for all guys......

• IamAngeline

  29 Apr 03, 15:10

  my friend has a headache over here~~
  I also dunno wat to suggest too~~
  
  my friend wanted to send a gift to her so called ex-lover on his bday and did not want him to know that the gift is from her~~
  but because of some misunderstanding, the two of them turned their back off each other.
  
  what thing will a girl u once liked do that will make you most touched on your birthday~~~~ ?
• Knapper

  29 Apr 03, 15:26

  send me my favourite jersy............
• kohanson

  29 Apr 03, 15:28

  Go to his house's void deck and give the present to him ..
• IamAngeline

  29 Apr 03, 15:30

  Originally posted by kohanson:

  Go to his house's void deck and give the present to him ..

  hmmm she told me that she is not going to let him know the present is for him and will be mailing the gift as a secret person how~~
• the Bear

  29 Apr 03, 15:34

  Not a good idea.
  
  Maybe he's moved on. And found someone he's going to be happy with... and who is happy with him.. a long term relationship.
  
  With this gift, will this derail everything?
  
  Is this to his benefit, or to her own benefit?
  
  What are her intentions? Are they good, or selfish? Did she think about the consequences if he's moved on and attached already?
• IamAngeline

  29 Apr 03, 15:37

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  Not a good idea.
  
  Maybe he's moved on. And found someone he's going to be happy with... and who is happy with him.. a long term relationship.
  
  With this gift, will this derail everything?
  
  Is this to his benefit, or to her own benefit?
  
  What are her intentions? Are they good, or selfish? Did she think about the consequences if he's moved on and attached already?

  hmmm dunno wor~~~~
  i only know she just want to send a gift to him on his birthday.
  I think maybe she still like the guy loh~~
  ermm~~ dunno leh~~~ so no suggestion~?
• De|usi0n

  29 Apr 03, 20:36

  sent me something which seem tat she had put some effort or thought into it, not necessary expensive..if she do it herself, will be even better. once receive a bottle of 512 heart shaped paper.
• kohanson

  29 Apr 03, 20:37

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  hmmm she told me that she is not going to let him know the present is for him and will be mailing the gift as a secret person how~~

  Maybe can write something sweet on the card ? write a bit of hints for the guy ..
• xian89

  30 Apr 03, 18:16

  Juz buy what she think best for him loh...
• Imposter

  7 May 03, 03:50

  actually if she hoping the guys still likes her then watever she gib the guy will like it...if the guy has moved on n has a gf now...maybe it's not even a gd idea to gib him anything already
• ~Or|oS|s~

  7 May 03, 03:56

  Originally posted by Imposter:

  actually if she hoping the guys still likes her then watever she gib the guy will like it...if the guy has moved on n has a gf now...maybe it's not even a gd idea to gib him anything already

  quite true but she may jus want to give it one last time.........
  something like one final thing to do b4 she gives up?
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 09:23

  okok for ur information~~~
  this is what happens:
  my fren is attached when th guy is wooing her~ and I think they fall out after that when the guy force her to choose between him and her bf~~ (not sure actual situation)
  
  then now she make the card already but still hesitating whether to send it~
• sillyme

  7 May 03, 10:21

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  okok for ur information~~~
  this is what happens:
  my fren is attached when th guy is wooing her~ and I think they fall out after that when the guy force her to choose between him and her bf~~ (not sure actual situation)
  
  then now she make the card already but still hesitating whether to send it~

  so is she still attached now?
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:23

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  so is she still attached now?

  Yes~
  haiz~~~
  problem always comes to me~~!!!! kekeke
  *headache* kekekek
  
  
• loneryu00

  7 May 03, 10:32

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  okok for ur information~~~
  this is what happens:
  my fren is attached when th guy is wooing her~ and I think they fall out after that when the guy force her to choose between him and her bf~~ (not sure actual situation)
  
  then now she make the card already but still hesitating whether to send it~

  Better not send... later da guy get WRONG msg... but then again... da choice is hers...
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:34

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Better not send... later da guy get WRONG msg... but then again... da choice is hers...

  kekekek~~~~~ well u see Senior~~ she can't forget the guy~~~ she dun want to hmmm~~~ like ehhh~~~
  ok zuo bu liaoz qing ren zuo peng you~~~ lah~~
• sillyme

  7 May 03, 10:43

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  Yes~
  haiz~~~
  problem always comes to me~~!!!! kekeke
  *headache* kekekek
  
  

  you can't always have the cake and eat it.. it's not easy to 'zuo bu liao qing ren, zuo peng you'... it's very fustrating to the person loves, but cannot love... it's very hurting too... so by giving him something, it'll definitely confuse him...
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:47

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  you can't always have the cake and eat it.. it's not easy to 'zuo bu liao qing ren, zuo peng you'... it's very fustrating to the person loves, but cannot love... it's very hurting too... so by giving him something, it'll definitely confuse him...

  yahyah agree so how? tell her not to send better?~
• sillyme

  7 May 03, 10:48

  btw, if she still wants to give him something... and if she really means to be just friends, don't spend too much effort to think of something special...
  a guy will normally go, "hmmm... she spend so much effort... is she interested???"....
• loneryu00

  7 May 03, 10:49

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  kekekek~~~~~ well u see Senior~~ she can't forget the guy~~~ she dun want to hmmm~~~ like ehhh~~~
  ok zuo bu liaoz qing ren zuo peng you~~~ lah~~

  Orh... gals r more emotional... dats y... U R THERE, Junior... be wif her... she needs sum1 now... & I noe its NOT dat guy... & definately NOT me!!!
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:53

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  btw, if she still wants to give him something... and if she really means to be just friends, don't spend too much effort to think of something special...
  a guy will normally go, "hmmm... she spend so much effort... is she interested???"....

  make a card consider putting losta effort?~
• sillyme

  7 May 03, 10:54

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  yahyah agree so how? tell her not to send better?~

  b4 i can give an answer... this is the first time she is trying to give him something or have any kind of contact??
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:55

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Orh... gals r more emotional... dats y... U R THERE, Junior... be wif her... she needs sum1 now... & I noe its NOT dat guy... & definately NOT me!!!

  hmmm~~ yah~~~
• IamAngeline

  7 May 03, 10:58

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  b4 i can give an answer... this is the first time she is trying to give him something or have any kind of contact??

  what she told me is like~~ she just wish to give him a birthday present loh~~ I think she bought the gift already~~ but she kept it never give~~ she thinks that it's not appropriate to send the gift~~ so she make a card~~ kinda contradicting ~~
• loneryu00

  7 May 03, 11:03

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  what she told me is like~~ she just wish to give him a birthday present loh~~ I think she bought the gift already~~ but she kept it never give~~ she thinks that it's not appropriate to send the gift~~ so she make a card~~ kinda contradicting ~~

  Then send da card 1st... see how da guy reacts...