Tell me...

• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 09:34

  Have anyone waited for someone that you have determined that she will be the one for you in your life...
  
  I have and I do. I met her in school. When i first saw her, I was attracted by her long straight hair and her pair of charming eyes that capativated me.
  
  I tried many ways to start a 'Hello' wif her. And yes I did..
  I assume it's a gd start... and I really love the way she smile with dimple on her face. she just look so sweet and cute..
  
  but however I did not manage to get any further, I suppose she's those kind of 'cold beauty' that I have ever met, and moreover she's has other suitors as well. but that's nt the critical, the fact is she has a bf..
  
  I'm wiling to wait for her although it has been a yr... but so.. I do not know how to tell her how much I fell for her...
  Any one could just give me a hand by splashing some opinion?
• the Bear

  17 Apr 03, 09:41

  School?
  
  Well, if she does the same subjects, can ask her for help for some bits.. then offer your help in others if you feel up to it.
  
  Then maybe can study together and stuff.
  
  Will help both your studies and your friendship
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 09:51

  wah.. after cherish? steady lar~~
  
  
• IamAngeline

  17 Apr 03, 09:53

  Originally posted by Knapper:

  Have anyone waited for someone that you have determined that she will be the one for you in your life...
  
  I have and I do. I met her in school. When i first saw her, I was attracted by her long straight hair and her pair of charming eyes that capativated me.
  
  I tried many ways to start a 'Hello' wif her. And yes I did..
  I assume it's a gd start... and I really love the way she smile with dimple on her face. she just look so sweet and cute..
  
  but however I did not manage to get any further, I suppose she's those kind of 'cold beauty' that I have ever met, and moreover she's has other suitors as well. but that's nt the critical, the fact is she has a bf..
  
  I'm wiling to wait for her although it has been a yr... but so.. I do not know how to tell her how much I fell for her...
  Any one could just give me a hand by splashing some opinion?

  hmm maybe be friends can already loh... no need must be couple one... hmmm everything just need start by a 'light up'
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 09:54

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  wah.. after cherish? steady lar~~
  
  

  ?????
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 09:55

  Originally posted by IamAngeline:

  hmm maybe be friends can already loh... no need must be couple one... hmmm everything just need start by a 'light up'

  so u think it's possible me to start up??
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 09:58

  be friends?
  
  i dunno, don't u think it's a bit painful to be friends with someone when:
  
  1) you have always wanted more, but cannot for the moment
  2) you have an ulterior motive - getting to know her as a friend not becos she is a good friend, but rather someone u feel with romantic inclinations
  3) in the event that you become good friends, risk being a third party since she has a bf and hurt everyone.
  
  I'm not saying it's wrong to like someone. what i'm saying is kerb ur bloody feelings and just be normal. dun let ur feelings rule ur actions. it's just a matter of self-control. and at that age, it's hard.
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 10:04

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  be friends?
  
  i dunno, don't u think it's a bit painful to be friends with someone when:
  
  1) you have always wanted more, but cannot for the moment
  2) you have an ulterior motive - getting to know her as a friend not becos she is a good friend, but rather someone u feel with romantic inclinations
  3) in the event that you become good friends, risk being a third party since she has a bf and hurt everyone.
  
  I'm not saying it's wrong to like someone. what i'm saying is kerb ur bloody feelings and just be normal. dun let ur feelings rule ur actions. it's just a matter of self-control. and at that age, it's hard.

  I'm not very sure. we were used to be in the same lecture hall. But then due to different elective, I can't meet her as how i used to. At least, I can used to sit behind her and stare at her from an angle when she's so focus on her work.
  
  But when I see guys around her disturbing or toking to her I just feel so annoyed and helpless that why can't i just know her and tok to her like they do...
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:09

  Originally posted by Knapper:

  I'm not very sure. we were used to be in the same lecture hall. But then due to different elective, I can't meet her as how i used to. At least, I can used to sit behind her and stare at her from an angle when she's so focus on her work.
  
  But when I see guys around her disturbing or toking to her I just feel so annoyed and helpless that why can't i just know her and tok to her like they do...

  haiz..
  
  u CAN just know her and talk to her like the other guys. but do it for the RIGHT reasons. i dunno if those guys are doing it for the right reasons or not (my assumption is they're her friends?) but at least u know in urself that u're ok. as for the courage part. this topic has been beaten to death.
  
  no guts no glory.
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 10:15

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  haiz..
  
  u CAN just know her and talk to her like the other guys. but do it for the RIGHT reasons. i dunno if those guys are doing it for the right reasons or not (my assumption is they're her friends?) but at least u know in urself that u're ok. as for the courage part. this topic has been beaten to death.
  
  no guts no glory.

  Haiz now I can't even her in school, not even once starting from this semester. Maybe it's becos ego or is it a men's desire, i wanted so much to grab her by my side. I miss her so much..
  
