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Symptoms of Video Game Addiction in Teens
Although it hasn't been given an "official" diagnosis,
addiction-like behaviors with computer, video, and Internet gaming have
noticeably increased among both teenagers and adults. Like any addictive
behavior, there are signs to look for if you suspect your teen might
have a gaming addiction. Your teen need only exhibit two or three of
these symptoms for his behavior to be considered "addictive."
Though this list is not exhaustive, it provides warning signs for
parents, friends, and other family members to look for if they are
concerned about someone's use of video, computer, or Internet games.
This list can also be used as a self-diagnosis tool for those who
believe they may have a problem.
Preoccupation
Someone who is addicted to computer, video, or Internet gaming often
exhibits an unusual preoccupation with the game or computer when he is
away from it. The teen could seem distracted, irritable, or
disinterested and may talk about the game almost constantly.
Downplaying Computer Use
t's common for someone with addictive, computer-related behaviors to
downplay the amount of time she spends in front of the TV or computer.
The person may make excuses, saying she "needs" to be online, or may
outright lie.
Lack Of Control
A person who is addicted, or at risk of becoming addicted to gaming, is
unable to control the amount of time she spends on the computer. She may
go online with the intent to spend 15 or 20 minutes, but will keep
extending the time until several hours have passed.
Loss Of Time
Along the same lines, a person may sit down at his computer, again with
the intent to spend only a few minutes, but completely lose track of
time and suddenly find that several hours have passed. It is not unusual
for someone with a gaming addiction to play through the night and only
realize how much time has passed when the sun begins to rise.
Negative Impact On Other Areas Of Life
Because the person spends so much time on the computer or video game
console, other areas of life are neglected. He may grow distant from
friends and family who had previously been close. Homework may go
unfinished, causing grades to slip. In more extreme cases, the teen may
even neglect personal hygiene, choosing to play video games rather than
taking a shower.
Hiding From Negative Or Uncomfortable Feelings Or Situations
Some people become addicted to gaming because they use it to
self-medicate. When confronted with situations or feelings that are
uncomfortable (feeling sad, arguing with a friend, or getting a bad
grade), the person may "hide" in the game as a method of avoidance.
Defensiveness
When confronted or asked about his time spent gaming, a person may
become defensive. Denial is often an indication that something is wrong,
especially if the person seems unconcerned that friends and family feel
neglected or left out of his life.
Misuse Of Money
Someone who is addicted to video, computer, or Internet gaming will
spend a disproportionate amount of money on computer-related items. The
person will seem to be continually upgrading hardware, software
packages, and accessories. This becomes an even greater problem if the
person spends money that should be used for bills, groceries, and other
necessities.
Mixed Feelings
As with any addiction, use of the "substance" – in this case, the video
game – initially causes euphoric feelings, but that euphoria is quickly
followed by guilt. Guilt may be felt either over what the person is
doing while online or simply the amount of time he is spending at the
computer.
http://www.video-game-addiction.org/symptoms-computer-addiction-teens.html