old
at least now u r happily married..... -
very young.....???Originally posted by the Bear:girl, 22 is very young!
i'm more than a decade older than you!
not too young lah.... cos to me young is like teenage??? -
be happy with yourself.. then age does not matter anymore....
teenager, you wanna be an adult
adult, you wanna be a teen
middle age, you wonder where your "young adult" time went
older, you want to be middle age
as a geriatric, you wanna be younger, live your life again...
when you get there, you want to be somewhere else...
there's no time like now
live your life and not worry about being young, old whatever... just live.. and not just exist... there's a difference...
just like in love, does finding your soulmate matter if you are 22, 32 or 52?
be glad you are alive and then go out and live, not just exist Originally posted by thhong22:very young.....???
not too young lah.... cos to me young is like teenage???