  I'm heading army soon, june intake. and i bet i can't see her again.
• kohanson

  17 Apr 03, 10:17

  Good luck to you! Hope you both can be together..
• JLennon

  17 Apr 03, 10:17

  Originally posted by Knapper:

  Have anyone waited for someone that you have determined that she will be the one for you in your life...
  
  I have and I do. I met her in school. When i first saw her, I was attracted by her long straight hair and her pair of charming eyes that capativated me.
  
  I tried many ways to start a 'Hello' wif her. And yes I did..
  I assume it's a gd start... and I really love the way she smile with dimple on her face. she just look so sweet and cute..
  
  but however I did not manage to get any further, I suppose she's those kind of 'cold beauty' that I have ever met, and moreover she's has other suitors as well. but that's nt the critical, the fact is she has a bf..
  
  I'm wiling to wait for her although it has been a yr... but so.. I do not know how to tell her how much I fell for her...
  Any one could just give me a hand by splashing some opinion?

  this kind u may end up waiting and waiting one. try and befriend her first but dun wait for her until kingdom come, just get on and look out for other girls, sure got another suitable one.
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:19

  Originally posted by Knapper:

  Haiz now I can't even her in school, not even once starting from this semester. Maybe it's becos ego or is it a men's desire, i wanted so much to grab her by my side. I miss her so much..
  
  I'm heading army soon, june intake. and i bet i can't see her again.

  sorree to pour ur cold water, but maybe that's a good thing after all.
  
  it's bad enuff to "yearn" for a girl in the dark for sooooo long, but it's worse when she's attached. i mean, u're gonna save urself a whole lot of pain if u just let her slowly fade from your head. from the sounds of it, u're either too weak to approach her, or too worried that you might screw up or watever negative things there are in ur head.
  
  i dunno if u understand me fully. i think u should get on with ur life not becos u are weak and not good enuff for her. but becos when u have all this pent up feelings and sh[/i]it running thru ur head, there's no way u and her can become "normal friends" first. unless u kerb ur feelings and think STRAIGHT then maybe there's a chance. also dun forget the power of the sub-conscious.
  
  go army lar brudder! it'll make u a man! best wishes dude.
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:21

  er... btw just out of curiousity, why post your problem in this forum?
• thhong22

  17 Apr 03, 10:25

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  wah.. after cherish? steady lar~~
  
  

  not cherish love lah..... someone else i think
• thhong22

  17 Apr 03, 10:27

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  sorree to pour ur cold water, but maybe that's a good thing after all.
  
  it's bad enuff to "yearn" for a girl in the dark for sooooo long, but it's worse when she's attached. i mean, u're gonna save urself a whole lot of pain if u just let her slowly fade from your head. from the sounds of it, u're either too weak to approach her, or too worried that you might screw up or watever negative things there are in ur head.
  
  i dunno if u understand me fully. i think u should get on with ur life not becos u are weak and not good enuff for her. but becos when u have all this pent up feelings and sh[/i]it running thru ur head, there's no way u and her can become "normal friends" first. unless u kerb ur feelings and think STRAIGHT then maybe there's a chance. also dun forget the power of the sub-conscious.
  
  go army lar brudder! it'll make u a man! best wishes dude.

  yoz brother we got minds tat think alike.... but ur english more chim
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:28

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  not cherish love lah..... someone else i think

  morning hong.
  
  hehe well he post in this forum mar so seems abit funnee..
  
  does juan juan have a dimple?
• thhong22

  17 Apr 03, 10:30

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  morning hong.
  
  hehe well he post in this forum mar so seems abit funnee..
  
  does juan juan have a dimple?

  morning jOhO
  hmmm..... let me think......
  not sure leh..... ask angeline, she talk more to her tat day, shld have notice
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:34

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  morning jOhO
  hmmm..... let me think......
  not sure leh..... ask angeline, she talk more to her tat day, shld have notice

  wonder if she'll kill me for calling her juan juan.
  
  then u are hong hong and angeline is hui hui.. mauhahahahhah
• thhong22

  17 Apr 03, 10:35

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  wonder if she'll kill me for calling her juan juan.
  
  then u are hong hong and angeline is hui hui.. mauhahahahhah

  then how u wan us to call u???
  jia jia or huai huai??? hahahaha
  
  
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 10:36

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  er... btw just out of curiousity, why post your problem in this forum?

  Hmm.... kind of a tough question which I'm not able to ans sorry
• Knapper

  17 Apr 03, 10:36

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  not cherish love lah..... someone else i think

  who is cherish love?
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:36

  Originally posted by thhong22:

  then how u wan us to call u???
  jia jia or huai huai??? hahahaha
  
  

  call me "shuai ge" can liow.
• IamAngeline

  17 Apr 03, 10:37

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  call me "shuai ge" can liow.

  shuai ge~~~
  
• jOhO

  17 Apr 03, 10:37

  Originally posted by Knapper:

  Hmm.... kind of a tough question which I'm not able to ans sorry

  aiyoh u ar.. alot of questions so tough cannot answer..
  
  ok then wat's einstein's third law of relativity?